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Aibu to eat in the cinema?

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Roguegal · Yesterday 15:57

I’ve seen loads of people on mumsnet complaining about people eating on the cinema, while watching the film.

In my opinion it’s always been completely normal and acceptable to buy food to eat with the movie. Usually popcorn, sweets, some cinemas even sell hotdogs and nachos and serve a beer.

Aibu to think it’s very normal and fine to eat while watching the movie and that most people do it?

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FoxtrotPapa · Yesterday 17:48

Eating in a cinema during a film is fine, why else would the cinema’s sell food and drink? What IS annoying is rustling of packets during a quiet point in a movie, rustle away when it’s deafening loud in parts (unless a very quiet movie with no action scenes).

Floppyearedlab · Yesterday 17:48

If I can hear it or smell it - no. If not, crack on.

Monty36 · Yesterday 17:49

pinck · Yesterday 16:05

Um, yeah, eating at the movie theater has been completely normal for as long as I can remember. My local movie theater now sells entire pizzas, burgers, wings, nachos, and all sorts of other actual meals, so clearly eating during a movie is not only allowed but somewhat expected. I mean, why would theaters sell all this food if people weren't supposed to eat it while watching the film? Granted, I still mostly see people with popcorn and candy, but the idea that eating in a movie theater is somehow rude or inappropriate is genuinely baffling to me. Obviously, there's a difference between eating your popcorn and being obnoxiously loud or making a mess, but complaining about people simply eating food in a place that literally sells food for that exact purpose seems a little ridiculous.

They sell it because they can make money from the people buying it.
Not because you are required to eat it. They don’t sell it because you are supposed to eat whilst watching a film. You can decide not to. It is not compulsory.
Years ago in the UK the only thing sold in a cinema was an ice cream.
And it was nicer.

MyDpsanarse · Yesterday 17:50

I sat through a film while a man at the back worked his way through a pack of individually wrapped pork pies ( at least that's what they looked like) he'd brought them in a carrier bag so there was the bag rustling, then the plastic wrapping, then the slurping on the filling, apart from him the cinema was quiet. I've rarely disliked someone so quickly in my life

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · Yesterday 17:53

BillieWiper · Yesterday 17:41

Nothing remotely smelly or noisy. Which is difficult as all consumables do make some kind of noise.

I was in a small ish cinema screen recently and a lady a couple seats down from me started eating crispy onion sushi rolls with her hands. She was trying to do it slowly and subtly but it did not work. I didn't even look directly but I could smell every ingredient! TBF the air con might've been on the fritz.

I came down with a COVID type illness a couple days later. Not the sushi eaters fault I'm sure. But it does feel antisocial!

Smelly hot food should IMO be banned altogether from cinemas. It’s very unpleasant for anyone nearby.

mochimoons · Yesterday 17:53

It's normal but I still complain about it because lots of people eat like animals

Sparrowsandbudgies · Yesterday 17:55

Those people commenting on people being overweight need to stop being so ignorant and judgemental. I am disabled and I am also overweight; mainly due to the huge doses of steroids I take to keep the lupus I have under control so it doesn’t attack my bladder and heart. Going to the cinema is one of the very few things I can do that doesn’t involve me having to do very much- I often feel too unwell to walk far, I have a blue badge and I’m on the highest rates of PIP indefinitely. So yes, when I go to the cinema I will have a Dr Pepper, some churros and maybe even a hot dog. I don’t eat like that everyday. But it’s nice to know people are judging me for it.

BillieWiper · Yesterday 17:57

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · Yesterday 17:53

Smelly hot food should IMO be banned altogether from cinemas. It’s very unpleasant for anyone nearby.

Deffo true. Though that unfortunately didn't stop the sushi muncher! All the smells are exacerbated for some reason! It used to just smell of popcorn but now it smells of all sorts of odd things? 😬

pinck · Yesterday 17:57

Monty36 · Yesterday 17:49

They sell it because they can make money from the people buying it.
Not because you are required to eat it. They don’t sell it because you are supposed to eat whilst watching a film. You can decide not to. It is not compulsory.
Years ago in the UK the only thing sold in a cinema was an ice cream.
And it was nicer.

No, obviously snacks aren’t compulsory, I never said they were. I said they’re a normal and expected part of the cinema experience. And “they only sell them because people buy them” isn’t really a rebuttal when concessions are literally one of the main ways movie theaters stay profitable. If people suddenly stopped buying food and drinks, a lot of theaters would be in serious trouble.

user1464187087 · Yesterday 17:57

wishingonastar101 · Yesterday 17:07

popcorn, revels yes.
burger and fries no.

one of the reasons everyone is fat is that they eat all the time.

Everyone if fat? Literally everyone?
I'm not, I want to gain weight.

Imdunfer · Yesterday 17:59

I personally hate the noise but if the cinema sells it, it's fair game. Mine even sells (great!) pizzas and gives you a buzzer to tell you when to come and collect them.

Mangelwurzelfortea · Yesterday 18:00

It's horrible. It may be normalised but the rustling and sound of smacky-lipped eating actually puts me off going to the cinema at all.

But even worse - I was at a West End musical recently and the woman in the seat in front had brought in an egg salad in a tupperware box and ate it during the show. WHO DOES THAT?! Smelly egg as well!

user1464187087 · Yesterday 18:00

Resealablestrip · Yesterday 17:08

My point was cinema food normalised the idea that every time you sit down for a couple of hours you need a mountian of junk food. People are doing the same when they sit down in the evening at home because it's how things 'should' be.

Can you quote us some official data on that sweeping statement?

BillieWiper · Yesterday 18:00

Sparrowsandbudgies · Yesterday 17:55

Those people commenting on people being overweight need to stop being so ignorant and judgemental. I am disabled and I am also overweight; mainly due to the huge doses of steroids I take to keep the lupus I have under control so it doesn’t attack my bladder and heart. Going to the cinema is one of the very few things I can do that doesn’t involve me having to do very much- I often feel too unwell to walk far, I have a blue badge and I’m on the highest rates of PIP indefinitely. So yes, when I go to the cinema I will have a Dr Pepper, some churros and maybe even a hot dog. I don’t eat like that everyday. But it’s nice to know people are judging me for it.

I don't care if someone's overweight. I wouldn't even look. As long as they're not taking up more than one seat. A skinny person's hotdog or sushi smells and sounds just as annoying as a fat one's!

MadnessInMyMethod · Yesterday 18:01

Kalanthe · Yesterday 17:47

People who go to the cinema for entertainment eat food. It's part of the experience and it's absolutely fine. Cinemas sell loads of food for a reason. Popcorn has been sold in cinemas for 100 years. There's nothing wrong with that.

Some people go to smaller cinemas to see independent films. Some of them see themselves as cinema connoisseurs. They don't want to mindlessly munch popcorn as they consider watching independent films to be a cultural experience.

I've done both and I would never feel guilty that I'm munching popcorn in an odeon watching a blockbuster.

It's gone far beyond popcorn, though, that's the problem. This is pasted from Vue's website

No big screen experience is complete without an abundance of delicious munchables. Food and drink from Vue is anything from big bites to smaller snacks you simply can’t resist, we’ve got every craving covered... and some of the other ones you didn’t even realise you had. We’re talking hot food like chicken tenders, pizza, chicken popcorn, potato wedges, mini pancakes, mini donuts, nachos, hot dogs; snacks like chocolate bags, sweet bags, pick 'N' mix, crisps and drinks like Pepsi, Tango Ice Blast, milkshakes, ice cream, crisps and anything else with a bit of heft to it. When it comes to your in-film food, you’re not here to mess around. And neither are we. Cinema food and drink have never looked so mouthwateringly good.

I don't want to sit next to someone eating what is essentially a full meal with the accompanying noise and smell. It's distracting. I want to enjoy an immersive big screen experience without being reminded of my surroundings - that's the whole point of the cinema.

A bit of popcorn or some non-rustling sweets are fair enough but with all that stuff on the menu, they might as well just install a big screen in McDonalds,

DeftGoldHedgehog · Yesterday 18:01

Yes I do, but I finish eating my chocolate before the film starts.

rookiemere · Yesterday 18:01

Feel free to chomp,slurp and munch on whatever is sold at the concession stand or shop bought sweets etc until the film starts and then for the love of god, keep your chewing and drinking noises to an absolute minimum.

An absolute no to outside bought hot and/or smelly food. There was a thread once about bringing a Macdonalds into the cinema, I
mean seriously you have the other 21.5 hours to eat meals you really don’t need to do
it at the cinema.

TheLastSilverSaint · Yesterday 18:04

Why do people think cinemas sell food? The whole point is that it's meant to be eaten while you watch the film. Cinemas have been selling food to eat during the film pretty much since cinemas have existed, so why would it be 'unreasonable' to do exactly what the venue intends you to do?

Sure, some people find it annoying, but the fact that some people don't like something doesn't mean it's unreasonable to do it. People shouldn't be talking, getting up and down all the time, checking phones or making unnecessary noise, but eating the food that the cinema literally sells to be eaten during the film is totally fine.

I think people who complain about people eating the popcorn or sweets or hotdogs that are sold at the cinema are kind of missing the point that watching a film at the cinema isn't meant to be the same as watching one at home and that the popcorn and what-have-you is intended to be part of the experience. Watching a film at the cinema with an audience isn't meant to be the same as watching a film at home, and going to the cinema and complaining that someone is eating the food the cinema sells is a bit like going to the cinema and complaining that they won't pause the film for you to go to the toilet.

PistachioTiramisu · Yesterday 18:05

One of the reasons I NEVER go to the cinema - too loud, too bright, too many people being antisocial - just awful. I have no objection to people eating non-smelly, non-noisy food quietly but not when they have to share every bite with the rest of the audience.

Teddleshon1 · Yesterday 18:09

I just can’t understand why people can’t sit through a film without chomping their way through grotesquely overpriced junk food.

Cherrysoup · Yesterday 18:10

angelos02 · Yesterday 16:03

As long as it doesn't make any noise, no problem.

But inevitably someone has very rustly packaging. Our local independent serves plates of cheese and crackers, ruddy marvellous! Theres a bar downstairs too.

Megifer · Yesterday 18:11

user1464187087 · Yesterday 18:00

Can you quote us some official data on that sweeping statement?

Id be interested in this too. It feels like quite a significant thing - that its cinema food marketing that is to blame for the alleged widespread culture of always eating when watching a film, having a direct impact on the NHS.

MadnessInMyMethod · Yesterday 18:13

kind of missing the point that watching a film at the cinema isn't meant to be the same as watching one at home and that the popcorn and what-have-you is intended to be part of the experience.

No, you are paying for the immersive experience of watching a film on a huge screen with surround sound. Popcorn is fair enough, it's all the hot food that's a nuisance. Yes, the cinemas sell it, I get that, so you can't complain to people eating it, it's just an annoying situation. It isn't as though, nowadays, it would be difficult for people to get that kind of food to eat at home while watching a film.

Roguegal · Yesterday 18:15

TheLastSilverSaint · Yesterday 18:04

Why do people think cinemas sell food? The whole point is that it's meant to be eaten while you watch the film. Cinemas have been selling food to eat during the film pretty much since cinemas have existed, so why would it be 'unreasonable' to do exactly what the venue intends you to do?

Sure, some people find it annoying, but the fact that some people don't like something doesn't mean it's unreasonable to do it. People shouldn't be talking, getting up and down all the time, checking phones or making unnecessary noise, but eating the food that the cinema literally sells to be eaten during the film is totally fine.

I think people who complain about people eating the popcorn or sweets or hotdogs that are sold at the cinema are kind of missing the point that watching a film at the cinema isn't meant to be the same as watching one at home and that the popcorn and what-have-you is intended to be part of the experience. Watching a film at the cinema with an audience isn't meant to be the same as watching a film at home, and going to the cinema and complaining that someone is eating the food the cinema sells is a bit like going to the cinema and complaining that they won't pause the film for you to go to the toilet.

Exactly this.

It’s always the same comments about why can’t you go two hours without eating.

The food and film are the package. I wouldn’t sit and eat a tub of popcorn or a pot of sweets any other time really. They go with the film. Popcorn especially is really moreish and is an ideal snack to have while enjoying watching something.

People aren’t eating it yet snacks because they can’t go two hours without eating, they are purposely enjoying the snacks as part of the package.

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MyManinCaracas · Yesterday 18:15

AIiswatchingyou · Yesterday 16:02

Why do you need to eat at that time? Will it fit your food pattern for the day/week?

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC11722569/

It is important to understand that eating whilst watching TV impedes feelings of fullness and increases how much you eat.

That might not matter to you unless you've got a cinema yearly pass and go every other day.

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You’re crackers 🤣

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