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To be fed up of hearing 'just get on with it'?

622 replies

glitterpaperchain · 24/06/2026 16:48

This kind of 'just get on with it' RE the heat is all over Facebook. People talking about the heat in 1976 and saying 'we just got on with it' or 'we muddled through' (as if people didn't die as a result of that heatwave)

My issue is - shouldn't we as a society be aiming higher than just getting on with things and muddling through? We should be campaigning for better infrastructure, better working practices.

I just think we have all this technology, we're supposed to be a rich country, let's fight to make things better rather than just managing. What happened to the spirit of the first union workers who demanded better conditions and rights? I want to see that spirit back.

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glitterpaperchain · 24/06/2026 17:58

MyFamilyBenAndSusan · 24/06/2026 17:55

When did we all turn into such a bunch of pussies

"Let's work together to improve our lives"

"Wow what a bunch of pussies"

How sad that that's your reaction

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bumptybum · 24/06/2026 18:01

Ablondiebutagoody · 24/06/2026 17:28

For a few days every half century, I think that we should just get on with it rather than spaff hundreds of billions adapting infrastructure and working practices.

Where are you getting this every half century from? How peculiar. It’s every year now and it’s weeks over the spring and summer, not a few days. Have you been living in a cave?

bumptybum · 24/06/2026 18:02

MyFamilyBenAndSusan · 24/06/2026 17:55

When did we all turn into such a bunch of pussies

Excuse me? Pussies take one hell if a pounding. I think it’s ‘cock’ that you are thinking of.

downloadtoad · 24/06/2026 18:03

Everyone going on about how it hasn’t been this hot since the 70’s or whatever, when we have a heatwave it’s usually 30 degrees and that’s way too much too !

Skybluepinky · 24/06/2026 18:04

Well of course you just have to get on with it, but the well organised will have bought aircon units. All my neighbours have had portable ones for over 10 years, as the bedrooms are in the loft. Others will have buried their heads in the sand then moan non stop. 1976 felt worse as we have less gadgets to help cope with the heat.

Shinyandnew1 · 24/06/2026 18:05

I can’t imagine any government forking out £5 billion to install air conditioning in every classroom in the country, let alone pay the electricity bills needed to turn them on!

ginasevern · 24/06/2026 18:08

SovietSpy · 24/06/2026 17:24

I agree. But there’s no willingness to change. Unfortunately there is a certain generation in this country that does not want change. They vote so politics revolves around their opinions and demands. They want to everyone suffer because it was hot in the 70s once and they ‘got on with it’. They say this as you struggle to go out to work and send your kids to school while they watch tv at home in the cool.

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I'm of that generation but I work my bollocks off. So thanks for stereotyping an entire generation. What's the average age of people on Mumsnet I wonder? I expect most of them are considerably younger than me and yet judging by the sheer apoplexy many of them express at the idea of tax increases to improve society I think you could be a little more inclusive with your "blame game".

Winterpeach · 24/06/2026 18:09

We do what we can to get though it, like we do with everything else.
I have AC in 3 rooms best thing I've ever spent money on.
My flat is currently at 22.

We have to help ourselves instead of relying on the government or other people.
I have no idea about schools as I have no kids.

Tbh this sort of heat is just going to become the normal.

Didimum · 24/06/2026 18:10

Darragon · 24/06/2026 16:51

We’re not a rich country though our tax take doesn’t cover our expenditures. Maybe if we stopped making every minor inconvenience a problem for the government to solve we’d be better off.

Climate change induced heatwaves that are predicted to become commonplace are not ‘minor inconveniences’.

Two children vomited from the heat in my child’s class of 22 today. My husband got dizzy while driving to school pick up (it was 52 degrees in the car and the air con is not fast at cooling). My mum is a home carer to those with dementia and one was hospitalised after she put on a jumper and her central heating, despite someone having corrected it an hour before. In the May heat wave my husband’s grandmother passed out on a park bench, was found by a passerby and had to be hospitalised.

Try looking outside yourself.

glitterpaperchain · 24/06/2026 18:16

Didimum · 24/06/2026 18:10

Climate change induced heatwaves that are predicted to become commonplace are not ‘minor inconveniences’.

Two children vomited from the heat in my child’s class of 22 today. My husband got dizzy while driving to school pick up (it was 52 degrees in the car and the air con is not fast at cooling). My mum is a home carer to those with dementia and one was hospitalised after she put on a jumper and her central heating, despite someone having corrected it an hour before. In the May heat wave my husband’s grandmother passed out on a park bench, was found by a passerby and had to be hospitalised.

Try looking outside yourself.

Yes, imagine thinking that something that inconveniences literally everyone and kills or hospitalises others might be something with which the government wants to concern themselves

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zobeit · 24/06/2026 18:18

Google: ‘The 1976 heatwave reached its highest temperature of 35.9°C (96.6°F) on July 3 in Cheltenham, Gloucestershire. The summer remains a historic benchmark due to its intensity and a record-breaking 15 consecutive days with temperatures exceeding 32.2°C (90°F).’

To be fed up of hearing 'just get on with it'?
glitterpaperchain · 24/06/2026 18:20

zobeit · 24/06/2026 18:18

Google: ‘The 1976 heatwave reached its highest temperature of 35.9°C (96.6°F) on July 3 in Cheltenham, Gloucestershire. The summer remains a historic benchmark due to its intensity and a record-breaking 15 consecutive days with temperatures exceeding 32.2°C (90°F).’

Do you have a point?

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Passaggressfedup · 24/06/2026 18:24

It's only a few weeks a year. It's tiring hearing people moaning all the time. It's usually the same people who moan about everything, whatever is affecting them at that specific time.

'Just get on with it' is the equivalent of 'just stop moaning, we're all in the same boat, whinging about it won't make it better'.

glitterpaperchain · 24/06/2026 18:25

Passaggressfedup · 24/06/2026 18:24

It's only a few weeks a year. It's tiring hearing people moaning all the time. It's usually the same people who moan about everything, whatever is affecting them at that specific time.

'Just get on with it' is the equivalent of 'just stop moaning, we're all in the same boat, whinging about it won't make it better'.

You're right, we should just let people die

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Didimum · 24/06/2026 18:26

glitterpaperchain · 24/06/2026 18:16

Yes, imagine thinking that something that inconveniences literally everyone and kills or hospitalises others might be something with which the government wants to concern themselves

Unfortunately Mumsnetters absolutely love a bit of ‘get on with it’.

Therescathairinmybath · 24/06/2026 18:29

MrsCarmelaSoprano · 24/06/2026 17:47

Just been chatting to my mum about the heat in 76, she said it wasn't as bad as it wasn't as muggy. I don't remember being hot in 76,just endless playing and sunshine.

1976 was a really miserable summer for some of us. I have hyperhydrosis which meant my shoes rotted from the inside from my sweaty feet and I was dripping sweat all over the classroom from my hands. My armpits weren’t quite so bad but I definitely got quite smelly by the afternoon. I wasn’t particularly popular with either teachers or other pupils during that heatwave!

Terfedout · 24/06/2026 18:29

I'm equally fed up with hearing about the bloody heat, but there you go.

No doubt the same people will be complaining about the rain/cold/whatever in a few weeks! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Bikenutz · 24/06/2026 18:31

Yes we need to adapt and part of that is improving the infrastructure. Insulate Britain, irritating though they were, had a point.

And some posters need to develop some empathy. Heat of this nature can be dangerous for the elderly, babies, people with heart and lung conditions etc.

MrFluffyDogIsMyBestFriend · 24/06/2026 18:34

1976 was an anomaly at that time. 2026 is not an anomaly at this time.

Maybe the comparison ought to be the 70's and 80's with the 2010's and 2020's. I'm wasting my energy aren't I?

I'm becoming aware that people think Gen Xers are all morons going on about 1976 and that feels strange to me as a Gen Xer although I don't necessarily disagree. I was four at the time and can't remember it but I do remember what the weather was like in the 1970's and 1980's and it certainly wasn't like this.

igelkott2026 · 24/06/2026 18:34

WinterBlues26 · 24/06/2026 17:10

I just think we have all this technology, we're supposed to be a rich country, let's fight to make things better rather than just managing

When the government won't insist on new builds having solar panels from the very beginning, or even heat pumps, because it puts too much cost on the poor builders then I think you won't get very far. Or when local government insists on building multiple flats on busy roads full of car emissions that will affect quality of life because they won't sort out the traffic light sequences properly despite multiple planning objections.

So yes, I agree with you on principle but until those people who accept brown envelopes get a conscience it will never happen.

So true. It's ridiculous that houses are built to such low standards.

I don't know why we have a culture that we should put up with low standards and discomfort, rather than improving our lot.

And we do have the money if we levy the correct taxes and spend it wisely.

igelkott2026 · 24/06/2026 18:36

MrFluffyDogIsMyBestFriend · 24/06/2026 18:34

1976 was an anomaly at that time. 2026 is not an anomaly at this time.

Maybe the comparison ought to be the 70's and 80's with the 2010's and 2020's. I'm wasting my energy aren't I?

I'm becoming aware that people think Gen Xers are all morons going on about 1976 and that feels strange to me as a Gen Xer although I don't necessarily disagree. I was four at the time and can't remember it but I do remember what the weather was like in the 1970's and 1980's and it certainly wasn't like this.

I was also 4 in 1976 and I can't remember it. DH is a bit older and he remembers being on holiday and everything being parched. I think the big thing that year was water shortages.

I can't remember being ridiculously hot in school but I think most of the time I was in older buildings. I was in portacabins some years but maybe they were just cooler years (or we'd broken up by the time it got hot).

Also we wore summer dresses and I never had a uniform with a tie or blazer.

Stella1366 · 24/06/2026 18:36

glitterpaperchain · 24/06/2026 17:01

I'm freelance and work from home so there's no union for me. But again, this hyperindividualisation of bringing it back to me specifically when I'm talking about something I'd like to see in wider society. Why can't we discuss that without going WELL YOU DO IT THEN

As a freelance worker, WFH, what do you specifically want the government to provide when it's hot?

glitterpaperchain · 24/06/2026 18:39

Stella1366 · 24/06/2026 18:36

As a freelance worker, WFH, what do you specifically want the government to provide when it's hot?

I think you have missed my point entirely

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Tutorpuzzle · 24/06/2026 18:39

I do find it interesting that in a fair few of the schools I work money seems to be found for air con in SLT offices.

These are generally large trusts where funding ever increasing layers of management is far more important than buying the odd fan for wilting children, let alone air con.

The money’s there OP, it’s just siphoned off at the top. I imagine similar in NHS and care homes.

glitterpaperchain · 24/06/2026 18:41

igelkott2026 · 24/06/2026 18:34

So true. It's ridiculous that houses are built to such low standards.

I don't know why we have a culture that we should put up with low standards and discomfort, rather than improving our lot.

And we do have the money if we levy the correct taxes and spend it wisely.

That's exactly it, it's the culture. That's what's got me thinking about unions who went on strike, demanded change. They knew their value and fought to make their lives better. Why do people now just shrug their shoulders and snap at others to stop moaning and get on with it?

Don't let the b**tards grind you down!

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