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AIBU to think refusing treatment from non-white medical professionals should have consequences?

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MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 04/08/2026 08:12

There has apparently been a significant rise in racism towards NHS staff, with a growing number of people refusing to allow non-white NHS staff to treat them. This is sad but not surprising given the shift in society as a whole towards people expressing their racism much more openly.

https://news.sky.com/story/nhs-staff-experiencing-unconscionable-levels-of-racist-abuse-survey-finds-13569575

I have always admired the commitment of NHS staff who treat all patients with care and compassion, even when those patients are rude and abusive. But if people are actually refusing to let certain staff provide treatment, surely there should be consequences for this?

AIBU to think that everyone has the right to refuse treatment if they so wish, but if a patient refuses treatment from a medical professional simply because they don't like the colour of that medical practitioner's skin, then they should then forfeit the right to receive that treatment on the NHS. So they can either go without or find the money to be treated privately by a medical professional of their choice?

There would need to be signs warning people of the consequences of their choices, of course, but if someone doesn't want a Black or Asian radiographer carry out their x-ray, then fine... they just don't get an x-ray.

OP posts:
Switchnow · 04/08/2026 13:00

friedaklein · 04/08/2026 12:58

Some of you need to read the SC judgement on same sex spaces and gender critical beliefs. They are legal.
Racism is not legal.
There is no such thing as racism againat men. Men are not a race. They are a sex.🙄

Edited

This is nothing to do with the thread. You do not have a legal right to a same sex practitioner, hospitals are not single sex spaces.

JHound · 04/08/2026 13:00

FrippEnos · 04/08/2026 12:54

Because truama triggers different people in different ways.

Yes. But it would still be racism. You can say it’s trauma induced racism but still racism.

FrippEnos · 04/08/2026 13:00

JHound · 04/08/2026 12:54

Discrimination on the basis of race is racist actually.

You can defend their reaction but to try to say it is not racist is silly.

I am asking if the OP thinks that its ok to refuse treatment to someone whose response maybe truame based.

Without knowing the history of the person and reason for their reaction, assuming that what someone is being racist is wrong as would denying them teatment.

PurpleCoo · 04/08/2026 13:01

Ponoka7 · 04/08/2026 08:20

While I don't think it's right, perhaps trained British medical staff will get a chance at getting a job. Meanwhile Africa will retain their trained staff. Because things will be rethought out.

But British people have different coloured skin.

You also seem to be under the misapprehension that British people aren't getting jobs because people abroad are 'taking' the opportunity away from them. Can't speak for other industries but when talking about senior specialist medical and health care professional roles, we often struggle to recruit, and have to advertise jobs multiple times. I knew of a post recently that was vacant for a year. No one applied. Or they applied and withdraw their application. It was advertised multiple times.

People think there is a jobs shortage, but in the health sector, yes there are recruitment freezes in some Trusts, but also, there is a real shortage of specialists seeking employment in the NHS. The NHS would be in a far worse situation than it is now if only British people were employed

Thisisnobridgetjones · 04/08/2026 13:02

If this is how the OP suggests, it’s awful.

Playing devils advocate, there are a lot of people in my local hospital that moved to the UK for work. One of them is my consultant, he’s great at his job and I would never want to move to another one BUT we do something struggle with communication. English isn’t his first language, when I’m worried I talk to quickly….could it be to do with things like that rather than skin colour?

Frequency · 04/08/2026 13:02

Switchnow · 04/08/2026 12:54

You can’t understand a single Irish or Scottish person? How on earth do you contact your bank!

Via web chat, usually.

Maray1967 · 04/08/2026 13:03

EmpressaurusKitty · 04/08/2026 08:26

Sex not so much. I’d have gone ahead with my mammogram if I’d had a male practitioner doing it but I’d have been very tense and unhappy.

I would not - but fortunately it is not a problem for me because my health authority makes it clear that mammograms are only carried out by female staff.

Sex is a very different factor.

Race - you go to the back of the queue if you demand to be treated by a white person. Let’s see how long it takes people to grow up when waiting for even longer or paying to go private (and no guarantee of seeing only white staff there) are the only options.

Switchnow · 04/08/2026 13:03

Soontobe60 · 04/08/2026 11:58

Do you therefore think that a woman who has been raped should accept being examined by a male if a female wasn’t available? What a strange take!

I’m a survivor of rape and DA and don’t feel the need to refuse treatment from a male doctor purely because of his sex.

friedaklein · 04/08/2026 13:03

Switchnow · 04/08/2026 13:00

This is nothing to do with the thread. You do not have a legal right to a same sex practitioner, hospitals are not single sex spaces.

Yes. And neither should people have the right to ask for a white doctor, unless they can't understand accents. Regardless of trauma.

Tryingtokeepgoing · 04/08/2026 13:04

Teob1t · 04/08/2026 08:44

I don’t care if staff are white or non white however I want gold standard UK trained NHS staff with the best standard of spoken, written and understanding of English.

I don’t want staff from certain countries that are known to be corrupt(including in obtaining visas, qualifications and sitting English competency exams) and have awful views as regards ND and LGBT people to be treating the vulnerable, LGBT and the ND particularly in MH.

On the flip side, our 'gold standard' NHS trained staff - a description that is not necessarily supported by any evidence - do have a tendency to protect each other and the system above the patient... Inevitable really as the structure of the NHS tends to lead to doctors that are adaptable across a broad range of specialities and good at managing complex cases with limited resources, but defensive of crticism or questioning.

For surgery you'd be better off in Germany because they have better processes and training, for primary care and training you'd be better off in the Netherlands and for cutting edge technolgy you'd be better off in the US.

One important thing that is missed when considering the benefit of overseas doctors is their willingness, until recently, to shine a light on poor practice, and even by whistle blowing, because they have experience of how things could or should be done and have not been indoctrinated by, or just become blind, to the 'NHS way' of doing things. The FUD spread by the BMA and others around IMGs however has lead to a drop in the number of whistleblowing events...which is not because the hospitals have improved but because doctors fear losing their jobs and their immigration status.

Switchnow · 04/08/2026 13:04

Frequency · 04/08/2026 13:02

Via web chat, usually.

Fair enough.

FookFookFook · 04/08/2026 13:05

LuckyHazelFox · 04/08/2026 09:07

I recently had a young black radiographer carry out an internal scan. I did joke with him that it was considerate to have allocated me a good looking man! He was fantastic and I couldn't begin to imagine his walking into the room and rejecting his service because he was black. Awful regressive stuff.

In the article, I noticed reference to communication, from Nigerian medics, for example. That's the only situation which I could try to understand if I was struggling to hear what was being said. However, I would handle potential scenarios, like that with tact. Anything else is racist. consequences, of which should include withdrawal of services. YANBU.

This is not ok. If a man said to a female radiographer performing an intimate exam “oh at least I have a pretty nurse!” People here would be outraged.

Ifeellikeateenageragain · 04/08/2026 13:05

SidekickSylvia · 04/08/2026 08:29

Why is the assumption that it's white people refusing treatment from non white people? I'm an immigrant to the UK, and in my experience white British people are the least racist demographic in this country.

I too am an immigrant and I find white British to be THE most racist, even those who don't think they are but are condescending and patronising to non-white and immigrant people.

FrippEnos · 04/08/2026 13:05

JHound · 04/08/2026 12:57

We’re not talking about wanting a same race doctor. But being scared of a billion people globally and saying it’s not racism.

And yes I think that being scared of an entire gender is misandry / misogyny.

(But to be clear is, unless going private my experience is I can request but won’t necessarily get and may have to wait longer to get what I want.)

Edited

You are talking about a billion people, I am talking about someone that has had a truamatic experience that has had a knock on effect that affects their daily life because they are scared of a group of people due to their personal experience and what was done to them.

You seem happy to deny a person treatment because of what they have been through,. you are further penalising a person for being the victim of what they have been through.

VodkaAndSoda · 04/08/2026 13:06

friedaklein · 04/08/2026 13:03

Yes. And neither should people have the right to ask for a white doctor, unless they can't understand accents. Regardless of trauma.

Someone upthread gave the example of an elderly man with dementia who had previously been a POW in Japan being extremely distressed when being treated by HCPs who reminded him of that time. Do you really think he should just have had to put up with it?

Edit: and by “it” I mean constant retraumatising.

Switchnow · 04/08/2026 13:06

friedaklein · 04/08/2026 13:03

Yes. And neither should people have the right to ask for a white doctor, unless they can't understand accents. Regardless of trauma.

I agree with the first part, accents are irrelevant. People need to learn to use their words if they don’t understand something.

Switchnow · 04/08/2026 13:07

VodkaAndSoda · 04/08/2026 13:06

Someone upthread gave the example of an elderly man with dementia who had previously been a POW in Japan being extremely distressed when being treated by HCPs who reminded him of that time. Do you really think he should just have had to put up with it?

Edit: and by “it” I mean constant retraumatising.

Edited

Oh yes, a very niche scenario which doesn’t in any way represent the substance of the article.

VodkaAndSoda · 04/08/2026 13:10

Switchnow · 04/08/2026 13:07

Oh yes, a very niche scenario which doesn’t in any way represent the substance of the article.

But the pp has said nobody with trauma should be able to request different HCPs. Trauma is always going to be individual.

Most of the comments in the article (I’m excluding only the one about accent, as I don’t think this is always racist) are pure racism and obviously shouldn’t be tolerated. But IMO there will always be genuine exceptions.

friedaklein · 04/08/2026 13:10

VodkaAndSoda · 04/08/2026 13:06

Someone upthread gave the example of an elderly man with dementia who had previously been a POW in Japan being extremely distressed when being treated by HCPs who reminded him of that time. Do you really think he should just have had to put up with it?

Edit: and by “it” I mean constant retraumatising.

Edited

Ppl are using really extreme niche examples to justify words like " You monkey" and " I don't want my gf to be treated by an Asian".
Come on.

And the examples cited here are never against white doctors. Why?
As I said, I have been assaulted ( not raped) by white men. Would it be ok for me to refuse all white doctors, men and women?

Firetreev · 04/08/2026 13:11

They should go to the back of the queue in my opinion. If they don't want a doctor/medical practitioner of colour they can go back to the very bottom of the waiting list. Similarly for those in hospital, they can go to the back of the queue and wait hours for a white person to treat them. Medical staff should be allowed to decline treatment to the cretins who racially abuse them too. It would soon sort out the bigots.

YesIKnowThatThankyou · 04/08/2026 13:11

VodkaAndSoda · 04/08/2026 13:06

Someone upthread gave the example of an elderly man with dementia who had previously been a POW in Japan being extremely distressed when being treated by HCPs who reminded him of that time. Do you really think he should just have had to put up with it?

Edit: and by “it” I mean constant retraumatising.

Edited

Yes. Based on clinical needs. NHS is not a bespoke service provider. Should my grandfather have refused all interactions with German people after his boat was persistently torpedoed on the Arctic convoys?

VodkaAndSoda · 04/08/2026 13:11

friedaklein · 04/08/2026 13:10

Ppl are using really extreme niche examples to justify words like " You monkey" and " I don't want my gf to be treated by an Asian".
Come on.

And the examples cited here are never against white doctors. Why?
As I said, I have been assaulted ( not raped) by white men. Would it be ok for me to refuse all white doctors, men and women?

Edited

I already answered that.

Yes, if it would cause you additional trauma to be treated by a white doctor.

VodkaAndSoda · 04/08/2026 13:12

YesIKnowThatThankyou · 04/08/2026 13:11

Yes. Based on clinical needs. NHS is not a bespoke service provider. Should my grandfather have refused all interactions with German people after his boat was persistently torpedoed on the Arctic convoys?

Yes, if was causing him additional trauma.

You can’t seriously expect someone with dementia to be rational about things?

CharlieEffie · 04/08/2026 13:12

Ponoka7 · 04/08/2026 08:20

While I don't think it's right, perhaps trained British medical staff will get a chance at getting a job. Meanwhile Africa will retain their trained staff. Because things will be rethought out.

You know British doesnt mean white right?

FrippEnos · 04/08/2026 13:14

friedaklein · 04/08/2026 13:10

Ppl are using really extreme niche examples to justify words like " You monkey" and " I don't want my gf to be treated by an Asian".
Come on.

And the examples cited here are never against white doctors. Why?
As I said, I have been assaulted ( not raped) by white men. Would it be ok for me to refuse all white doctors, men and women?

Edited

Does it cause you asdditional truama to see a white Dr (male or female)?
If the answer is yes then you should be able to see a different Dr.