to think a 35 year old man should have had at least one BJ in his life so far???

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I actually enjoy giving blow jobs - I like to give pleasure
NM, 35, sexually experienced, pretty good in sack, very considerate lover, good at giving shall we say!
Seemed VERY grateful for BJ and later admitted he had NEVER had one before - has had a good few partners and a few long term relationships!!
How is this possible???? He says he likes to give pleasure (and I can see that he is a very caring loving guy), and he also thought BJ's a bit odd (might add though he didnt ask me to stop and certainly seemed to enjoy it ) ...
Are there girls out there who just dont do it at all??? Personally I think this is selfish love making??? So AIBU am genuinely interested here?
FWIW I AM a regular I AM not a troll have name changed for obvious reasons

nancy, yes, that is a step too far for me too

nancysgarden - that wasnt that

dh likes to do that every now and again, tbh i dont mind but prefer him to wank on my breasts

i must learn to namechange on these topics

are we nearly at bum sex yet?

My husband doesn't like them although I would be willing and have been known to swallow in previous relationships!

He says its the same as my dislike of pedicures. I feel really uncomfortable having someone groveling around on the floor at my feet. It feels degrading to me, he feels the same about bjs.

I'm married to bloody Germaine Greer!

muggle - he is the most honest guy I have met in a long time both in and out of bed!
He doesnt seem inhibited pretty open at what he wants to do lol, what he likes, not toooo adventurous yet is early days but pretty good....and says he is up for anything
TBh I guess as I like giving them have never had a partner NEED to ask ...if am honest this has thrown me a tad not entirely sure why???

Nickschick now thats a different story

OP - Poor him - but lucky to find you! I grew up in a previous generation to many of you maybe - so this was what we did with out boyfriends before we were ready for to go full monty so was a pretty normal saturday night in Portsmouth in 1977

BHMF

I'll probably regret not namechanging but fuck it we're all grown up and each to their own and all that.

I love giving dp a bj but it's because I love him. The thought of it with past bfs was bleugh but with him it's ......

I don't mind what he chooses to do with the produce because I'll do whatever makes him happy and in turn that makes me happy and turned on but to be honest he's not had much choice in the matter for a while because we've been TTC.

Well I am happy to swallow not the best thing I've ever eaten lol ;) But jeez if you've been sucking a guys dick and have him inside you etc etc I really dont get the not swallowing bit
Maybe is just me then - yes is better with some than others with this guy is a pleasure because he is so loving and considerate towards me

I had a bf who was 29 who had never had sex let alone a bj. I taught him some filth and told him it was normal

I dont like giving them much but have done it a few times when really in the mood.

But I cannot believe he has never had a bj before, sounds strange...

but jizz tastes foul!!

Yes it does Blondes. Ever noticed how the smell of bean/ seed sprouts is more than slightly reminiscent?

Well someone has to like them I guess

DH gets them perhaps once a month. I don't enjoy them but will do it because he likes them. I'm sure there are many women who don't give them. It doesn't surprise me at all.

always make sure got a drink by bed/sofa etc

Love em,

LOL nickschick !

"muggle - he is the most honest guy I have met in a long time both in and out of bed!
He doesnt seem inhibited pretty open at what he wants to do lol, what he likes, not toooo adventurous yet is early days but pretty good....and says he is up for anything
TBh I guess as I like giving them have never had a partner NEED to ask ...if am honest this has thrown me a tad not entirely sure why??? "

Now this would throw me.
He's open, honest, yet has never had a blow job.
Did he not want one?
Why not?

I really can't get my head round this.

yup me too thats why am posting not really sure what to make of it ??
He is VERY considerate in and out of bed ...always asking if I am ok, wanting to please me ...am not sure if it is this ??
And am totally not sure what to make of it - he did lay back and enjoy it though

Guess it doesn't really matter either way if you and he likes it!!

Ooh the 'honeymoon' phase

BJ's are mightly over-rated IMHO.

Was hoping for a mans viewpoint can you shed some light for me barcode???

mugglewump...I really can't get my head round this.

its not your head he wants round it teeee heeee ..........still no bumsex chat???

So if you'd never been offered would you never ask??
If a girl/woman you had recently started seeing, kinda took charge and just did it what would you think of her???