To think a man with five kids he barely sees won’t be considered a catch on the dating scene?

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It’s my ex. I am feeling quite bitter tonight and could do with some reassurance that he won’t continue getting everything he wants…

Are all the 5 kids yours?

I wouldn’t date any man who has children!

No, that's not unreasonable. next question.

No, but the two youngest are… I was stupid enough to take a chance on him

Well he’s not going to tell them, is he? No woman in her right mind would take on a man with 5 kids unless they were fully grown and had their own homes.

Is he hot?

Yes unfortunately

There's always that woman who believes the stories and believes the exes were the problem.

On the face of it you are so right.

But there might just be someone out there who will fall for the line that you are the crazy ex who denies him access to his children.

Men always land on their feet, it’s shite but that’s life.

PSA for anyone dating: please use Clare’s Law if he has a “crazy ex” or especially two of them

More fool any woman who takes him on!

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Of course he will because women are stupid. I say this as a woman. He will spin a tale of how his baby mamas make it oh so hard for him to see his kids and he loves them so much but parental alienation boo hoo etc

Desperate folk might. But otherwise, hell no!

You did so somebody else will.

Always, someone willing to settle just for the sake of having something.

Unfortunately someone else probably will be too.

But that doesn't necessarily mean he'll live a happy, fulfilled life.

What about you? What are your plans for the future now you're free of him and whatever misery he inflicted on you?

He won’t be a “catch” it will reduce the numbers interested considerably due to the baggage but there is someone for everyone out there .

Yes

Sorry to disappoint but from what I see, collectively women’s standards are in the toilet. I mean how else would some men manage to have loads of kids with multiple women?

He will definitely find somebody.

Raising a toddler and a baby entirely alone keeps me pretty busy, alongside working 32hrs a week. I barely have time to shower, let alone make plans for the future

Well, it clearly didn't bother you that he had 3 children that he presumably didn't see

T'is but a short phase in a long life that will ultimately be a million times better now he's not in it. You'll look back one day and be so happy you got out when you did, and feel nothing but pity for the poor woman who's lumped with him, I promise

He saw them regularly when we were together. Since we split a few months ago, they don’t want to see him. And he’s on bail for assaulting me and our toddler so isn’t allowed to see ours

Then he will still find some sorts of relationships…I’m just thinking if Boris Johnson managed to then a hot man would?