To wonder what would happen if I refuse to have DD in my house any longer?

[Qb2654]

Im not being heard, DD is nearly 12.

If I were to refuse to have her home anymore, what would happen?

So much missing from this post op.

You have left out a lot of critical information

You want your 12 year old to leave home ?I think a little more context is needed?

Not home as in working with a social worker to find a group home, or do you mean asking a relative to have her, or do you mean just locking her out and saying fuck it?
Very different response depending on your situation.

Why would you want to?

I’m guessing she’ll go into foster care?

What are the issues?
Disabilities? Moody?

Pay for boarding school, and residential in the holidays.

Is there other family or friends she could go to?

Is her father on the scene?

Well if it leaves her without a home you could be investigated for child neglect or abandonment.

But presuming that there is far more to this story, we can’t answer the question

Who isn’t listening OP?

do you want to tell us what’s going on?

You sound at the end of your tether.

@Qb2654 what do you think would happen?

@Qb2654 What do you want to happen?

Does she have another parent she could stay with? Or a supportive family member who could give you respite?

She would be rightly placed in care if she had no family who would take her. Where is her other parent?
You could face prosecution if you throw her out on the street or emotionally abuse her with threats.
Ring SS immediately. Even thinking of this is a good reason to call.,

Is it one of them give me a reaction threads were op dont come back.

lots of background if you search the user name, child is 11 with sen by the looks of things 😢

As usual.

There’s a very annoying trend lately of threads with little to no information in the OPs.

I can’t for the life of me work out what they get from it.

It sounds like the OP has already reached out for support and hit a brick wall. Presumably they are dealing either with a child with SEND or very challenging behaviour.

OP what contact have you had with children's services? You may have tried these things but this link jas some ideas for where to reach out https://parents.actionforchildren.org.uk/home-family-life/parent-mental-health/parent-i-cant-cope/

Well, that a whole heap of missing information right there!

We need the context here

What do you think? She'd go to foster care? I suppose what about her dad? Would be take her

If you lock her out or refuse to pick her up from school it is likely that the police will be called, she will be placed under police protection and you could potentially be in legal trouble for child neglect.
My local authority would fight you to avoid putting her in care, there will be heavy pressure on you to have her back but hopefully they would put more support in place.