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AIBU?

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Concerns over neighbours lifestyle choices.

285 replies

HumbleHun · 17/05/2026 01:17

So my neighbours teenage son has been smoking doobies in the garden with his parents consent. His father is a policeman and actually a firearms officer. I'm concerned that he may be using Ur at least getting high from the passive smoking. I want to report him to his superiors but DH is adamantly against it and says I'm being dramatic. Really between a rock and a hard place. AIBU if I report him?

OP posts:
Dogladyloveswine · 18/05/2026 09:12

HumbleHun · 17/05/2026 02:24

I like a glass of wine and the occasional g and t on celebratory nights. I'm not denying my use of alcohol buts it's all.above board and I always wait 48 hours to drive or use the iron or lawn mower etc.

You wait 48 hours after a glass of wine, before you'll iron something or mow the lawn?

How straight laced can you get? 😆

EvieBB · 18/05/2026 10:06

AD1509 · 18/05/2026 08:17

Noones bitter you just sound like an utter prat. But in case it’s not completely
clear by this point - no you shouldn’t report your neighbour to his work because his teenage son is smoking weed. I’m embarrassed for you.

I'm embarrassed for you at how nasty you sound...

Pricelessadvice · 18/05/2026 11:49

HumbleHun · 17/05/2026 02:24

I like a glass of wine and the occasional g and t on celebratory nights. I'm not denying my use of alcohol buts it's all.above board and I always wait 48 hours to drive or use the iron or lawn mower etc.

Who are you running over with the lawn mower?? 😂
Brilliant!

daleylama · 18/05/2026 16:47

ImFinePMSL · 18/05/2026 04:29

I know far too many people who have died as a result of alcohol consumption.

I don’t know a single soul who has died as a result of smoking cannabis.

You come across as one hell of a sheltered pathetic individual.

The messed with brain that the wrong kind of weed consumption has delivered to some I've known was much worse than death

DontShoutInMyEarholeTracey · 18/05/2026 23:30

ThreadGuardDog · 18/05/2026 07:54

And ………..? The comment was that using cannabis isn’t a gateway to acquiring and using other drugs. The science supports that.

And…. ?!

Idontmindsoyoudontmatter · 18/05/2026 23:41

HumbleHun · 17/05/2026 02:24

I like a glass of wine and the occasional g and t on celebratory nights. I'm not denying my use of alcohol buts it's all.above board and I always wait 48 hours to drive or use the iron or lawn mower etc.

This is the funniest thing I’ve read on mumsnet to date… you wait 48 hours after drinking a glass of wine before using your iron 😂. I know people who have to be drinking wine to get through their ironing.

MarchionessVonSausage · 19/05/2026 02:09

I had great fun on this thread but you know what? I think it's time to stop.

The OP has apologized and admitted she was drunk.

It was an absolute classic but there comes a point where we are just piling on. Just my thoughts.

OneDreamyGreenMentor · 19/05/2026 06:35

HumbleHun · 17/05/2026 03:03

Settings to stop notifications

This reminds me of when elderly people post their Google questions as a Facebook post.

I've been so drunk before that I’ve thrown up but I still knew my way around a very basic webpage.

Might be worth taking some time away from MN OP. This site has enough pathetic, unhinged women ranting about nonsense without you adding to it just because you had a couple of drinks.

Idontmindsoyoudontmatter · 19/05/2026 07:04

I didn’t realise until now that you started this thread drunk on Sat night. Good news though, you can do your ironing and lawnmower ing from tonight 😂

ButterYellowFlowers · 19/05/2026 09:11

I actually don’t see the issue in reporting it. Either his bosses will have a chat with him and drug test clearing him or they’ll ignore it and no harm no foul. The police protect each other they’re not going to fire him with 0 evidence of wrongdoing.

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