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To not give a stuff who stays and who goes?

224 replies

AMumInScotland · 30/10/2008 12:46

Mumsnet is not a private members club, it's a public forum. I'm sad if people feel they have to go because of stalkers or other personally-directed unpleasantness, because that is unpleasant and not what forums are meant to be about.

But if people want to leave because things are not the same as they used to be when there were only a dozen people, and you could leave your door open all day, and it was all fields round here .... well, off you go then!

Change happens, deal with it.

OP posts:
zippitippitoes · 04/11/2008 09:45

zzzzz

i dont understand where you are coming from or why you are bothering tbh

why not just post like you are a nice person

zzzzSLEEPWONTCOMEzzzz · 04/11/2008 09:45

That should say I'm not going to become a Cod lover

JoolsToo · 04/11/2008 09:45

ZZZZZzzzzzzzzz

Dior · 04/11/2008 09:46

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CountessDracula · 04/11/2008 09:46

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zippitippitoes · 04/11/2008 09:46

i agree dior

zippitippitoes · 04/11/2008 09:47

and cd

lets have us a convoy

zzzzSLEEPWONTCOMEzzzz · 04/11/2008 09:48

[meh CD

Otterchocdog · 04/11/2008 09:49

Jesus. If I ever needed my suspicions confirmed, this thread did it.

zzzzSLEEPWONTCOMEzzzz · 04/11/2008 09:50

Anyway I'm off.

Feel free to flame away without me

Oh and BTW, me and and many others are still glad cod is gone and I dont care how much you flame or insult me.

Dior · 04/11/2008 09:50

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Marina · 04/11/2008 09:50

you don't have to be a "cod lover" to wonder why people are crowing about a poster, any poster, being forced off a forum because of anti-social behaviour by other posters

Otterchocdog · 04/11/2008 09:51

Sorry wrong thread.

zzzzSLEEPWONTCOMEzzzz · 04/11/2008 09:51

Dior - have you seen oj's thread - I have already posted on it

stillenduringsurrey · 04/11/2008 09:52

Rhubarb - I have one thing to say to you - you arse licker! (Was that it?? I've forgotten now!!)

IAmNotHere · 04/11/2008 09:53

It's not only what your saying zzzzz, it's also that you're being so public about it.

How about not saying anything if you can't say something nice?

You don't have to like anyone, do you? So why not just express your joy at cod's departure with silence and a bit of grace?

Dior · 04/11/2008 09:53

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stillenduringsurrey · 04/11/2008 09:54

LOl at otterchockdog and misplaced comment

zzzzSLEEPWONTCOMEzzzz · 04/11/2008 09:54

being public on a public forum

I really am off now

Dior · 04/11/2008 09:54

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zippitippitoes · 04/11/2008 09:55

thought otters comment as apposite as any other lolol

filz · 04/11/2008 09:57

was there, is there, any point of this thread?

pamelat · 04/11/2008 09:58

What is OJ's thread?

WhatFreshelleisthis · 04/11/2008 10:01

Iamnothere- I agree with you, esp your last sentence. I just wish those who are saying how much they miss cod and others would do it silently too!

and i dont think zzzzz meant to appear crowing about why cod left (didnt one of her posts say that what happened to her wasnt on) she is just saying why highlight one poster over another

I think a lot of us like certain posters over others (I love Kerrys posts though they madden me too!!)but i would dream of confessing that

electra · 04/11/2008 10:09

I think flouncing has always been one of those things people post about, like Boden, fruit shoots and whatever else.

I agree that it is a forum, but I have never come across a forum that is anything like it!