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AIBU to think if we need to politely ask men not to rape women (or men), then we don't want such people in the UK?

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bobbyydazzler · 19/08/2026 20:26

Don't rape, sexually assault or make kissing noises' at people, asylum seekers warned in guidance about living in UK
UK arrivals have been told to treat women equally, not sexually assault partners or have sex with children in a new Home Office pamphlet. As well as the guidebook, a series of posters have also been designed by the government.

https://news.sky.com/story/asylum-seekers-warned-not-to-make-kissing-sounds-at-people-in-new-guidance-about-living-in-uk-13574744

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Neverstopwondering · 24/08/2026 10:40

nomas · 24/08/2026 10:12

Telling a poster I see through them is very different to someone telling me 'I see you, in fact, I've seen you for a long time.'

If I had said that to you, you would not have accepted it, so why pretend?

"I see you"

To me that means:

I see what you are trying to do (As in negative behaviour) or I see what you have been doing (as in this is repeated behaviour)

It is something I occasionally have said to the teenagers at school when they are acting shifty. So really hope I am not now accused of threatening them 😂

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bobbyydazzler · 24/08/2026 10:47

9 of the 10 worst countries in the world for women are Muslim majority countries.

Most of the muslim girls are discouraged, sometimes fatally, from seeking an education.
Rape victims also can be forced, by law, to marry their attacker.
More than half of all brides are under 16, and one women dies in childbirth every half an hour.
A large majority, up to 85 percent, of women in (Afghanistan) give birth with no medical attention. It is the country with the highest maternal mortality rate in the world.
Muslim countries overall are ranked as the worst country for women in three areas – sexual violence, access to healthcare, and access to economic resources.
Suicide, murder, rape and mental health conditions are skyrocketing in a stretch of Muslim-majority countries from Morocco to Pakistan.

Yet we welcome such activity to the UK? Why aren't the government stopping the mass immigration of undocumented young males from such countries?

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AndyKitten · 24/08/2026 10:49

Neverstopwondering · 24/08/2026 10:40

"I see you"

To me that means:

I see what you are trying to do (As in negative behaviour) or I see what you have been doing (as in this is repeated behaviour)

It is something I occasionally have said to the teenagers at school when they are acting shifty. So really hope I am not now accused of threatening them 😂

It does mean I see you for what you are. And what you said, of course.

It’s not easily understood when English is not your first language.

LuckyHazelFox · 24/08/2026 10:56

Don't forget to start a part 2 thread @bobbyydazzler we don't want this subject being buried, despite numerous attempts x

bobbyydazzler · 24/08/2026 10:57

Gang Rapes in Germany—Migrants Are Main Perpetrators

The release of 2025 crime statistics has coincided with an expanding police investigation into a migrant grooming network in Nuremberg.

Germany recorded 751 gang rapes in 2025 and the majority of the offenders were foreigners, according to figures released by the federal government in response to a parliamentary inquiry by the right-wing opposition Alternative für Deutschland (AfD) party.

The statistics identified 1,083 suspects in connection with the recorded gang rapes. Of these, 53% were non-German nationals—among them 110 Syrians, 64 Afghans, 46 Iraqis, and 44 Turks. The rest of the perpetrators held German citizenship, but the data doesn’t say whether they are of a migrant background.

https://europeanconservative.com/articles/news/germany-gang-rapes-migrants-main-perpetrators/

Gang Rapes in Germany—Migrants Are Main Perpetrators

The release of 2025 crime statistics has coincided with an expanding police investigation into a migrant grooming network in Nuremberg.

https://europeanconservative.com/articles/news/germany-gang-rapes-migrants-main-perpetrators/

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bobbyydazzler · 24/08/2026 11:00

Vienna Calls in Police Reinforcements as Migrant Youth Crime Escalates

Forty-eight police officers from Austria’s federal states are to be deployed to Vienna for up to three months from September, as authorities respond to growing concerns over migrant youth crime and violence in the capital.

https://europeanconservative.com/articles/news/vienna-migrant-youth-crime-police-reinforcements-fpo/

Vienna Calls in Police Reinforcements as Migrant Youth Crime Escalates

Police from six Austrian states are being brought into the capital to reinforce night-time patrols and tackle youth crime in areas including Favoriten.

https://europeanconservative.com/articles/news/vienna-migrant-youth-crime-police-reinforcements-fpo/

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bobbyydazzler · 24/08/2026 11:03

Multiple reports of rapes and attempted rapes by migrants living in France have made local headlines as the continued dramatic rise in sexual assaults and mass immigration shows an undeniable correlation.

https://rmx.news/crime/france-ravaged-by-migrant-rapes-as-spate-of-sexual-assaults-sweeps-the-nation/

France ravaged by migrant rapes as spate of sexual assaults targeting elderly women sweep the nation

Multiple reports of rapes and attempted rapes by migrants living in France have made local headlines as the continued dramatic rise in sexual assaults and mass immigration shows an undeniable correlation.ContentsAnother elderly woman attackedThird elde...

https://rmx.news/crime/france-ravaged-by-migrant-rapes-as-spate-of-sexual-assaults-sweeps-the-nation/

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Neverstopwondering · 24/08/2026 11:05

bobbyydazzler · 24/08/2026 10:43

https://www.fairplanet.org/story/3-countries-where-sharia-law-is-hardest-on-women/

Iran. Saudi Arabia, Afghanistan.

Why are we welcoming it to the UK?

The average person is ill informed about these beliefs or worried they will be cancelled in some way if they speak out. That goes for politicians too.

I know enough women that have been raised in Somali and Pakistani households to learn the truth about the way women are treated in even fairly westernised households. Not every family is the same and a lot pick and choose parts of the religion they follow at home even if their outside front looks traditional. However some of the women I know were told as teenagers who they were going to marry. One family had a male family member take phones away from all the women including the older grandmother and aunties. Not one of the other men in family stopped this. Women and girls having to sleep in same room because to protect the girls innocence from adult males in their own family. Male family members waited on like royalty or something. Women that refuse to do this are often given a quick slap because the ideology book they follow allows this so long as no mark is left. I once met a teenager at my child's nursery years ago and talked to her regarding because she collected her sister every day. One day she was so unhappy I asked why. She said 6th form was finishing soon and she wanted to go uni and be a teacher. However her parents were insisting she got married straight away then her husband could let her go uni if he wanted.

I am in London these are women living in London in 2026

GunnelVallquist · 24/08/2026 11:06

AndyKitten · 24/08/2026 10:49

It does mean I see you for what you are. And what you said, of course.

It’s not easily understood when English is not your first language.

Edited

English isn’t my first language either, but I’ve come across this expression countless times on here.

And I believe the poster in question knows full well that it’s not meant in a threatening way.

I think @bobbyydazzler and @LuckyHazelFox are right and it’s meant to derail the thread.

Which means I should stop mentioning it!

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Nuthatch26 · 24/08/2026 11:11

LuckyHazelFox · 24/08/2026 10:56

Don't forget to start a part 2 thread @bobbyydazzler we don't want this subject being buried, despite numerous attempts x

Seconded.
Certain posters trying to fill this one up to shut it down. I'm in if you start another thread. 🙏

bobbyydazzler · 24/08/2026 11:11

Nuthatch26 · 24/08/2026 11:11

Seconded.
Certain posters trying to fill this one up to shut it down. I'm in if you start another thread. 🙏

Set up (different user name)

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5MinuteArgument · 24/08/2026 11:13

bobbyydazzler · 24/08/2026 11:03

Multiple reports of rapes and attempted rapes by migrants living in France have made local headlines as the continued dramatic rise in sexual assaults and mass immigration shows an undeniable correlation.

https://rmx.news/crime/france-ravaged-by-migrant-rapes-as-spate-of-sexual-assaults-sweeps-the-nation/

Same has happened in Germany and Sweden and anti-immigration parties are seeing a surge in support as a result. Our societies are being poisoned by the influx of males from incompatible cultures.

AndyKitten · 24/08/2026 11:14

GunnelVallquist · 24/08/2026 11:06

English isn’t my first language either, but I’ve come across this expression countless times on here.

And I believe the poster in question knows full well that it’s not meant in a threatening way.

I think @bobbyydazzler and @LuckyHazelFox are right and it’s meant to derail the thread.

Which means I should stop mentioning it!

Absolutely.

I was just wondering about the motivation of that poster.

GunnelVallquist · 24/08/2026 11:16

5MinuteArgument · 24/08/2026 11:13

Same has happened in Germany and Sweden and anti-immigration parties are seeing a surge in support as a result. Our societies are being poisoned by the influx of males from incompatible cultures.

Yes!

It makes me so angry and has done for years.

It feels good to be able to talk about it now though.

nomas · 24/08/2026 11:22

LuckyHazelFox · 24/08/2026 08:03

I think you're the one being disingenuous. The poster has form for making others believe they are being unreasonable with concern about asylum seekers carrying out sexual assault. @GunnelVallquist was pointing that out, since we are mindful of what we can say according to MN guidelines.

Sorry but this is bullshit.

I’ve repeatedly said that I’m calling out the attempt by media and some MNers to white wash rape as something that only BAME men and immigrants do.

If I’m walking on the street at night and I see a group of white men or a group of Afghan men, I am going to avoid BOTH groups.

Even though there were 19 Afghans convicted last year versus 100,000 white reported to police for rape, I’m going to avoid both groups because the danger is men.

nomas · 24/08/2026 11:24

bobbyydazzler · 23/08/2026 18:25

They name change of course, too

Oh the irony. Why have you said you’re name changing on your new thread then?

EasternStandard · 24/08/2026 11:25

nomas · 24/08/2026 11:22

Sorry but this is bullshit.

I’ve repeatedly said that I’m calling out the attempt by media and some MNers to white wash rape as something that only BAME men and immigrants do.

If I’m walking on the street at night and I see a group of white men or a group of Afghan men, I am going to avoid BOTH groups.

Even though there were 19 Afghans convicted last year versus 100,000 white reported to police for rape, I’m going to avoid both groups because the danger is men.

Yes but what you’re doing means we keep the system as it is. And women don’t want to see those crimes anymore. And a government has a basic duty to stop them.

With enough pressure it would happen, all the what about men here arguments make that less likely.

nomas · 24/08/2026 11:31

bobbyydazzler · 23/08/2026 13:21

Whilst its always men - there's no doubt men from certain countries, are worse - much worse. Not because of their colour (SIGH eye roll), but because of the culture and morality they've grown up in. So we do not need them in this country. And it is not racist to say so.

What culture inspired this family of paedophiles then?

AIBU to think if we need to politely ask men not to rape women (or men), then we don't want such people in the UK?
BubbleAndLeek · 24/08/2026 11:32

I thought the KSA under MBS easened up?

nomas · 24/08/2026 11:33

EasternStandard · 24/08/2026 11:25

Yes but what you’re doing means we keep the system as it is. And women don’t want to see those crimes anymore. And a government has a basic duty to stop them.

With enough pressure it would happen, all the what about men here arguments make that less likely.

What an I doing? I’m all for people writing to their MPs or taking any positive action.

But the vilifying of entire cultures as rapists is never going to be acceptable.

EasternStandard · 24/08/2026 11:33

nomas · 24/08/2026 11:31

What culture inspired this family of paedophiles then?

Women don’t want to add to what we have here already.

They don’t want those extra crimes, which can be stopped.

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