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To be fed up of hearing 'just get on with it'?

622 replies

glitterpaperchain · 24/06/2026 16:48

This kind of 'just get on with it' RE the heat is all over Facebook. People talking about the heat in 1976 and saying 'we just got on with it' or 'we muddled through' (as if people didn't die as a result of that heatwave)

My issue is - shouldn't we as a society be aiming higher than just getting on with things and muddling through? We should be campaigning for better infrastructure, better working practices.

I just think we have all this technology, we're supposed to be a rich country, let's fight to make things better rather than just managing. What happened to the spirit of the first union workers who demanded better conditions and rights? I want to see that spirit back.

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Buscobel · 25/06/2026 19:34

I remember 1976 and 1975, which also had an extended period of hot weather. I was a new teacher and I don’t think it was ever suggested the school should close. I don’t recall it being unbearable, but maybe that’s because I was young.

Perhaps we should think very long term and think about changing the working day to be more like the continental one. Hard floors in houses, shutters, natural fabrics, adjusting how we operate at various times of year.

I’m not suggesting anyone should ‘get on with it’ but we do need to adjust our way of living.

Spiderx · 25/06/2026 19:35

Darragon · 24/06/2026 16:51

We’re not a rich country though our tax take doesn’t cover our expenditures. Maybe if we stopped making every minor inconvenience a problem for the government to solve we’d be better off.

We ARE a rich country ...hence one of the reasons we are in tbe G7..but it's disparity of wealth that is the real issue . Some people have so much dosh they don't know what to do with it , others are scared to even heat their homes in winter.

BrokenWingsCantFly · 25/06/2026 19:36

glitterpaperchain · 25/06/2026 19:28

There is a maximum legal working temperature in Spain. They manage to keep chefs and care staff working.

Your post is exactly an example of what I'm talking about....'oh it's hard/awkward so let's not bother trying to improve things'

So what do you suggest for today then?

If you had power to change everything would everyone be having a day off today?

It sounds like you are saying chefs and care home staff should have to work today

Its a few days a year max here the high temps are and issue. If you struggle with the heat that it makes you ill you would not be wrong in phoning in sick and taking personal responsibility to keep your space cool. Problem solved

ilovepuppies2019 · 25/06/2026 19:36

I live in a hot country so I find it hard to understand. The temperatures are hot but not that hot. I went to school without air conditioning 20 years ago and it was just normal. I'm sure I wouldn't cope with the cold so I understand it's all relative but I really don't understand the level of fear and concern. Is it because our buildings are different that the temperature is felt differently or something?

Booboobagins · 25/06/2026 19:36

1976 was a dry heat, it was hot but bearable, this heat is hideous.

For me it was the late advice not to go into work, really annoyed me after I'd bought train tickets and booked my hotel all at my expense.

Last year I came close to getting air conditioning, if I hadn't been thinking of selling up I'd have installed it. Still haven't put the house on the market but def moving, so no air con this year, but new house will have aircon.

We need to adapt our houses at least...

DreamyScroller · 25/06/2026 19:37

People talk about just 'getting on' with things such as a heatwave because there are many more important things we could be thinking about to improve society. It's disproportionate to get enthusiastic about restructuring our whole infrastructure and culture on account of what is essentially four days a year of hot weather.

DotterOfBendigeidfran · 25/06/2026 19:38

backformoreofthesame · 24/06/2026 17:36

We need to do better than muddle through.

and this heat is getting worse - it’s significantly warmer than 1976

It is a lot hotter than 1976 and it is humid whereas 1976 was a dry heat. If you sweated, you could cool. With this heat and humidity, it is scary as if you get hot, you can't get cool so easily.

I don't agree we are a rich country. If we were, the infrastructure we have would function well but nothing does function well, The Police, courts, water companies, imiggration,jails, electricity companies, the NHS, GP surgeries, massive waiting lists, the railways, services cut to the bone and/or totally disappeared, the roads are more pothole than road, the COL crisis and the government is shocking too.

glitterpaperchain · 25/06/2026 19:39

DreamyScroller · 25/06/2026 19:37

People talk about just 'getting on' with things such as a heatwave because there are many more important things we could be thinking about to improve society. It's disproportionate to get enthusiastic about restructuring our whole infrastructure and culture on account of what is essentially four days a year of hot weather.

On reflection, I should have made my OP clearer. This sort of 'just get on with it' attitude is something I've been noticing for a few years now, and I've been wondering where that old fashioned British labour union spirit has gone. So seeing those attitudes during this heat was just a recent example.

However I didn't really make that clear in my OP so this thread is mostly just about handling the heat 😅

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Noce · 25/06/2026 19:39

Ablondiebutagoody · 24/06/2026 17:28

For a few days every half century, I think that we should just get on with it rather than spaff hundreds of billions adapting infrastructure and working practices.

It’s expected that this is the new normal sadly

glitterpaperchain · 25/06/2026 19:41

DotterOfBendigeidfran · 25/06/2026 19:38

It is a lot hotter than 1976 and it is humid whereas 1976 was a dry heat. If you sweated, you could cool. With this heat and humidity, it is scary as if you get hot, you can't get cool so easily.

I don't agree we are a rich country. If we were, the infrastructure we have would function well but nothing does function well, The Police, courts, water companies, imiggration,jails, electricity companies, the NHS, GP surgeries, massive waiting lists, the railways, services cut to the bone and/or totally disappeared, the roads are more pothole than road, the COL crisis and the government is shocking too.

We are a rich country, but the people don't see any of that wealth, so to most people it doesn't feel like a rich country. The wealth is there though, hoarded at the top and untaxed

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bafta16 · 25/06/2026 19:43

In 1976 most things worked most of the time. That's a huge difference.

ThesebeautifulthingsthatIvegot · 25/06/2026 19:45

ThreadGuardDog · 25/06/2026 19:32

And yet the met office is advising that today’s temperatures of 36.5 - in Surrey I believe - broke the record held since 1976.

Yes, but you need to read to the end of the sentence. That's the hottest day in June.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/United_Kingdom_weather_records
5 of the ten hottest days on record have been this decade. They were all above 36.7, hotter than any day in 1976. All but one of the hottest ten days have been since 2000.

Global warming is making temperature hotter, and fast.

United Kingdom weather records - Wikipedia

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/United_Kingdom_weather_records

FFSItsTooHot · 25/06/2026 19:45

I've been told I'm over-reacting to 'a but of warm weather'. I have got a medical condition that makes me more sensitive to heat plus I take 3 different medications that make me feel the heat more and one of them blunts my sense of thirst, which is not a good thing on very hot weather! To quote a cliché 'We can put a man on the moon.....' but even with all the amazing technology we have nowadays,it seems to be beyond the abilities of the powers that be to help people who really ARE suffering in the extreme heat.

bafta16 · 25/06/2026 19:45

But @Ablondiebutagoody it's not just a few days is it? It's months of flooding, disruption, literally crumbling infrastructure, no dentists, pressure on school places....on and on it goes.

JenniferBooth · 25/06/2026 19:46

DreamyScroller · 25/06/2026 19:37

People talk about just 'getting on' with things such as a heatwave because there are many more important things we could be thinking about to improve society. It's disproportionate to get enthusiastic about restructuring our whole infrastructure and culture on account of what is essentially four days a year of hot weather.

Four days Do you always have trouble with maths

DreamyScroller · 25/06/2026 19:48

JenniferBooth · 25/06/2026 19:46

Four days Do you always have trouble with maths

We're set to have had roughly four days of temperatures over 35 degrees. Or are you one of those in a flap whenever it's over 20?

TheWalkingEyebag · 25/06/2026 19:50

I agree with you OP. It’s fine for some to ‘just get on with it’, but for others, the heat is detrimental to their health. And these heatwaves are only going to be more common as time goes on.

I live in Canada where we typically experience gross heatwaves a couple of times a year. The councils now set up cooling centres for people and water spray zones so people can cool off. People receiving disability benefits are also entitled to a free portable air conditioner and I’m thrilled that our taxes go towards that scheme. Many of us have heat pumps (standard in many new builds now), but we are facing an infrastructure issue in that power grids just weren’t designed for that many buildings to have them, so that’s a consideration. I don’t know if any country has quite mastered the art of heatwave survival yet.

BrokenWingsCantFly · 25/06/2026 19:52

user5683926547 · 25/06/2026 18:27

We live near a rapidly expanding commuter town in the south. In the last 10/15yrs we have had tens of thousands of houses built here. It’s not an exaggeration to say there is not a single tree planted to provide shade in any of the postage stamp gardens. Theres a wide strip of shrub/small trees around the perimeters to give an illusion of ‘green’ on the way in, but once within the houses, as I said not a single tree, no shade for anyone to sit under, no shade to cool the houses. These developments are all new and shiny at the moment, but the ghettos of the future.
We need less people, 3 or 4 billion less people world wide if any significant difference is to be made.

Tree roots grow as wide as the trees height, so if they are post stamp gardens then it wouldn't be wise to plant big trees. Also not all would want their small gardens covered in shade. I wouldn't, but if I did then I could plant my own tree. Why should the developers need to do that

CalliopeFosterBeauchamp · 25/06/2026 19:54

DoesAnyoneRememberBoneyM · 24/06/2026 21:55

Back in the forties, old people died quickly at a much younger age. There was no extended healthcare keeping them alive for years and years. The NHS was never set up to do that. It was set up to deal with a much smaller population, to treat a far smaller number of illnesses. Now we keep pre term babies alive much earlier and whilst on the surface this seems like a good thing might be contributing to the huge number of additional needs/disabled kids we now seem to have. So more costs for hospitals, more costs for schools.

Nowadays we have a top heavy society with older people outnumbering young people. So pensions are higher, NHS is a much bigger cost (and really not viable any more) and we have hardly anyone working. The youngsters that we do have seem to either be on benefits for mental health or unable to find work (per mumsnet threads).
Anyone who can retire early is doing so and others are limiting their hours to claim benefits or avoid tax thresholds.

Thus income today from the working population is down, the costs are up and the books no longer balance. Comparing now to the forties without considering all the differences is completely unhelpful.

We are just about to get an inexperienced PM who is more left leaning than KS and look at the mess he made, spending more than he 'earned'.

If we got a really great PM who was strong and had long term view (Maggie T for example) we might have a chance of turning things around.
Even then it would be a long road. There are tough decisions to be made.
The NHS needs to be at least a co-pay system. The triple locks needs abolished. Most of the welfare needs slashed. We might then have a chance to spend money in the right areas to get the economy going.

However I've drafted a letter for you.

Dear IMF
When you come in to bail out the UK please do something about the hot summers before you address everything else.
The benefits office was very uncomfortable when I went to sign on for my free money.

Yours entitled non adult

Yeah, Maggie’s “long term view” worked really well in terms of selling off council housing.

Letskeepcalm · 25/06/2026 19:55

I was 18 in 1976 and it was the summer of my life, loved every minute of it!

I'm 68 now and take a different view.

Of course the world is heating up and of course we need to plan ahead. I agree with a lot of folk on here.
I haven't really been aware of 'just get on with it' . Most people i talk to realise that we have to start put making changes.

Im retired, but I'm not sitting at home in a cool room as someone mentioned up thread. I look after small grandchildren and its bloody hard work in the heat at my age.
Yes I agree that we need to aim higher. But it will take time with the shortage of money I'm afraid 🤷‍♀️

NormasArse · 25/06/2026 19:55

glitterpaperchain · 24/06/2026 16:48

This kind of 'just get on with it' RE the heat is all over Facebook. People talking about the heat in 1976 and saying 'we just got on with it' or 'we muddled through' (as if people didn't die as a result of that heatwave)

My issue is - shouldn't we as a society be aiming higher than just getting on with things and muddling through? We should be campaigning for better infrastructure, better working practices.

I just think we have all this technology, we're supposed to be a rich country, let's fight to make things better rather than just managing. What happened to the spirit of the first union workers who demanded better conditions and rights? I want to see that spirit back.

Our infrastructure is mostly privatised, which means profits go to shareholders, rather than back into that service.

It also means we are no longer a rich country because everything got sold off for a fast buck.

Thanks, Tories.

Edited to say that I’ve just spotted a post saying this wouldn’t happen under Thatcher. She was the one who sold it all off! 🤦‍♀️

ERthree · 25/06/2026 19:58

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Don't be ridiculous. Have you no understanding of how heat affects the body and that if you have lung or heart conditions? Many people will end up hospitalised this week and some will die. Is that not enough to be dramatic in your book?

Isitevensummer · 25/06/2026 20:03

We clearly need to add more Cooling tech to homes. All new builds and workplaces at least, as well as school buildings.

JenniferBooth · 25/06/2026 20:05

DreamyScroller · 25/06/2026 19:48

We're set to have had roughly four days of temperatures over 35 degrees. Or are you one of those in a flap whenever it's over 20?

And what was the last week of May then?

Emeraldforest · 25/06/2026 20:06

I don't remember 76 being as hot as it is now,but then I was young and fit then!