Clean Slate- Should my ex be letting her boyfriend sleep with my son?

[Mowgli21]

Scenario is then...... All that I have said but forget the 'Hearsay'.....

Ex - Mother is allowing our son to sleep with her 'Boyfriend' should I be comfortable with that? Son does not like the situation. She denies that the boyfriend exists..... Yet she has just returned from holiday and son insists that the boyfriend was there.....

RealityIsMyOnlyDelusion.... She is asking our son to lie, he does not like it which is why I get the information... As for whether I would use it against her or kick off then it is something I am not happy with, which is why I am seeking advice

Anyway - enough.

Give it a rest for God's sake...

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oh no, you did not just do the line!

That is for me to do, AnyFucker...I am not pleased!

LOOOOOOOL @ Hecate you are a very funny lady.

Not the line - listen to Jesus

I have seen plenty of other people saying the same thing funny that.

Has the OP gone now?

no no, what I said was "but it does often come over on here that you are very anti men. You may not intend it to look that way but it does."

to me it does, that is my opinion based upon some of the posts I read by you on subjects like this. Clearly to other people it does. I was supporting the other people who said so after you responded to them.

that is all I was meaning. Had I lurched into some kind of unilateral 'Attack' then I agree it would be very unfair and very un-mumsnet. As it is I was just commenting on responses by other people.

I know you may not be intending for your posts to come across that way, and I know that my interpretation of them may be skewed so lets just both of us think a little about how we both post and try to move on and maybe learn a little if we can.

Again - we really do need a 'Peace' smiley on this place.

Am leaving now, and kicking myself for saying i was leaving and then not leaving as i think I said something to the OP about the futility of this kind of thing

< opens scrunched-up eyes >

did the line work ?

dittany you are entitled to your opinions, of course you are - you know i really like you (at least i hope you know) and you really do give some great advice. (people would do well to remember that actually). I have pointed out to you before that you do tend to be a bit anti men. I don't know your history but it reads like you have been really hurt in the past and are perhaps carrying some of that with you. That makes me quite for you - there are decent men out there. Saying all of this, you were lovely to a MAN poster on here a short while ago who was getting a really hard time on his thread and i have changed my opinion on you drastically. I actually think you are just a really lovely person who feels you have to jump to peoples defence and fight their corner vociferously. I do think that sometimes you fail to see the other side of the story - there usually is one.

Don't take it to heart, just be prepared to see both sides.

And if anyone else picks on you, tell me and i'll beat em up for you

fuck, no

"did the line work?"

yes

erm, no

oh dammit.

Naughty step pingping, off you go!

beanieb, my child, you seem to have recovered your humour...my work here is done. Peace

sorry meant to say "cry control or abuse at the first sign of any wrong doing no matter how insignificant"

Aaargghhh!!

If the crazy miogynist OP does think women are all mad witches, then frankly the tail end of this thread is doing little to disabuse him of this opinion.

Stop it, or I'll do a double line.

Is it safe yet, have you all stopped?