She watches my IG story daily AIBU to msg her

[neveraskingtime]

A friend of my late DP views my story everyday without fail. I haven't spoken to her since before the funeral after everyone in DP's orbit was strictly instructed not to associate with me. Those who did speak to me at the funeral were unfriended by the family.

I spoke to her a days before his death to arrange for her to visit him as I thought she might be able to help get DPs life back. His closest friends were actively addicted, so I wanted her (and his old group of mates) to replace them and help him recover.

It's been nearly 3 years now and she doesn't follow me but does check my story daily and has done daily for about 2 years.

I suppose it's possible that she's passing on information to the his circles but I honestly can't imagine they would be interested in what I'm doing after so much time.

I have not been able to retain a single link with anyone from DPs life because I think the general consensus is that I (indirectly) caused or contributed to his death, and that view was expressed but thankfully shut down immediately by the coroner at the inquest with no further inquiry or exploration along that line.
So....do I reach out?

sure did. And I regret nothing. How big must this group chat about me be if a random user from mums net was added to it 😂

Did the random user verify in any way that there is in fact a group chat related to your IG posts?
Any MN shitstirrer could type that there is a group chat, but I'm sure you'd at least confirm they are who they say they are, and not just run away with yourself on IG.

That mumsnetter was telling the truth. I tested the theory by releasing messages from a suspected participant and she found the post overnight along with a flurry of DPs mates. They are monitoring my socials and talking still.

I find it weird that they have spent 3 whole years keeping track of your Instagram stories so they can continue to chat ang gossip about you on a group chat especially when you say you only post mundane things, so what exactly are they talking about for 3 years?

These are you own words: "The most mundane room temperature meme shitposts imaginable and occasionally a homemade organic dish. I don't normally write anything or express an opinion on anything"

So what gossip exactly do they have to talk about that they have been at it for 3 years?

Either way you've decided what you want to do so as I said in my last post there's really no need to spend time and energy explaining yourself or arguing back on forth on mumsnet.

Why would you think shes initiating anything? She hasnt added you or messaged. She might not even know you check viewers. Id ignore her or block her

Can i just make sure we're all all still here?

You realise that doesn’t prove that the mumsnetter was telling the truth? You posted controversial stuff on your story to draw attention, knowing the person you mentioned in your OP was watching, and they obviously mentioned it to a few people. That mumsnetter could be any old shit stirrer having fun with you