To think this is a fair exchange (shocking TMI warning)

[lucyellensmum]

I am STARVING i have been to the inlaws so i think that entitles me to a little treat. Well not treat but some food. We didnt go shopping because we went to the inlaws and the only thing that is open is muckdonalds, but hey, im half pissed, i'll eat anything.

The exchange is oral sex for DP going to get me a burger. I just did it, but he is sulking because i didn't go all the way - well i don't want him falling asleep on me do i!!!

So, fair exchange or is this a total abandonment of my feminist principals.

[expatinscotland]

i mean, if i were going out with a bloke - looonnngg before we got to the marriage/living together stage - and he suggested something like this, it would be a deal breaker.

[sqiushysquashy]

Not something I would ever consider

[expatinscotland]

I'm not offended, either. I do find it pathetic, though.

A bit of fun between couples.

[lucyellensmum]

Well i have to say, i definately sold myself short, as expected burger was vile and the chips cold and too salty - might have to go finish what i started, just to take the taste away.

MMJ and dittany, FGS lighten up, im having a laugh, the whole sex for favours thing, its lighthearted and loving.

[unknownrebelbang]

I'm not offended.

Just wondering why the need to pose the question on here?

[expatinscotland]

yeah, it really sounds that way from some of your other posts, LEM.

but hey ho, it's your life.

[sqiushysquashy]

I couldn't imagine giving dp a BJ and thinking the whole time I'm only doing this for a happy meal .. what a sad state our relationship would be in to get to that point.

Each to their own but I hope dp wouldn't ever want to use sex as a bargaining tool

[lucyellensmum]

I am for once, gobsmacked - i have demaned pussy licking (cant bring myself to say that big long c word - yuck) in return for favours, my word!! I am honestly utterly stunned and puzzled. Just so no one thinks im a poor abused woman who has to offer humiliating sexual favours just to get food - he would have got the food anyway. He would have got the bj anyway.

[Joolyjoolyjoo]

But she didn't say she had to suck his cock, it sounded to me like it was an incentive, and a bit of a joke

[expatinscotland]

sorry, mmj, it was more directed toward dittany .

but i agree.

i dunno, it's just not my idea of 'fun' and 'loving' for some dude to even suggest that, and then actually pull out his cock like i'm some sort of sex toy and then sulk?

i mean, wtf?

[Jazminpoppy]

ITS A BIT OF FUN ON A SATURDAY NIGHT!!!! people please! completely agree with thehedgewitch

[expatinscotland]

i guess peoples' idea of fun comes in all manners.

whatever.

[sqiushysquashy]

Not my idea of loving.

[lucyellensmum]

heres the thing, he likes bjs, i like giving them, i wanted mc d, which i think was the only unreasonable thing tbh, he actually was hungry too. I wouldn't have dreamed of making him go out for food if he wasn;t having any, the bj, that was a bonus, if i didnt like sucking his cock then nothing on this earth would make me do it. Bloody hell i cant believe i just typed that.

[lazarou]

There's some fucked up shit on MN tonight!

[unknownrebelbang]

Yes, but, why the need to "share" with MN?

[lucyellensmum]

he has been known to come and bash me on the head with it to try and distract me from mumsnet. We are big on romance here!

[expatinscotland]

maybe it's fun for your, hedge, but others find it pretty pathetic.

i don't need to use bribery or sex favours to get off in a relationship, i really don't.

i guess i'm not alone in that.