Thanks GM
Look, you did nothing wrong. What we accept as adults in the search for a happy normal life with a partner/kids/dog/cat ect, is silly sometimes, but only in hindsight.
Sometimes by the time you've been sucked in, it's too late. And you can't see any light at the end of the tunnel when you're in a black hole.
The thing to remember (i have been reminded of this) is that when you have kids, you don't owe YOURSELF a sex life, a partner, a job, or anything. You owe your KIDS first.. their happiness, ect.. ok, a lot of kids are happy if their parents are happy, but only on the outside....you have done your kids a HUGE justice by giving this twat the elbow, now they won't grow up with a warped view of how a relationship should be, and hopefully won't accept the same crap.
I'm no judgy person, boy, it'd be pot kettle black if i was. It took a lot, and like i said, a very near miss with the life of my baby before i finally called it a day.
He cheated numerous times, verbally abused me, emotionally abused me, cocklodged, you name it.. ok, i feel i did my best, i has DS and he 'changed' fuckin didnt last very long i can tell you. And every post i do now i hope he reads, the twat bag. Because he made my and my kids lives a misery.
Do you know my DS1 (11) said the other day 'You must have been very kind to forgive X for cheating on you'
I didn't even know he knew
And then had to follow the loooooong discussion as i tried to make sure my DS won't grow up into a cheating twatbag as a result of me letting one taint his life for the sake of a shag.
Yup, HIS kids, he can be a poor excuse for a father to them now. I have seen him with them, i have his number. Passive agressive emotional abuse of kids right in front of your eyes does have that effect..i will be watching, listening and asking questions of DS2 in the future when he has contact. The minute TWATBAG treats him like the XSC's, i'll put the blockers on it.
Its the least i can do after my poor choice of sperm donor lead to him having THAT for a father.
I still say well done you.
Nothing wrong with a WEBSITE full of people giving good advice, where a lot of them have walked that mile in your shoes..if you have no friends in RL you can ask, we are always here, and we will tell it how it is, which is probably why the control freak didn't like you asking advice.
He knew his number would be called by someone with experience.
Thank god you came on here or you may have been stuck with his shitty behaviour for longer x