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To think the main Mumsnet demographic are out of touch politically

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Veiledveritas · 08/05/2026 05:26

Reform.are smashing the polls yet any Reform voter is despised and ridiculed on here.

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BIossomtoes · 08/05/2026 20:09

MulberryBrandy · 08/05/2026 20:02

But happy enough to continue to place their faith in the main orchestrator of this situation? Is it just me ....😱

No, not just you.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 08/05/2026 20:09

EasternStandard · 08/05/2026 19:56

You can’t have a never ending Ponzi scheme where numbers always go up. The way out of that will be AI and tech as the opposite is incoming, loss of jobs.

AI is definitely going to be changing how many people work, but the technology isn't there yet in terms of providing appropriate care for our elderly. It won't pay for our pensions either.

EasternStandard · 08/05/2026 20:14

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 08/05/2026 20:09

AI is definitely going to be changing how many people work, but the technology isn't there yet in terms of providing appropriate care for our elderly. It won't pay for our pensions either.

Well it will have to as income tax will drop markedly. Politicians better start looking at how to extract tax from AI and tech not workers.

Walkyrie · 08/05/2026 20:18

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 08/05/2026 19:54

So if it's just about raw numbers, how do you propose we address the issues around an ageing population and a falling birth rate?

We don’t.

We are going to have to take an unorthodox approach and ultimately leave the fire to burn out. All other ‘solutions’ are a Ponzi scheme.

Kateluvscats1 · 08/05/2026 20:20

Veiledveritas · 08/05/2026 05:54

It's totally the opposite in my opinion. And the venomous insults on here, calling the ellectorate at best 'thick, uneducated and stupid' are quite frankly embarrasing.

Agree, the mumsnetters appear to be hard left wing.

Marmalademorning · 08/05/2026 20:28

BIossomtoes · 08/05/2026 19:44

Because the need for more housing isn’t predicated on a rise in population. It’s because there’s an increase in the number of households. There’s been a 30% rise in single households in the last decade.

Right. Whatever 😂

Imdunfer · 08/05/2026 20:30

Marmalademorning · 08/05/2026 19:34

Really? Then why are so many nurseries and primary schools having to close? 🤔 Ahh could it be that the rise in population isn’t from births? If so then how?

I'm sorry, is this question for real?

You don't know that we are importing more people than make up for a fall in the birth rate?

Or that until the last couple of years, people who have already been born are living longer and longer?

Marmalademorning · 08/05/2026 20:30

It’s no wonder they wanted to cancel the local elections!

Imdunfer · 08/05/2026 20:31

Marmalademorning · 08/05/2026 20:28

Right. Whatever 😂

Why do you find that correct statement funny?

Imdunfer · 08/05/2026 20:33

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 08/05/2026 20:09

AI is definitely going to be changing how many people work, but the technology isn't there yet in terms of providing appropriate care for our elderly. It won't pay for our pensions either.

Elderly care is very close.

The Japanese have been working on this already for a long time because of their own aging population crisis.

They are currently training humanoid AI driven robots in all aspects of elderly care, from companionship to personal care.

Clavinova · 08/05/2026 20:45

BIossomtoes · 08/05/2026 16:34

The density of the UK population per square km is about the same as Germany’s. If you want a real example of over population look at Malta where the density is about eight times that of the UK.

UK's population density looks about 16% higher than Germany's (2023).

Interesting graph here showing divergence since early 2000s;

https://data.worldbank.org/indicator/EN.POP.DNST?locations=GB-DE

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 08/05/2026 20:54

Imdunfer · 08/05/2026 20:33

Elderly care is very close.

The Japanese have been working on this already for a long time because of their own aging population crisis.

They are currently training humanoid AI driven robots in all aspects of elderly care, from companionship to personal care.

I'm well aware of what's happening in Japan, but the technology isn't good enough to replace human care just yet. It will develop, of course. But many elderly Japanese people have also expressed concern about technology replacing human care.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 08/05/2026 20:55

Walkyrie · 08/05/2026 20:18

We don’t.

We are going to have to take an unorthodox approach and ultimately leave the fire to burn out. All other ‘solutions’ are a Ponzi scheme.

What does that even mean?

BIossomtoes · 08/05/2026 20:56

Imdunfer · 08/05/2026 20:33

Elderly care is very close.

The Japanese have been working on this already for a long time because of their own aging population crisis.

They are currently training humanoid AI driven robots in all aspects of elderly care, from companionship to personal care.

Christ, I hope I die before that happens here.

Slightyamusedandsilly · 08/05/2026 21:02

It's not you, it's them. LOL

Logic and Farage et al aren't closely aligned.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 08/05/2026 21:05

BIossomtoes · 08/05/2026 20:56

Christ, I hope I die before that happens here.

That's pretty much what our elderly Japanese friend said.

EasternStandard · 08/05/2026 21:08

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 08/05/2026 20:54

I'm well aware of what's happening in Japan, but the technology isn't good enough to replace human care just yet. It will develop, of course. But many elderly Japanese people have also expressed concern about technology replacing human care.

Elderly care doesn’t mean keeping the Ponzi scheme going. It just means more people will have to switch to doing it over other jobs. As there will be fewer of those.

thefloorislavayes · 08/05/2026 21:22

Voting for something other than Reform doesn’t make someone “out of touch” - it’s just a personal political choice. Women also tend to lean more liberal and sympathetic towards underdog groups, so Mumsnet probably isn’t the demographic where you’d expect Reform to dominate anyway.
From what I’ve seen, a lot of Reform support comes from working-class voters who feel most directly affected by the issues the party focuses on, so the demographics on Mumsnet may simply not reflect that perspective as strongly.

localnotail · 08/05/2026 21:42

I read the whole of this thread and I still have no clue what exactly Reform voters are voting for - other than "Stopping Immigration" - which is irrelevant in local elections as local government has no say in this. They are also, apparently, voting for Reform because other people are calling them thick and because they want "British values" back.

I'm sorry if I find it all a bit laughable.

Edited: Sadly, I do think a lot of people in this country have a few marbles missing. They have voted for Brexit, so there is plenty of evidence to support this.

lonelyplanetmum · 08/05/2026 22:02

Octavia64 · 08/05/2026 19:40

I’m bored.

i should like to make clear I don’t vote reform and I think their policies are simplistic.

however.

a pp said given that we need immigration what sort of model do we want?

they have various examples including Switzerland, which has about 25% of it’s population foreign born.

now Swiss immigration is a lot easier from EU countries (Switzerland is not in the EU but has various agreements with it). If you want to become a citizen your name goes on a referendum and your local area votes whether to let you become a citizen. People are regularly rejected.

my friends who are now Swiss had to write a whole thing that went to their local area about how they were catholic and spoke German and their kids went to the local state school and they all did lots of stuff with the church and supported the local music festival etc.

Switzerland is also regularly told off by international bodies for racism (most of their immigration is white European and highly educated and or rich).

it has a referendum system for many decisions and in 2025 banned the niqab and the burka.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-europe-56314173

various Swiss cantons have also put measures in place to stop mosques being built.

Switzerland has immigration, yes. They go to a lot of effort to make sure it’s people who culturally fit with the Swiss people who are already there and they are very clear that their religion (Christianity) is the religion of the country (in various flavours depending on where you are) and they don’t put other religions on parallel with christianity.

so moving across to Britain, I think quite a lot of people who vote reform would probably like an approach more like the Swiss. Allow immigration for people who are culturally similar to the British who are already here. And make them pass a bloody hard English test just like my friemds had to do for German to become Swiss citizens.

So given we need immigration, one suggestion is that maybe Reform voters would implement a system more like the Swiss? I looked up the stats for Switzerland...

Their foreign population is 65–75% European especially from Portugal, Italy, Germany, France and Spain. Also significant numbers from UK, Austria and Poland with some from Kosovo, Serbia, North Macedonia. (Switzerland has free movement agreement with the EU.)

Non-European migrants make up the remaining 25-35% of the foreign population including Turkey, Eritrea (notable refugee group), India, China and the United States. These are workers in finance, pharma and tech plus asylum seekers and students.

The irony though. Swiss immigration is clearly more EU based, if that would be more palatable to Reform voters, then to reconfigure the system, Reform would replace non-EU immigration with EU, thereby reversing their own Brexit shift .

ElectoralControversy · 08/05/2026 22:17

Marmalademorning · 08/05/2026 20:28

Right. Whatever 😂

You know you can just look this stuff up yourself, yeah?

Walkyrie · 08/05/2026 22:37

localnotail · 08/05/2026 21:42

I read the whole of this thread and I still have no clue what exactly Reform voters are voting for - other than "Stopping Immigration" - which is irrelevant in local elections as local government has no say in this. They are also, apparently, voting for Reform because other people are calling them thick and because they want "British values" back.

I'm sorry if I find it all a bit laughable.

Edited: Sadly, I do think a lot of people in this country have a few marbles missing. They have voted for Brexit, so there is plenty of evidence to support this.

Edited

I didn’t vote Reform. But their overall aim to spend less money on individuals and more on programs that benefit the district as a whole would appeal to me.

Walkyrie · 08/05/2026 22:38

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 08/05/2026 20:55

What does that even mean?

It means, if the cost of propping the issue up in the short term is a long term population Ponzi scheme which cripples our children and future generations, we must fall on our sword and not do it, however the chips may land.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 08/05/2026 22:54

Walkyrie · 08/05/2026 22:38

It means, if the cost of propping the issue up in the short term is a long term population Ponzi scheme which cripples our children and future generations, we must fall on our sword and not do it, however the chips may land.

So just let a generation of elderly people rot?

Allisnotlost1 · 08/05/2026 23:12

Walkyrie · 08/05/2026 22:37

I didn’t vote Reform. But their overall aim to spend less money on individuals and more on programs that benefit the district as a whole would appeal to me.

What programmes are those?

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