Shall I go out on my own tonight

[Jammydodger70]

I have a hotel room booked for tonight, so that me & a friend can go to a club night. Unfortunately she has cried off sick & the hotel is already paid for & non refundable.
I'm not worried about the money, but I've got itchy feet & still want to go out dancing! None of my other friends can go at this short notice. Some people do go on their own & just dance & chat. I have never done this & I'm worried about looking/feeling weird & lonely.
The other dilemma is this. I've been chatting/flirting with a man for a while who will be there tonight. Last month he walked me back to the hotel & we had a few kisses. It was lovely so I asked if he'd be there tonight. At which point he said he would be, but he's in a relationship. Just for the record I'm not!
If I go on my own how am I going to look in front of him & his mates? A desperately lonely woman? Or will I look like a stalker to them? When I imagine myself there tonight I keep thinking of the dental receptionist in Only Fools & Horses who kept popping up everywhere after Del Boy broke off their date & got back with Raquel.
This makes me feel that I should not go to the club tonight. I won't look & feel like a stalker then; but why should I be the one to not go because a man has been a complete dick head? Shall I stay in or go on my own & hold my head up high?

Yeah - she says that they don't usually do this every month as it's too expensive, but they were out last month and fancied going out again this month.

I couldn’t go out to a bar on my own, let alone a club. What do you do, go onto the dance floor and start dancing alone? It’s like some sort of bad dream to me.

Why has my post calling out a misogynistic comment been deleted? Yet the original comment telling a woman to modify her behaviour because men might not be able to control their actions still stands?

Yeah. Go to the bar and buy a drink. Chat to people and dance if you feel like it.
It’s very liberating!

Last month he walked me back to the hotel & we had a few kisses. It was lovely so I asked if he'd be there tonight.

Last month you asked him what his plans were for a month later?

ok so if you last had any contact with him a month ago… he’s probably forgotten about that fact that 4 weeks ago he had a song and confirmed his plan for tonight (a grotty cheater like this like probably be snogging part and parcel of every Saturday night). And 4 weeks later @Jammydodger70 … and zero contact? In your shoes I wouldn’t give a hoot what him and his mates thought of me.

However I still wouldn’t go to the club alone because personally that holds zero appeal to me and secondly there is the possibility of drama and… well, I take the approach that if silly drama like this can be avoided, then I’ll go with that option. Surely there’s other dancing venue in the area?

Go and have fun.