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To be utterly pissed off and fed up with this weather….

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TheFairCat · 06/07/2026 18:46

I know there’s already been loads of threads about it, so apologies for being so original but OH MY GOD!

I’m not usually a particularly whiny person and I don’t ever remember being particularly troubled by hot ( or cold!) weather before but honestly, I feel like I’m going lose my mind!

Maybe it’s combined with hot flushes or something because no one else I know seems to be struggling that much.

I was fine at first; just thought it would only be a couple of days we’d have to suck it up. We
got the fans out, ate a criminal amount of ice lollies and did as little as possible. But now it feels like it’s been a couple of weeks of non stop over 28 degree heat every day where I live. It’s also unbearably humid. Trying to clean the house is grim. I feel like I’m swimming through treacle and my brain is mush. I can’t concentrate on work, I can’t sleep at night. I am constantly uncomfortable and the house has now heated up to such an extent that no room is even close to cool.

I realise this probably sounds ridiculous but I can’t really go out in this heat. I mean I can go to work (though my office has no air con and is also grim) and I can manage the school run and the supermarket etc, but I can’t go for a walk, or run about at the park with the kids. I definitely wouldn’t want go out in town or mooch about the shops, or eat out etc. I don’t want go in the garden because it’s so hot. The swimming pool is lovely but the changing rooms are beyond the pale. There’s no way I could cope with a day out at the zoo or a theme park with the kids.

I’ve never been so hot or so uncomfortable in my life! I have lots of loose, comfortable clothes, summer shoes etc but I still feel like I want to rip my skin off!

Is it just me? Weather forecast seems to be saying 10 more days of heat wave and I could cry!

OP posts:
happidayss · 12/07/2026 17:20

Yakacm · 12/07/2026 16:56

Do you not feel like you are acclimating to the heat? I worked in the US when I was younger, the part of New York state I was in had the hottest weather in years, it was brutal at 1st, but I got used to it after a couple of weeks. I live in Scotland so it's not been as big an issue, there was 1 evening last week when the temp overnight was in single digits, like 7C kind of single digits. But we're not here to talk about me. 2 things I'd say, firstly, I'm going to assume your car has AC, try and find somewhere in the shade to park up, but the AC on recirculate, I mean that's not a long term solution but you can definitely get 10-15 minutes respite. The other thing I'd say is to get yourself some AC for the house, either a mobile AC unit or go all out and get it installed in your house, as this weather ain't going away. All that being said good luck trying to find an AC units ATM, I'd say you'd maybe need to wait until autumn before stocks come back, but as I've said already, this is going to be a regular thing for summers to come. Or just move to Scotland, lol, it is kind of toasty here today at 22C, but Scots tend to catch fire if it ever goes much over 25C.

Edited

Do you think anyone in England can find an ac unit for love or money at the moment?

malloryknox123 · 12/07/2026 18:58

It’s intolerable and there’s no end in sight. I feel angry at the world because I can’t wear make up, sweat is ruining my hair and my pillows, the fan I spent £ on is no better than a budget one and I have to keep washing my swimsuit because I can only feel normal in a pool

Cherrytree86 · 12/07/2026 19:00

malloryknox123 · 12/07/2026 18:58

It’s intolerable and there’s no end in sight. I feel angry at the world because I can’t wear make up, sweat is ruining my hair and my pillows, the fan I spent £ on is no better than a budget one and I have to keep washing my swimsuit because I can only feel normal in a pool

@malloryknox123

why cant you wear make up? I am

SnapAndFartAllDayLong · 12/07/2026 19:33

I've just come back from a week in Turkey which was very hot, but the heat in S.E where I am is horrendous! It feels just so more thick and claggy then abroad!

the80sweregreat · 12/07/2026 19:54

We’ve had a breeze and the fan has been off today , which is giving it a rest as it’s been on non stop for weeks I think! ( day time )
I am dreading it packing up on me as it is ten years old now or something!

cornflakecrunchie · 12/07/2026 20:16

@Cherrytree86 You're lucky!
Some of us ladies, make up literally slides off. I have a very sweaty forehead, most ladies I know don't have that.

Cherrytree86 · 12/07/2026 21:02

cornflakecrunchie · 12/07/2026 20:16

@Cherrytree86 You're lucky!
Some of us ladies, make up literally slides off. I have a very sweaty forehead, most ladies I know don't have that.

@cornflakecrunchie

it’s all in the application! Use a beauty blender for foundation daub it into the skin, set with powder again pressing into the skin. An oil control setting spray can be helpful too

im sure anyway though it may not feel like it, your makeup will look fine in the heat. I’d rather do it then have a bare face whatever the weather

chaosmaker · 12/07/2026 21:17

Doesn't a layer of gunge on your face just make you feel even hotter?

Cherrytree86 · 12/07/2026 21:26

chaosmaker · 12/07/2026 21:17

Doesn't a layer of gunge on your face just make you feel even hotter?

nope. We’re talking very fine layers. And gunge? I don’t think so. Most products these days are packed with ingredients that are good for your skin. Also you’re gonna have a layer of ‘gunge’ regardless… your SPF. Everyone has that

chaosmaker · 12/07/2026 21:54

Suncream sweats off, not sure it's doing much really.

Cherrytree86 · 12/07/2026 21:58

chaosmaker · 12/07/2026 21:54

Suncream sweats off, not sure it's doing much really.

@chaosmaker

you can get some really good SPF face sprays that give a very fine mist. You can use them on their own or over makeup. Very important to protect your face from the sun and UV.
I think at end of day, if you love wearing makeup, you’re gonna wear it regardless of the weather - where there is a will, there is a way !

TheFairCat · 15/07/2026 16:28

Well, the last few days have been a revelation! It’s still been around 28 degrees most days, but with a nice breeze, WAY less humidity and a reasonable temperature at night.

It’s been lovely! I feel like summer is here (rather than some kind of sweaty purgatory). We spent all day at the park with friends on Sunday. Lots of lovely running around, a game or two of rounders and a picnic. Then went to the pub for tea and sat in the garden there till late, playing cards. The kids actually slept and so did we. I have some colour in my face and a spring in my step!

I can finally open the windows, have deep cleaned the house, including all the sofa cushion covers etc as everything smelt sweaty….

My appetite has returned and I have enjoyed a fair few cold lemon beers (highly recommended).

Honestly the difference has been enormous. I am reminded that I do like summer, I just don’t like 35 degree heat and an insane amount of humidity in a country without any of the infrastructure to make life bearable.

Not sure what we’ll do next time there’s a crazy spike in temperatures as there’s no way we can afford air conditioning and I don’t want to spend my life indoors with all the windows closed and the curtains drawn.

I guess we’ll have to make a plan as I think those temperatures are going to become more common place and I’m not sure a neck fan and some decent primer is going to cut it….

OP posts:
thisfilmisboring123 · 15/07/2026 18:23

TheFairCat · 15/07/2026 16:28

Well, the last few days have been a revelation! It’s still been around 28 degrees most days, but with a nice breeze, WAY less humidity and a reasonable temperature at night.

It’s been lovely! I feel like summer is here (rather than some kind of sweaty purgatory). We spent all day at the park with friends on Sunday. Lots of lovely running around, a game or two of rounders and a picnic. Then went to the pub for tea and sat in the garden there till late, playing cards. The kids actually slept and so did we. I have some colour in my face and a spring in my step!

I can finally open the windows, have deep cleaned the house, including all the sofa cushion covers etc as everything smelt sweaty….

My appetite has returned and I have enjoyed a fair few cold lemon beers (highly recommended).

Honestly the difference has been enormous. I am reminded that I do like summer, I just don’t like 35 degree heat and an insane amount of humidity in a country without any of the infrastructure to make life bearable.

Not sure what we’ll do next time there’s a crazy spike in temperatures as there’s no way we can afford air conditioning and I don’t want to spend my life indoors with all the windows closed and the curtains drawn.

I guess we’ll have to make a plan as I think those temperatures are going to become more common place and I’m not sure a neck fan and some decent primer is going to cut it….

Could’ve written what you’ve put almost word for word.
Beautiful ♥️
The night temperature has made such a difference.

ConverselyAttired · 15/07/2026 18:28

The nights have been relatively lovely but the humidity came back here today (60% and 28). I am unimpressed. Bring on the weekend.

JenniferBooth · 15/07/2026 19:21

Wish i could feel the difference here in the Sanctuary sauna

strugglingwithlife · 16/07/2026 16:52

Cherrytree86 · 12/07/2026 12:08

@FFSItsTooHot i love it and I’m not a psychopath

some people are so weird about getting a bit sweaty! I’ve known people who don’t go to the gym just because they don’t want to get sweaty. Ridiculous

You clearly don't understand it's not just about getting "a bit sweaty"! Some people actually get quite ill, there are health conditions and medications that make heat tolerance non existent.

strugglingwithlife · 16/07/2026 16:59

Plus I get too hot even in the winter. Whenever I go outside, no matter what time of the year, I over heat. Have to wear summer clothes even in winter. So the weather we have been having is horrendous for me

strugglingwithlife · 16/07/2026 17:00

the80sweregreat · 12/07/2026 16:59

Alan sugar went into business with an air con man! He said it’s the future. Problem is, it makes climate change worse. Trouble is that higher temperatures can kill and it may be needed in public places.

It doesn't

Crikeyalmighty · 17/07/2026 10:20

Beautiful this morning in Bath, very warm with light cool breeze, it’s like being in Majorca

EvieBB · 17/07/2026 10:32

strugglingwithlife · 16/07/2026 16:52

You clearly don't understand it's not just about getting "a bit sweaty"! Some people actually get quite ill, there are health conditions and medications that make heat tolerance non existent.

Exactly this!
It's not about feeling sweaty, it's about feeling ill!

ConverselyAttired · 17/07/2026 13:26

Crikeyalmighty · 17/07/2026 10:20

Beautiful this morning in Bath, very warm with light cool breeze, it’s like being in Majorca

I'm 9 miles away and it's baking again now. Can't wait for tomorrow and 24!

chaosmaker · 20/07/2026 07:45

Still waiting for winter

LilOleMe2 · 20/07/2026 07:48

Im in Greece atm and it's been 38 the last few days, and forecast 40 tomorrow.

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