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Was told a few weeks ago I have Crohn's but on holiday my husband just did this AIBU

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Corfudreaming · 21/07/2026 15:03

He brought back a huge haul of pastries- not only do our daughters 17 and 13 need to watch their weight (and he is about 4 stone overweight too) I cannot eat gluten.
It's not just a few treats - it two bags of donuts, pies, bread and custard donut things.
there are a couple of oat biscuits but I think they've got wheat in them. I have just really found out I have Crohn's disease and it is making me feel quite low that I can't enjoy the foods I used to. I have been trying to avoid wheat and some dairy products for awhile now because I noticed they were causing issues with my stomach. I've been really careful about my diet over the last few years and I was hoping to enjoy the old donut on holiday but obviously I can't. Am I being unreasonable to be angry at this?

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BuildbyNumbere · 24/07/2026 07:09

hereforthelolz · 23/07/2026 21:56

It's none of her bloody business what her husband is eating.

Talking about the daughters, hence the use of the word mother!

ThatAgileRosePanda · 24/07/2026 08:48

Move on and you do the bakery shopping in future

omghereistrouble · 24/07/2026 12:45

i have a daughter grown up with this and I must admit that i get totally confused over her diet. perhaps it is so with your husband he just does not quite get it or maybe was enjoying the holiday so much he forgot

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