to find a man who coudlnt drive UTTERLy unattractive

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and rather pathetic

yadaydayd meddical expcetiosn etc

Yes, men or women. How do you go places? It's so limiting not to be able to drive. I live in London, but I sometimes want to go somewhere else. Perhaps it's because I was brought up in a place where if you didn't drive you couldn't go anywhere unless you relied on others.

uqd i did offer medical get out of jail free cards in teh OP

"It's not about car worship, unquiet dad, it's about not pulling your weight in a relationship ."

PLEASE explain that!

if its not pulling your weight then women who cant drive are unattractive too

i dont understand why it is sexy/.. i mean its not hard it doesnt require intelligence or fitness

It might be annoying when it comes to family life, but don't see it as unattractive.

can ANYONE detect a hint of learner driver about UQd?

What a bizarre thing to find unattractive! I find meanness with money, small hands (ugh) and excessive jocularity (fart jokes and the like) unattractive, but never considered ability or lack thereof to drive a blardy car to be something for consideration. It's not like you can tell from the outside, or anything...

so to be complketely sexist are men being driven by women emasculated then

I have two brothers, both in their thirties, neither of whom can drive.

Both single...

I never made the connection before... never occurred to me to put ability to drive on the list of must haves for partners.

Of my Mum, three siblings and I, I am the only driver. It can be a right royal pita at times.

unquietdad is right

chunkychips - Dh and I don't own a car. We go by train if we 'want to get out of London'

read the op
i was ahead of you there

i knwo mn LOEVS to find odd and aobscure reasons why somoene say stirps hteir kid naked in picadilly circus
or whatever

Attractiveness has nothing to do with it, it's just hugely lazy and annoying if one partner can't/won't drive and refuses to learn. I don't care what anyone says the other one, at times ends up ferrying them about or doing all the (tiring and boring) driving on long journeys.

Very life limiting IMO. I have a friend who's partner refuses to have lessons and it bugs the shit out of me that he's so lazy, never mind her.

so a man who is banned from driving

attractive or unattractive

you mad women

Yes, of course i forgot, the only reason people don't learn to drive is because they are lazy!

a banned man i can tell you from EXTENSIVE research on the matter is cross
partic middle aged ones

" call this justice " they holler from teh back of court

exH drove a big manly van and sped about in a manly fashion, not at all attractive bit sad really, but at least I don't have to put up with it.

banned from driving, eurgh.

even more unattractive than undriving man or scooter riding man.

Not only does Dh drive cars but had a motorbike until recently and drives Trains for a living.

He's sooo manly

I didn't learn to drive until I was mid 20's, simply didn't have the cash to pay for lessons let alone buy a car and run it.