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Clean Slate- Should my ex be letting her boyfriend sleep with my son?

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Mowgli21 · 25/02/2009 13:17

Scenario is then...... All that I have said but forget the 'Hearsay'.....

Ex - Mother is allowing our son to sleep with her 'Boyfriend' should I be comfortable with that? Son does not like the situation. She denies that the boyfriend exists..... Yet she has just returned from holiday and son insists that the boyfriend was there.....

RealityIsMyOnlyDelusion.... She is asking our son to lie, he does not like it which is why I get the information... As for whether I would use it against her or kick off then it is something I am not happy with, which is why I am seeking advice

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Rhubarb · 25/02/2009 21:02

And as for sharing M&Ms, well that is completely OUT OF ORDER! You are just so abusive to even suggest SHARING them, in fact I'll go even further and say that you are bullying people out of their M&Ms.

Stayingsunnygirl · 25/02/2009 21:57

But ... but ... b-b-but - they're my M&Ms and I volunteered to share them!!!!

Stayingsunnygirl passes generous handfuls of M&Ms to Rhubarb and Hecate,

dittany · 25/02/2009 21:58

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AnyFucker · 25/02/2009 22:04

Dittany, I do not always see eye to eye with you

But to bring past history onto an unrelated thread is not very fair

I admire your strong stance on certain subjects, even if I don't agree with it

beanieb · 25/02/2009 22:11

Hi - not sure if it's appropriate for me to post but I am sorry if anything I said came over as being personal, as in an attempt to have a go at Dittany. That wasn't my intention.

Not seen if any of my posts have been deleted but if they were, sorry that it upset you.

FWIW I am definitely not pro Families need Fathers type groups, as I truly believe they are damaging for some of the men who might be tempted to join them.

Again, Sorry.

dittany · 25/02/2009 22:14

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AnyFucker · 25/02/2009 22:15

shake hands now, you two

beanieb · 25/02/2009 22:19

yes, of course.

Stayingsunnygirl · 25/02/2009 22:26

Offers M&Ms to AnyFucker, dittany and beanieb.

BitOfFun · 25/02/2009 22:28

beanieb, were you ok after locking horns on that other thread? I thought you got a bit of a bum deal and I wanted to check you were ok...I guess you're still with us though

AnyFucker · 25/02/2009 22:30

< grabs handful of m+m's >

oo, ta

I like the green ones ..

beanieb · 25/02/2009 22:52

Oooh BitofFun I can't remember the thread, which hopefully means I was ok

BitOfFun · 25/02/2009 23:10

That's alright then, I won't make you revisit the trauma...you obviously have the hide of a rhino

beanieb · 25/02/2009 23:13

To be honest, I forget people's names most of the time so I rarely remember who's upset me!

Am tempted to search and re-live the trauma

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