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To be utterly pissed off and fed up with this weather….

373 replies

TheFairCat · 06/07/2026 18:46

I know there’s already been loads of threads about it, so apologies for being so original but OH MY GOD!

I’m not usually a particularly whiny person and I don’t ever remember being particularly troubled by hot ( or cold!) weather before but honestly, I feel like I’m going lose my mind!

Maybe it’s combined with hot flushes or something because no one else I know seems to be struggling that much.

I was fine at first; just thought it would only be a couple of days we’d have to suck it up. We
got the fans out, ate a criminal amount of ice lollies and did as little as possible. But now it feels like it’s been a couple of weeks of non stop over 28 degree heat every day where I live. It’s also unbearably humid. Trying to clean the house is grim. I feel like I’m swimming through treacle and my brain is mush. I can’t concentrate on work, I can’t sleep at night. I am constantly uncomfortable and the house has now heated up to such an extent that no room is even close to cool.

I realise this probably sounds ridiculous but I can’t really go out in this heat. I mean I can go to work (though my office has no air con and is also grim) and I can manage the school run and the supermarket etc, but I can’t go for a walk, or run about at the park with the kids. I definitely wouldn’t want go out in town or mooch about the shops, or eat out etc. I don’t want go in the garden because it’s so hot. The swimming pool is lovely but the changing rooms are beyond the pale. There’s no way I could cope with a day out at the zoo or a theme park with the kids.

I’ve never been so hot or so uncomfortable in my life! I have lots of loose, comfortable clothes, summer shoes etc but I still feel like I want to rip my skin off!

Is it just me? Weather forecast seems to be saying 10 more days of heat wave and I could cry!

OP posts:
AmericanPaint · 10/07/2026 13:47

TightlyLacedCorset · 10/07/2026 13:02

I've been to Florida in July! It was a surprise gift trip, and I was secretly disappointed at the destination we were going to whilst outwardly appearing enthusiastic, partly because I had a very biased perception of how culturally enriching it could possibly be in relation to almost anywhere else😬 and partly because of the expected heat!

It was hot. BUT, and I cannot adequately explain it, it was a bearable heat. The heat here feels like being under a focused heat lamp. There, there were many mini rain showers and a breeze. Also Florida shocked me with how green it was, this never seems to come across in tourism Ads or on TV shows. But driving down from Orlando to Miami it was breathtakingly beautiful dense forestry stretching away for miles. There were also lots of smaller ponds and watercourses. That all clearly absorbs some of the heat. Then there were beaches, with an ocean breeze coming off the water, not to mention everything was more spaced out and there was air conditioning. I could be out and about in the Floridian heat, and I ended up loving my holiday and seeing the geography of America in a totally new light.

Here the heat feels like being cooked under a flat concentrated heat lamp with no breeze. It just feels heavy, dense and strength sapping. I would swap enduring the rest of the summer here to spending July and August in Florida if I could.

I’m headed out a week tomorrow and will stay in Florida until the last week of August. We go every year and we also go during the winter months too.
I genuinely don’t think this is anywhere close to being as hot as Florida, but I accept that when you have the pools and the ocean, it does definitely feel bearable for most people.

I totally agree with you about the green. Florida is so beautiful. We are headed down to the keys to begin with, then travelling up the gulf coast and ending in the Ocala National Park avoiding all the crowds. We bring our paddle boards and spend the days on the rivers and springs. It’s the most beautiful place in the world. A little bit of summer leading up to my holiday is getting me in the vacation mood!

After I leave, I’m happy to keep my fingers crossed for temps cooling in the UK.

AmericanPaint · 10/07/2026 13:48

ConverselyAttired · 10/07/2026 13:07

Agreed. I have done Florida in June and August. It rained almost every day for a few minutes which massively helped and the air con was fierce. Plus I didn't have to sit in a Georgian building in office wear.

Oh yes, the air con is most welcome. Although it does mean you have to keep a cardi in the car! Restaurants can be Baltic!

strugglingwithlife · 10/07/2026 13:55

FFSItsTooHot · 10/07/2026 04:57

It hasn't rained for 84 years?! Where on earth are you living? The Sahara Desert?

Have you heard of a thing called "sarcasm"?

RedPony1 · 10/07/2026 13:56

i'm sure only people without an "active" life think it's glorious on the whole.

I work in an air conditioned office, so that's fine. But I'm sick of getting up at 4am to be able to exercise the horses and dog before work.
I am a constant sweaty mess and my hay fever is awful too this year.

This heatwave apparently isn't as hot as 2 weeks ago, no red warning this time. But it feels much hotter here as we had a really good breeze last time, this time everything is just so still. and sticky.

Why cant we just have a nice dry 22 degree summer with some nice over night rain? 😄

ConverselyAttired · 10/07/2026 14:55

RedPony1 · 10/07/2026 13:56

i'm sure only people without an "active" life think it's glorious on the whole.

I work in an air conditioned office, so that's fine. But I'm sick of getting up at 4am to be able to exercise the horses and dog before work.
I am a constant sweaty mess and my hay fever is awful too this year.

This heatwave apparently isn't as hot as 2 weeks ago, no red warning this time. But it feels much hotter here as we had a really good breeze last time, this time everything is just so still. and sticky.

Why cant we just have a nice dry 22 degree summer with some nice over night rain? 😄

This is it - part of the reason I'm so down is that I was running at lunchtime 3 times a week for over a year up until this. Managed fine last summer and then since the end of May it's been almost impossible to do more than once a week timed for the coolest day, because I have DS at home morning and evening.

Loomis · 10/07/2026 15:25

I don't drive but I physically can't walk in this heat with my toddler. We've just done three days in the house on the trot so I got an Uber to soft play and back just to get us out. £25. Can't do it every day but it's just getting ridiculous now.

We are getting AC installed in the house but it doesn't solve the problem of outdoors!

Loomis · 10/07/2026 15:27

EmeraldShamrock000 · 07/07/2026 23:50

It is better than rain. It’s the one time of the year that I’m warm without wearing a jumper. I understand I’m unusual. DH is dying in a puddle of sweat 10 minutes after the shower.
It gets people out more enjoying evening walks.

I'm way more likely to go out in the rain than this, I can't walk at all in this weather.

RedPony1 · 10/07/2026 15:57

Loomis · 10/07/2026 15:27

I'm way more likely to go out in the rain than this, I can't walk at all in this weather.

absolutely!! going for a run or a ride in the rain is far more pleasant for me

Lottapianos · 10/07/2026 16:07

'i'm sure only people without an "active" life think it's glorious on the whole'

I think you're right. My BIL loves scorching hot weather, and his favourite thing is slobbing around doing fuck all 😁

RhosynCymru · 10/07/2026 16:09

TightlyLacedCorset · 09/07/2026 18:47

Sadly I think you're right and it will come to that and someone will suffer serious heat stroke and die before any wholesale changes take place and the government wakes up.

But here's a little laugh: I had ordered an iron supplement from America.

They (finally!) arrived in a nice tidy cuboid box.

Except I'm not sure if they're any good now, because they were hot!

The box,

The round white pill bottle

And the capsules inside! 😄

When I collapsed at that particular work place years ago it certainly precipitated me leaving as was unhappy there already (lack of welfare concern by the employer generally prior to this) as I was made to feel I was an inconvenience who simply didn’t take enough precautions against the heat- in fact I had been telling them for well over a week the heat was getting to me and that their broken air conditioning meant it would be medically unwise even to attempt coming into work but it was made clear I had better turn up.

Netcurtainnelly · 10/07/2026 16:11

Itsmeanttobesummer · 06/07/2026 18:57

No, I feel exactly the same OP. Totally had enough of it now, these aren’t even heat waves anymore, it’s pretty much just the whole summer at 28-30 degrees.

I’m a very outdoorsy, active person but can’t really do any of my normal activities in this heat. Im bored of it all now. Why can’t we just have a nice 23/24 degrees everyday?! That’s bearable/ manageable! Who really wants it in the 30’s?!

The weather doesn't work like that, and it can't please everyone.😂

FFSItsTooHot · 10/07/2026 20:03

Lottapianos · 09/07/2026 20:10

It was FOUL in London today. I walked to the bus stop at 8.30am and it was disgusting even then. Waiting for it to cool down a bit more, then into a cool shower and a bed with a frozen water bottle in it 🙄

I'm so bored of thinking about the weather, and talking about the weather, and everything being ten times harder because of the sodding weather

5 degrees cooler tomorrow which will make a big difference. Still too bloody hot of course!

5 degrees cooler? Where abouts in the UK are you? I'm in the south east (West London) and it's forecast to be the same as today,32 degrees.

FFSItsTooHot · 10/07/2026 20:17

Apparently,all us hot weather wimps need to get over ourselves. Well that's what I've been told. Just stick a fan on and drink plenty of water. Yes that will definitely do the trick. Only it won't when you have to take 2 different types of medication that drastically reduces your body's ability to cool down.

Lottapianos · 10/07/2026 20:35

FFSItsTooHot · 10/07/2026 20:03

5 degrees cooler? Where abouts in the UK are you? I'm in the south east (West London) and it's forecast to be the same as today,32 degrees.

East London, and it's at least 5 degrees cooler than yesterday and a thousand times nicer thanks to the cloud. I haven't sweated one drop today but I was damp and sticky all day yesterday

the80sweregreat · 10/07/2026 20:39

It’s a bit better in Essex tonight. It’s going to be hot all next week though which has annoyed me a lot!
I was hoping it might break up a bit by early next week.

Plump82 · 10/07/2026 20:54

Well, we've had 3 days of lovely weather up here (just outside Glasgow) and now it's bloody raining...again!!

the80sweregreat · 10/07/2026 21:15

I’d love to see some rain ! It last rained about two weeks ago here and not for long enough.

strugglingwithlife · 11/07/2026 11:17

FFSItsTooHot · 10/07/2026 20:17

Apparently,all us hot weather wimps need to get over ourselves. Well that's what I've been told. Just stick a fan on and drink plenty of water. Yes that will definitely do the trick. Only it won't when you have to take 2 different types of medication that drastically reduces your body's ability to cool down.

Yes, I keep getting nausea and vomiting and i was very ill on Thursday after getting back from the long walk to pick daughter up from school, but according to partner I'm a drama queen who needs to just get on with it!! I'm on medication that has completely destroyed my temperature regulation but according to him I'm a weak little drama queen

EvieBB · 11/07/2026 12:48

AmericanPaint · 10/07/2026 06:28

I love love love it. I was made for this weather. My skin feels better. My joints feel better. I am so pleased to see the sunshine every day and be able to go on long walks, in just a pair of shorts and a vest. I loathe the cold and the rain. We had months of non-stop rain earlier this year and a drawn out winter, so I don’t think a month or two of proper summer is that much to ask for. I’m appreciating every single moment.

Nutter

EvieBB · 11/07/2026 12:49

strugglingwithlife · 11/07/2026 11:17

Yes, I keep getting nausea and vomiting and i was very ill on Thursday after getting back from the long walk to pick daughter up from school, but according to partner I'm a drama queen who needs to just get on with it!! I'm on medication that has completely destroyed my temperature regulation but according to him I'm a weak little drama queen

He's a prick. I'm with you - my body just isn't able to regulate temperature and I can't cool down. Hate it

the80sweregreat · 11/07/2026 12:52

Some people can handle it though. They seem to thrive in hot weather. It seems strange to me but not to them !

EvieBB · 11/07/2026 12:55

Plump82 · 10/07/2026 20:54

Well, we've had 3 days of lovely weather up here (just outside Glasgow) and now it's bloody raining...again!!

Lucky you
I'd kill for some rain at this point

AmericanPaint · 11/07/2026 15:18

EvieBB · 11/07/2026 12:48

Nutter

I logged back on for this comment 😂
Just on the way home from the beach. The ocean today was really warm, and even knee deep was bath water warm. I was stunned to be honest. Never expected that in the UK!

AmericanPaint · 11/07/2026 15:22

the80sweregreat · 11/07/2026 12:52

Some people can handle it though. They seem to thrive in hot weather. It seems strange to me but not to them !

Yep, we’re all different…I’m one of those people who feel nothing for distain for anyone uttering the words ‘It’s not the weather, you just have the wrong clothes’. Lady, it’s frickin’ 4 degrees outside.

Today is utterly perfect in South Wales. 👌