To cancel date over his ‘joke’?

[Datingwoee]

5th date tomorrow night with a man who has been great up to now. I’ve had to push the time back by an hour - said I’ll need extra time to freshen up after work. His reply to me was: “No worries, can’t be having a whiffy growler lol”.

Is that date cancelling worthy or am I being a bit too harsh?

Urgh amazed anyone thinks that is funny

Vom. I would never be able to countenance sex with such a person.

There's no way I would see him again after that revolting comment. How fucking juvenile and disgusting.

Oh come on, you can't for a second think this is ok? It's a vile, crude comment and shows the type of man he is.

I would reply "That may be your idea of witty repartee, it's not mine. I won't be seeing you again."

I wouldn’t even find that funny from DH and I’ve known him years.

Has he met your growler yet?

That’s so crass. You are right to cancel

Honestly I think it’s vile.
You don’t know him that well yet and instead of being a gentleman he’s gone straight to grim.

Ugh. No. Cancel.

Have you come across the Burned Haystack method? There’s a Facebook group. It’ll help you feel better about blocking men early in relationships. They don’t improve.

The people who are saying it’s a joke-can you explain why it’s funny?

Cancel.

That’s repulsive regardless of how long I’ve known someone.

Yes I would cancel but tell him why.
Life is too short for this revolving language

Huge ick. Do NOT go on the date, or on any other dates with him.

Also if he thinks that's appropriate now, imagine what he'd come out with in a few months' time...

NEXT!

Don't meet him any more. He sounds about 12.

Really? I am surprised anyone would think that was funny. Especially from someone you barely know. To each their own.

🤮🤮 oh god that would put me right off!

Grim. Way too soon for this type of 'joke'.

Ew

I did laugh but you can always reply and say ‘err that was gross’

Dump? Yes!
He also needs to know that it’s unacceptable.

No, that's not good. Imagine what else he'll be saying before long.

What do you like about him? Just curious.

Grim, the ‘male loneliness epidemic’ rears its revolting head again, yeah cancel.

I'd cancel and tell him why. Eww!