to think a 35 year old man should have had at least one BJ in his life so far???

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I actually enjoy giving blow jobs - I like to give pleasure
NM, 35, sexually experienced, pretty good in sack, very considerate lover, good at giving shall we say!
Seemed VERY grateful for BJ and later admitted he had NEVER had one before - has had a good few partners and a few long term relationships!!
How is this possible???? He says he likes to give pleasure (and I can see that he is a very caring loving guy), and he also thought BJ's a bit odd (might add though he didnt ask me to stop and certainly seemed to enjoy it ) ...
Are there girls out there who just dont do it at all??? Personally I think this is selfish love making??? So AIBU am genuinely interested here?
FWIW I AM a regular I AM not a troll have name changed for obvious reasons

nickschick

nickschick - no, no, no! You've got it wrong!

Start off by facing/looking at his feet, and you end up facing/looking at his face!

Cartwheels NO!

before you even get it in your mouth you have to warm it up first if you really hate having it actually in your mouth you could just use your tongue for the majority then when he gets close to climax put the tip in and keep tickling the tip with your tongue as you wank

ok i'm off b4 HQ remove me for TMI

omg i got that badly wrong didnt i??

nickschick - I wouldn't like to think I was responsible for any injuries to you and Mr Nick.

nickschick you can just do 90 degrees . i.e facing forward then turn head to side while moving tongue if you prefer.

AAhhhhhhhhhhhh now I get it too... at last!

nickschick - I wouldn't like to think I was responsible for any injuries to you and Mr Nick.

believe me we get into enough trouble and injury with the slats on our bed ......it is no fun being in the middle of a mattressthats slipped through.....nor is it fun to have your head stuck in the bars of a very old brass bed and have mr nick say 'do you mind just staying there til ive finished 'whilst youre on all fours with ya head stuck then when he goes into the garage to get the tools to free me have to chat to ds3 whose waiting patiently outside the door for me to take him on a playdate and who believes im in bed not to be disturbed cos i have a headache - 'no ds3 i do not want a drink of vimto to help my poorly head'....'of course we will go to see xxxxx when my poorly head is better in a minute '.......

nick

Thank god for that!

Didn't want to have to post a video.

at you both!

180* eh

might try that, when dh is allowed his monthly treat

PMSL at you lot now this WAS a serious thread
Am just going to enjoy this very considerate caring lover who is totally different to my agressive selfish ex....and will continue to educate him in the joys of the BJ and may even try the 180 degree move ROFL

BJ is very good dh gives and receives so all is well in our house.

I love doing it! And my DH loves it just as much - if not more We've been married for 16 years, I think that once he discovered my 'talent' he realised that he could never leave me

Mind you, he's exceptionally talented too - I'd never ditch a man who has an orgasm hit rate of 100%

My partner and I aren't keen on going down one each other, but we do it to please one another - it doesn't overly both us tbh!

don't see why not giving bj's makes women selfish.

We are constantly telling women that they should never feel pressured into doing things they are not comfortable with, and now we have people essentially saying the opposite

I have never and will never give a bj. And I have been with my dh for nearly 14 years. I think it's disgusting and the thought of it makes me feel physically sick. And if that makes me selfish in other's eyes then imo there are some pretty shallow people out there...

I can't understand how any physical intimacy can be 'disgusting'...have you never been so consumed by passion that you want to ravish every inch of your partners body?!

I think it's sad that some people are so buttoned up when it comes to sex. And then they wonder why their husbands don't see them as sexual beings...

I never give DH one either. BJ's played a large role in a sexually abusive relationship that I had and I still find even the thought of them really upsetting.

I often feel really guilty that I don't do them even though DH says he doesn't mind at all.

I would not say it was selfish to refuse to give a BJ, although I have no problem doing so and enjoy it.

However, I haven't always enjoyed it and for a long time refused to be pressured.

For those that hate it, don't rule it out, I sorta rediscovered them a few yrs ago (along with a few other parts of my sexuality ).

Do what you like, it is nobody elses business, although I think nobody on this thread really meant that you were selfish if you didn't. Just make sure you own defensiveness on the matter (don't forget I've been there...) isn't making you see comments made as negative.

lel, that was totally uncalled for

how are you in a position to judge someone elses relationship

it is not fair to post if you can't add something positive to the discussion

womens fucking solidarity, my arse

btw , I x post with lel, so didn't see her tosh

I too am a bit baffled by the 'disgusting' comments. In my life thus far oral sex has been a perfectly normal part of a healthy, consensual sex life.

However, so long as both sides of the couple are happy with the situation, be it no BJ or BJ every day or indeed anything inbetween, then surely it is nobody elses business ?