Im not sure where Ive implied Im not calm. Im setting out information for people that dont seem to understand these conditions or what the threshold for hospitalisation is
Are you aware that there is a huge amount of work by MH services, social care and the NHS to prevent and avoid people with ND going into hospital, either psychiatric hospitals or general hospitals because it is hugely counterproductive for them, its destablising, distressing, likely to make them ill. Only in the most acute and dangerous circumstances should they be hospitalised, treatment at home or outpatients is the pathway for most ND patients.
She doesnt look 'unwell', she's a young pale person, who is underweight (by the looks of her, obviously I dont know), that doesnt warrant hospitalisation. If the services working with her think she should access medical care on a ward then clearly they will assess that and make that decision.
She committed a horrific crime, seemingly not caused by her being ill at the time or thereafter and therefore why wouldnt prison be the right resopnse?
If this was a small young 19 year old male, ASD and an eating disorder, neo nazi, no one would have an question about him being imprisoned. A plea from the parent that he wasnt supported and had MH issues would be scoffed at.