Concerns over neighbours lifestyle choices.

[HumbleHun]

So my neighbours teenage son has been smoking doobies in the garden with his parents consent. His father is a policeman and actually a firearms officer. I'm concerned that he may be using Ur at least getting high from the passive smoking. I want to report him to his superiors but DH is adamantly against it and says I'm being dramatic. Really between a rock and a hard place. AIBU if I report him?

Obvious troll is obvious.

I must be living under a rock then...lol....a neither does hubby and he's smoked a few "doobies" in his time!!

Sorry, I posted too soon....What I meant to say what that I did drink underage (probably around 14)....never drugs (far too straight laced) although ate some cannabis cakes once and hubby has smoked a few "doobies" or whatever they're called in his time but neither of us has heard of hotboxing??? We must be living under a rock.....! Is it a new term for youngsters?? We are deffo in the middle age bracket

God knows there have some times when I’ve had a few too many and said/ posted some things I’ve regretted in the morning! Hope you’re having a better day today OP x

Oh OP you made me giggle into my insomniac hours with the

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We've all been there in one way or another. Hopefully you read your posts back when you dont have hangxiety and manage to giggle.

It's not a gateway drug. It's not a big deal he's smoking weed. A lot more people than you probably realise smoke weed and they have jobs, children etc, they don't all turn to crack addicts. You're massively over reacting. The police aren't going to give a shite about someone smoking weed in their own garden.

You are being dramatic. Kids will be kids. The son will do it if he wants to do it and the parents are having him do it at home, when he is safe and supervised. I will rather have that, that my child getting drunk, drugged and high god knows where!

Ok. Id ask why you care?

But you can report it, BUT you only know the son smokes. You cannot prove the parents support or the father passively or actively inhaling any weed.

And unless you are alleging growing or dealing the police wont care. They'd have to catch him actively smoking to even fine him

Id listen to your DH but do report back how it goes if you proceed

No. Thats not a dilemma, its reporting a crime youve imagined.

If its a legal concern, the son is perhaps liable for a fine should the police catch him smoking

If its a moral concern why are you their morals monitor?

"Fine he might not get high from passive smoke but he may be smoking it himself indoors" is bonkers. You have no reason to suspect the parents are also smoking. I mean why stop there.. he may be drinking indoors then driving, or he my be beating his wife in doors.. or he may be commiting Internet fraud indoors etc etc

It isnt a dilemma to debate reporting a crime that possibly could be happening. Its wasting police time.

At very best you could report the smoking you saw in the garden, and at very best an officer may come out and have a word.

Don't stress about the thread OP, you gave lots of randoms on the internet a great laugh.

People have done FAR worse things online after a few drinks, look up drunk ebay if you need a laugh today 😀

You sound quite mad🤣🤣

This is the most bonkers thread I’ve seen in a while on here.
YABU Op, just mind your own business.

Doobie doo doo

RTFT. The OP has apologized for sounding mad.

He’s using beak too?

Me either!! 😂😂

@HumbleHun I hope today was a good day for you and I will say thank you for making me smile.

I'll be honest, this morning I was laughing out loud at the "stop comments, hide thread quotes to yourself". And at this moment in my life I need a laugh.

Thank you for coming back and explaining, I think most of us have been there at some point or another.

I do hope your pet is ok, it is hard when they are struggling. Hope you feel ok now.

Goodness. No ironing for you today OP!

Op, sounds like a rough few days made you lose perspective a bit.

Just for the record, firearms officers undergo random drugs testing more than other officers due to the increased risk. The officer will know this and act accordingly.

Just mind your own business.

Me too!! - some time later! So glad OP couldn't find the delete thread icon!

I know far too many people who have died as a result of alcohol consumption.

I don’t know a single soul who has died as a result of smoking cannabis.

You come across as one hell of a sheltered pathetic individual.

I've never got on with it. I chucked a whitey once and that was enough for me! I was 47 🤣

If you report him, I’m worried you might face retaliation from his family.

Well let’s hope you stay away from the iron for at least 48 hours having had a skinful!! 😬👀