To think this is a fair exchange (shocking TMI warning)

[lucyellensmum]

I am STARVING i have been to the inlaws so i think that entitles me to a little treat. Well not treat but some food. We didnt go shopping because we went to the inlaws and the only thing that is open is muckdonalds, but hey, im half pissed, i'll eat anything.

The exchange is oral sex for DP going to get me a burger. I just did it, but he is sulking because i didn't go all the way - well i don't want him falling asleep on me do i!!!

So, fair exchange or is this a total abandonment of my feminist principals.

[lucyellensmum]

oh, im sorry Mrs Federer, but you shouldnt jump into such a drastic decision based on one poor performance. He tried, and he did it for you!!!

[Saymyname]

Ok. Here's a question then, why are people being so mean to LEM on this thread? It's clearly supposed to be lighthearted.

Just because someone posts in AIBU and has talked about their DH before doesn't mean it's good form to tear apart their entire relationship.

[NiceShoes]

dont agree no one tearing apart the relationship, but LEM lurid accounts paint a peculiar picture.

[mrsfederer]

he is history lem

[wotnopulling]

mistake giving blow job before you got burger, surely?

[theexmrsfederer]

[SueMunch]

I know of a couple who have an arrangement where a BJ is part of the DHs birthday present. Once a year? What's all that about?

[Gateau]

And WHY are you telling us, exactly??!

[TheDevilWearsPrimark]

I'm just trying to figure out how he manages to bash you around the head with it whilst you are
on the computer. Does he bring a step stool, or several Yellow Pages?

[yummymummy1405]

lmao and so will my dh later as for ds pirate and princess birthday party we had a similar agreement to get dh to dress as a princess which he took great pride in telling everyone!!

[pooka]

PMSL yummymummy. It's just the juxtaposition of your posting name and the bile you're spouting.

[Wuxiapian]

Lol

[yummymummy1405]

I should point out that my husband sent that post purely because of his love of blow jobs!

[CoteDAzur]

LEM - "I gave him a BJ so he would go get me a burger" wouldn't necessarily be sad in a couple, especially if they were otherwise secure and were using this as a bit of play.

In your case, it saddens me. In recent days, you told us how "he has said himself he only stays for DD and would have left me ages ago if it wasnt for her " and said "Now im lucky if i get contempt, cos that is better than nothing isnt it", among other things.

Your marriage might survive these difficulties, but for now, it seems like you are depressed, with low self-esteem, and your DH doesn't particularly like being with you (and not just in the sexual sense). In this context, it is alarming that you would offer him a BJ for a burger.

[TinkerBellesMum]

Why did this get resurrected? Thought it had died it's death.

[CoteDAzur]

When was it supposed to have died? Last post was less than 2 hours ago

[TinkerBellesMum]

It wasn't aimed at you:

By SueMunch on Wed 06-Aug-08 12:24:33
By theexmrsfederer on Sun 06-Jul-08 22:29:10

[CoteDAzur]

What seems to be the problem?

[TinkerBellesMum]

No problem, I was just commenting it had been dead for a month and someone restarts it to post a random comment, s'all.

[Onestonetogo]

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[snowwhite24]

New to this but WOW Bj for a macs burger hope it was a big mac????

You guys are very entertaining after you didnt finish him off did he get ya burger?

I think its all fun and games whats really wrong with exchanging sexual favours for favours especially if you have been together for so long lighten up people.

[Twinkie1]

He he - least having the burger afterwards means you get rid of the taste!