to think a 35 year old man should have had at least one BJ in his life so far???

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I actually enjoy giving blow jobs - I like to give pleasure
NM, 35, sexually experienced, pretty good in sack, very considerate lover, good at giving shall we say!
Seemed VERY grateful for BJ and later admitted he had NEVER had one before - has had a good few partners and a few long term relationships!!
How is this possible???? He says he likes to give pleasure (and I can see that he is a very caring loving guy), and he also thought BJ's a bit odd (might add though he didnt ask me to stop and certainly seemed to enjoy it ) ...
Are there girls out there who just dont do it at all??? Personally I think this is selfish love making??? So AIBU am genuinely interested here?
FWIW I AM a regular I AM not a troll have name changed for obvious reasons

I know quite a few women who wouldn't do it for a million pounds.

Reasons given include, degrading, submissive, past experiences being to over excited and taste

I'm not that keen so I don't do them.

I'm certainly not selfish.

I'm just REALLY FUCKING GOOD at everything else

I likes to give 'em

i would find it a bit strange that at 35 none of the woman he has been with would do it!

does he smell a bit down there?

in saying that my friends dh got drunk at xmas and addmitted h has never given her oral, they have been together 18 years.

i felt a bit sorry for her

he's telling you that so you feel sorry for him and give him one every night this week

bet it's worked every time

I've heard of women that won't but I've never met a man that would tolerate never getting one.

Are you sure his cock doesn't smell?

DH loves em so I give em!! and he assures me that I am very good them!

As long as the man has had a shower so he is minty fresh so to speak, why not?

My problem is that I do it under the duvet (to keep warm!) and then find that I cannot breathe so have to keep coming up for air, all the while commenting on his mahoosive manhood so I dont spoil the mood!! {grin]

not my fav thing

but dh gets one every now and again - and he is very happy when he does get one

luckily for me he likes to give more than he recieves

cant beleive he has NEVER had one at the garand age of 35

lol all ...no he doesnt smell, is lovely down there, nice size, tastes good, quite controlled so not overexcites, let me take it at my own speed, didnt grab my hair, didnt force my head down - TBH all in all was very pleasant experience !!
He has had a decent number of past partners and I think this is what surprised me that NOT one had ever given him a BJ, and that he had never asked for one
Is early days, but he is extremely considerate not just sexually, is this something to put me off???
An yes he has had one every day lol not complaining have had plenty in return

A friend of mine had a bloke once who refused point blank to give her oral, his excuse was that she was too hairy - bloody cheek! I've known men that love it and those that are not that keen (going down on women) but still willing to do it now and then.

I don't know about women not liking it, I mean how can it be degrading if reciprocated?

I reckon it is a bit selfish if you never give your partner oral if they like it...even if you are wonderful in every other aspect. You got to learn to love it if they do.

(I'd like to ask opinions on another sexual misdemeanour but am slightly to ask and don't want to be accused of hijacking...)

I know loads of women who have never and would never give a BJ (or so they claim )

Mrs M - butter wouldn't melt, eh?

nancygarden ask away or add your own thread

Certainly cheaper than buying a birthday present.

Now I'm thinking he's making it up so he gets loads?

Are there men who accept never getting one? I've never met one, but then I give them willingly, without being asked so I suppose it's never an issue

Think he thinks all his birthdays have come at once
But TBH he is a VERY good lover Am actaully a bit cross that none of his previous partners wanted to reciprocate - I can guess he would never ask (he is not that kind of guy) but we havent been together very long and I had to literally fling him over and do it lol - he didnt complain though

it would surprise you how many i know havent had one, dont enjoy it myself but will do it .

pregnanthedgewitch-why do something you hate?

i know most men love them, but i wouldnt do something i hated and really disliked

Well I have had a goodly number of partners and this is the first one I have met who has not asked and has admitted to never having had one - I dont think he is making it up he seemed quite embaressed to admit it !

I agree if you hate it so much then, no point there would be no pleasure in it for you.

Ok, here goes: an ex of mine had an obsession with face ejaculations - I never consented so he never did but asked countless times. What say you? I found that degrading and am sure I once read something germaine greer wrote about it that escapes me now but put me off big time.

I guess I'm just suprised as I have never known a man not have one, or been the type not to ask.
I love giving them so they would never have to ask but it still strikes me as odd that a guy at 35 who is good in bed has never had one.
I always think good in bed comes with honesty and no inhibitions and I think he muct have them if he's never had his cock sucked!