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To think the main Mumsnet demographic are out of touch politically

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Veiledveritas · 08/05/2026 05:26

Reform.are smashing the polls yet any Reform voter is despised and ridiculed on here.

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BiteSizedLife · 08/05/2026 06:20

Veiledveritas · 08/05/2026 05:54

It's totally the opposite in my opinion. And the venomous insults on here, calling the ellectorate at best 'thick, uneducated and stupid' are quite frankly embarrasing.

I think if the left are saying that something is right, and the right are saying the same thing is left, then it is probably center/neutral. Ex: BBC

Anyway, I think a lot of MN would be surprised to know that Reform would like to bring about an end to wfh !

PortSalutPlease · 08/05/2026 06:21

Given that the majority of reform supporters don’t seem to be able to articulate any of their policies, I’m not sure it’s other people who are out of touch politically. People can vote for who they want, but they should at least take the time to review what that means.

CurlewKate · 08/05/2026 06:21

Octavia64 · 08/05/2026 06:10

It’s largely a protest vote against the current government.

Is that the way you voted? What do you think you’ll achieve?

Pretfeen · 08/05/2026 06:21

BiteSizedLife · 08/05/2026 06:20

I think if the left are saying that something is right, and the right are saying the same thing is left, then it is probably center/neutral. Ex: BBC

Anyway, I think a lot of MN would be surprised to know that Reform would like to bring about an end to wfh !

An end to WFH and the equality act. Ie policies that help mothers

Su1rlie · 08/05/2026 06:22

You do realise this isn't a general election and most of the country weren’t voting yesterday.

ThursdayNext1 · 08/05/2026 06:22

LoudTealHare · 08/05/2026 06:15

I live in a Reform controlled council and they are truly out of their depth! The got voted in on the lie that the council could stop the boats which they can’t, that’s down to national policy! Unfortunately Reform supporters are a bunch of bigots who seem to lack the capacity to research the truth for themselves. The best example is Farage referent asylum seekers as illegal migrants, they’re not illegal until their claim for asylum is refused! Remember Reform is lead by a bunch of multi millionaire ex Tories who have absolutely no interest in the average person! I worry for the younger generation who are going suffer due to the elderly racists voting them in!

What makes you think it’s mainly elderly people voting for reform? I found out 2 colleagues from work have stood as reform candidates. They are younger than me! (Early 40s)

southcoastsammy · 08/05/2026 06:23

You’re confusing having a negative opinion about a party and people who vote for it with a lack of political education.
I’d say the opposite - anyone who thinks that Reform will govern well or for the greater good in anyway IMHO are the politically ignorant ones.
Blaming everything on immigrants, claiming you can pay for publics services by dropping taxes, and sticking the nearest shouty white boy in charge regardless of education or ability or experience to do the job is just good old fascist behaviour.

ProudAmberTurtle · 08/05/2026 06:23

There a lot of Mumsnet posters who deep down know they're not the best version of themselves they can be, so convince themselves that they're good people because they're not racist, and that's signified by vocally opposing Reform.

There are many reasons not to vote Reform but if it's just so you can show off you're not racist, then you're very likely:

  1. Extremely privileged
  2. Not terribly bright
  3. A bit racist
JoshLymanSwagger · 08/05/2026 06:24

I've voted for all 3 main political parties - Conservative, Labour and Liberal Democrat listed in abc order, so don't read anything into that.

I'm politically homeless right now.

There are bits of some that I like, and bits of others that I hate.

I'd find it really hard to say "I'm a Tory" or "I vote Labour" etc...

Thankfully there are no local elections in my Council area this year.

I'm happy for other areas of the Country to do the heavy lifting to see what happens when Reform or Green run a Local Authority.

PermanentTemporary · 08/05/2026 06:24

I’ve seen nonstop pro Reform threads on here every day and nobody seems shy of saying that they support them. I don’t know what you mean by ‘out of touch’ - they don’t agree with you, maybe?

PurpleAxe · 08/05/2026 06:25

Purplewarrior · 08/05/2026 05:52

I don’t know anyone irl who would admit to voting Reform. I can’t imagine any of my friends would, and certainly nobody I work with.

I am from a very ordinary council flat background. I do not earn a six figure salary or have a partner who does.

Sure, they don't admit to it because they are aware of the ridiculous tirade of nonsense and abuse they will get, so why bother?

You know what they do instead? They vote.

With the memories of those tirades front and centre.

AImportantMermaid · 08/05/2026 06:28

Reform are doing well, but not well enough. They have taken seats, but they haven’t won a council yet. They’ve put some into NOC, but not by enough that they’ll be in a coalition. I have no doubt they’ll win some councils, but so far this isn’t the bloodbath I was expecting. In one way it’s a shame because it would be funny watching them try to lead local government, but in another it’s something of a relief that, on the whole, they won’t be.

TheLandlordsAreFrowning · 08/05/2026 06:28

Reform is doing very well re: seats, but it hasn't won control of any councils yet.

There is a long way to go!

RedTagAlan · 08/05/2026 06:28

PortSalutPlease · 08/05/2026 06:21

Given that the majority of reform supporters don’t seem to be able to articulate any of their policies, I’m not sure it’s other people who are out of touch politically. People can vote for who they want, but they should at least take the time to review what that means.

Probably because they don't have any policies. None that stand up to scrutiny anyway.

So they use division. "Them and us". They yell "See how they insult us. We are with you, vote for us".

What they fail to mention is that being asked to explain policy is not an insult. It is normal political discourse.

TheLandlordsAreFrowning · 08/05/2026 06:29

AImportantMermaid cross post! 😀

Wouldcou · 08/05/2026 06:30

The people voting reform are out of touch. I hope they get what they deserve. It will be like the MAGA revolt. “What do you mean this isn’t covered by the NHS anymore…?”

Shrinkhole · 08/05/2026 06:30

Foxyloxy89 · 08/05/2026 05:36

Absolutely. I wouldn't want a Reform government but am hoping this will make the current government take the worries of the country seriously now. The people have spoken. Sort out the Welfare Bill, make work worthwhile, abolish business rates, stop building on our green belt and raise the tax threshold. Oh and get the navy in the channel to sort out the small boats chaos. That is what the working people who hold this country together want.

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Sort out the Welfare bill and make work worthwhile I actually agree with you on this but not on any of the other points.

abolish business rates WTAF for everyone including large corporations? Hard disagree
stop building on green belt- disagree this is NIMBYISM we need more houses
raise the tax threshold- so there can be less money for public services disagree
sort out small boats- I give almost no shits about this issue apart from wanting to stop the human suffering and am in favour of immigration as it has been shown to be a net benefit to the U.K.
I am a working tax paying person and have been all my life. Reform don’t speak for me.

Su1rlie · 08/05/2026 06:32

AImportantMermaid · 08/05/2026 06:28

Reform are doing well, but not well enough. They have taken seats, but they haven’t won a council yet. They’ve put some into NOC, but not by enough that they’ll be in a coalition. I have no doubt they’ll win some councils, but so far this isn’t the bloodbath I was expecting. In one way it’s a shame because it would be funny watching them try to lead local government, but in another it’s something of a relief that, on the whole, they won’t be.

They’re unlikely to considering how dreadful they are when given anything like a real job to do. One taste of a reform councillor and most voters aren’t likely to go down that route again let alone in any vote Reform in aGE.

BeethovenNinth · 08/05/2026 06:32

Mumsnet voters in general have never really grasped that many people don’t want unlimited migration of young males, don’t want hotels near them and don’t want to be told that if they are concerned then they are “far right”!!!!

Veiledveritas · 08/05/2026 06:33

Pretfeen · 08/05/2026 06:09

At least spell electorate properly when you're making the point they're not thick or uneducated if they vote Reform...

In my experience Reform voters always fall into 3 camps:

Uneducated/ ignorant and don't even read Reform's policies properly and realise they're voting against their own interests.

Very rich, so they have a vested interest in voting for a party funded by and looking out for billionaires and millionaires.

Racist, who vote purely based on hate of immigrants and foreigners.

@Pretfeen It was actually a deliberate spelling mistake and you have proved my point wonderfully!

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lxn889121 · 08/05/2026 06:34

For me, I think that it is quite representative of the general population.

The reason I think it feels very left-leaning and anti-reform is because:

1, statistically women, and especially younger women have shifted leftwards in the past 20 years, and are particularly very anti-reform when polled. (Men have shifted to the right, but to a lesser degree than women have shifted left)
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2, Peer pressure and the fear of speaking against the group is more pronounced among female than male groups. So you are going to get more people on here who are right-wing but won't say it, then in more mixed forums, where the (men) don't care about saying unpopular things at all.

Katypp · 08/05/2026 06:35

Wouldcou · 08/05/2026 06:30

The people voting reform are out of touch. I hope they get what they deserve. It will be like the MAGA revolt. “What do you mean this isn’t covered by the NHS anymore…?”

This is local counil elections in England anyway. Local councils do not get to decide policy of the NHS.
Laughibg at oh-so-superior posters berating how thick Refirm voters are while not really undersranding the process themselves.
We've already had thick, elderly bigots and racists. Yet no one insults RW voters on MN apparently.

A671090 · 08/05/2026 06:35

Veiledveritas · 08/05/2026 05:54

It's totally the opposite in my opinion. And the venomous insults on here, calling the ellectorate at best 'thick, uneducated and stupid' are quite frankly embarrasing.

I agree

RedTagAlan · 08/05/2026 06:37

Veiledveritas · 08/05/2026 06:33

@Pretfeen It was actually a deliberate spelling mistake and you have proved my point wonderfully!

I never noticed any spelling mistake, but thanks for confirming that Reform supporters are intentionally baiting, rather than, you know, talking about policy.

gannett · 08/05/2026 06:37

MN is in no way a left-leaning site. Most actual left-wing politicians (Corbyn, Polanski) get mocked, and left-wing protestors get derided if not spoken about in abusive terms.

MN is incredibly snobby, so Reform voters are the victim of that, but in terms of actual politics the demographic of this site is firmly centre-right.

I suppose that does mean it's out of touch though.

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