Concerns over neighbours lifestyle choices.

[HumbleHun]

So my neighbours teenage son has been smoking doobies in the garden with his parents consent. His father is a policeman and actually a firearms officer. I'm concerned that he may be using Ur at least getting high from the passive smoking. I want to report him to his superiors but DH is adamantly against it and says I'm being dramatic. Really between a rock and a hard place. AIBU if I report him?

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Alcohol legal and wears off the next day.. marijuana illegal and warps the brain. See the difference?

well i tryed, but why ask on mumsnet if you dont want an accurate analysis ? and i have dyslexia hence my words, grammer and spelling etc are omg

I can see that you don't understand that alcohol is a neurotoxin and Marijuana isn't.

Maybe posting late Saturday night was a mistake. Getting passive aggressive replies and nonsense. The poll shows there is at least a decent portion of readers with a moral compass. Fine he might not get high from passive smoke but he may be smoking it himself indoors. See my dilemma?

Give me strength. I just want advice on what to do not a crash course in drug use.

The poll shows there is at least a decent portion of readers with a moral compass

Currently 88% think you’re being unreasonable.

My neighbours son used to smoke the strongest skunk and I couldn't open my windows as my entire flat would stink. Made my life hell for a couple of years. If they are renting then report it to the landlord. Hard to prove if they deny it. Police won't be interested unfortunately.

12% agree and the sensible ones will be in bed now and the drunks and insomniacs skewing the results voting with a foggy head. By lunch tommorow igl be alot closer.

but then he could also be drink driving, your other half could be having an affair is he secretive with his phone ?

i get what your saying but thats what happens when we assume

@HumbleHun I have never used an illegal drug (didn’t even drink underage!) and I know what hotboxing is… Unless you live under a rock, you can be aware of drug related terminology and not use it… YABVU to worry about your neighbor smoking weed on their own time. It is legal in lots of countries and really not a big deal. It’s hardly like he’s dealing crack on the job…

If he’s smoking on the job, they’ll figure it out. YANBU to not enjoy weed smell in the garden. It’s legal where I live and not a fan of the smell!

I know but I'd just be raising concerns and if he is clean ten yes got nothing to worry about. If he is a junkie like his DS then IV helped prevent a potential loose cannon roaming the streets with a firearms. Maybe I'm over thinking it but better to be safe than sorry

Enjoying someone who uses “hun” frequently on the internet telling someone else they are uneducated… Pot. Kettle. Black.

Sorry , I use it as a term of affecting , I know it's spelled Hon.

but you would need proof rather than hearsay

Drinks and insomniacs 🤣 - or it just might be people who live in a different time zone but that wouldn’t suit your narrative. Plus given that assumption (and you seem to assume a lot about other people) who is to say you are not off your face!

So you don't want advice you want people to tell you what you want to hear?

Yes you are being dramatic but you dont want to hear that

I like a glass of wine and the occasional g and t on celebratory nights. I'm not denying my use of alcohol buts it's all.above board and I always wait 48 hours to drive or use the iron or lawn mower etc.

I'm beginning to realise that I'm being dramatic judging by the comments. That's why I posted this. Wish people be a bit nicer about it.

That’s ridiculous overkill. 47 and 1/2 hours is absolutely fine.

Just the cocaine keeping you up tonight then?

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You are not between a rock and hard place. You are between a comfortable, tolerant, easy-going life and a neurotic, judgemental busy-body.