To have gone for after work drinks tonight?

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This week has been horrendous at work. The office has been hot, pressure from management has been insane, we’ve all worked different hours due to the heat and it’s just been incredibly draining.

We all decided to go to the beach for a few drinks tonight. It was well needed and deserved, even if it was just to sit in the shade and the breeze!

I got home around 10, I’ve had three cocktails. Not huge, I’m not wasted, just pleasantly tipsy. My partner is outraged, he thinks I have a drinking problem and has genuinely suggested I go for counselling for my “alcohol issues”.

WIBU to go?

Does he have a problem with alcohol ?

Exactly right.

"You're right, I can't see the issue and I have no interest in discussing it."

If you aren't going to dump him, at least cold shoulder him until he grovels, and then grovels more. Then repeat your behaviour to make a point.

well the Op says he likes to go out for a beer so I am guessing he only has an issue when ther OP is drinking it against his wishes

Getting home around 10 is perfectly acceptable, I think you need to confront the idea you have a drinking problem, it sound like a mixture of jealousy and whining.

This is really good news OP, you can get out of there now he has shown his controlling ways.

Oh for Vod-s sake. OP had 3 cocktails after a shit week at work. Even if she has done it before,it doesnt mean she has a problem as you imply. It is normal behaviour. Her husband is a sanctimonius prick who begrudged her fun evening out. Insulting to suggest she gets help. Am assuming she doesnt do it every day .