To cancel date over his ‘joke’?

[Datingwoee]

5th date tomorrow night with a man who has been great up to now. I’ve had to push the time back by an hour - said I’ll need extra time to freshen up after work. His reply to me was: “No worries, can’t be having a whiffy growler lol”.

Is that date cancelling worthy or am I being a bit too harsh?

He sounds gross. Disgusting man.

Absolutely date cancelling.

🤮

If it was someone I knew quite well I would find it funny, but not someone I've only seen five times.

Do you mention your dog in the message? Could that be what he is talking about?

These crude and infantile types never learn, unfortunately.

Nope, there is a line for jokes and that’s way way over it. And not funny - just crass and misogynistic. Women really need to put their collective foot down over things like this so these men remain single until they learn and change and grow up.

Poorly judged joke. That's all. I laughed tbh 🤣 . If he's great in all other ways then don't dump him over this!

Urgh. Hasn't he given any clues though?. I csm't imagine a man who's usually completely respectful in person writing that.

Urgh. I'd have to cancel, because I just couldn't enjoy the evening (today or any other time) with him after that.

That is rank. I mean if you'd been having really dirty scatalogical 'banter' up until then and you'd been talking about him not having a smeggy cock then I guess?!

But otherwise yeah I'd say sayonara to that one.

Usually I’ve a sense of humour but that’s not funny from a new date. I think it would give me hesitation, I’d still see him, but one more like that and I’d be out.

Cancel!

Yuck

It did make me laugh tbh but I’d be abit shocked if I was sent that early on in a relationship.

Depends how much you like him tho, maybe it’s just a case of telling him you don’t find that language acceptable.

At least he revealed why he's single early. Next!

Ick.

If what he said is what I think he said, he can fuck right off.

This

Have you slept together yet? Definitely ick if not and still ick if you have really

No point telling him his joke/language isn't funny, because he thinks it is 🤷
You can't change that. I'd move on.

Well in that case he better wash his face

You can cancel a date for any reason you like.

That’s grim, tells you he’s misogynistic and crude. Throw him back and try again

No. Immediately no. Ick.

with things like this you need to know your audience
5 dates I’d say no

Delete number and block