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To think south of France beach clubs have ruined DH

238 replies

TeddyBearCottage · 18/04/2026 14:42

Now he’s acting like a spoilt baby
Saying he won’t go to a normal beach and sit on a towel on the sand and he will only go somewhere he has a sunbed, a proper one

so now I’m trying to find places with beach clubs that are reasonable for this summer

any ideas ? don’t want to go to south of France again

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blahblonk · 18/04/2026 19:57

Not read the full thread but residence Serenissima in Bibione north Italy and many other places near there have beach clubs included. Bibione great for a cheap family holiday. In Puglia there are also many 30 euro a day lidos which include beach service but need to book ahead.

Girlwithavibe · 18/04/2026 20:27

Sounds lovely where abouts in south of France had these beach clubs op ?
When I went to Kos u can go into beach bars and rent the sunbeds and they serve drinks ect ect they had padding and umbrellas and some have the big beds as well !

TheSquareMile · 18/04/2026 21:05

Would one of the Mark Warner resorts appeal to him?

https://www.markwarner.co.uk/sun-holidays/greece/

columnatedruinsdomino · 18/04/2026 21:22

I’m confused. He’s causing a problem and you’re the one trying to sort it out?

Dalmationday · 18/04/2026 21:36

Forte dei Marmi, italy

WellConfusedandDazed · 18/04/2026 21:40

Belgian Coast - De Haan, Ostend, Knokke-Heist all have beach clubs. Of
course the weather is another matter…

Dalmationday · 18/04/2026 21:41

Allthatwegotisthispalebluedot · 18/04/2026 16:41

Don’t most beaches across the entire world have some variation of hireable sunbeds? That don’t cost €800 per day?? That would be an insane price that most people just wouldn’t pay.

The most expensive sunbed I ever hired was about £60 per day in Dubai. But we are ginger so we needed the umbrella for shade more than anything. But even that’s a world away from €800 per day! I am baffled by this post.

I think you (and others) might not have been anywhere posh enough to know what OP is talking about!

Sassylovesbooks · 18/04/2026 21:42

We went to Icmeler in Turkiye last year, and there were lots of bars/restaurants on the beach that offered proper sun loungers on the beach. You could order food/drinks to your sun loungers! We also have been to several Greek Islands, where the same is offered. Alternatively, you book a hotel, that has it's own private part of the beach, and has sun loungers etc.

IHopeYouStepOnALegPiece · 18/04/2026 21:51

Ive spent ALOT of time in Puglia in the last couple of years, specifically around Fasano in Bari. Shit ton of beach clubs, absolutely loads.

And I too now want to lie on a deckchair and have someone bring me a drink tbh

Lotus3 · 18/04/2026 22:04

I dont have anything particularly valuable to add except, I literally could have written this post myself! Solidarity to you OP, I get the spoilt man baby husband who will only deign to holiday somewhere that you spend €200 a day on a beach club and I'm also bored to tears of Antibes, and the excessive cost!!

FettleOfKish · 18/04/2026 22:06

To be fair I agree with your DH, I hate lying flat on a towel covered in sand, even at home if we’re going to the beach I favour the one with rental loungers. It doesn’t need to be a ££££ private beach club though, plenty of hotels have beach access and loungers, and plenty of beaches have loungers for rent for a few pounds a day.

HaveCreditWillShop · 18/04/2026 22:41

FancyBiscuitsLevel · 18/04/2026 14:46

Also many beaches on the med have someone who’ll rent loungers.

That’s not the same as a beach club.

Maraudingmarauders · 18/04/2026 22:47

Italy’s east coast is almost universally covered in beach beds.

HaveCreditWillShop · 18/04/2026 22:49

Dalmationday · 18/04/2026 21:41

I think you (and others) might not have been anywhere posh enough to know what OP is talking about!

This still isn’t the same as a beach club.

Guys, they aren’t talking about the thatched parasols and the wisened old beach dude with a bumbag who comes round to take your euros 😆

Theyre talking about beach clubs like in Cannes, Italy etc - although to be honest the best ones are in far east Asia in my opinion. In Cannes, Nice etc you can get drinks and snacks brought to you and a reasonable DJ but that’s about it - you get full service in places like Bali, Thailand, Vietnam.

Gillthepill · 18/04/2026 23:01

A beach club is somewhere like the Blue Marlin in Ibiza. Posh sunbeds, nice pool, food and drinks service, private bit of beach and DJ.

DownyBirch · 18/04/2026 23:08

JacquesHarlow · 18/04/2026 14:45

Is this some sort of weird flex?

You can't work out how to parent him about this without coming on a forum?

so now I’m trying to find places with beach clubs that are reasonable for this summer

Where? Where are you wanting to be? I could name you a dozen, but they would need different flights .

YABU

Why should OP have to work out how to parent her husband?

DoloresDelEriba · 18/04/2026 23:11

TeddyBearCottage · 18/04/2026 14:54

He says he like it with a proper sunbed ideally with padding

and he likes getting his drink in a proper glass with ice and also being able to go to nice toilets without queueing

and having food brought over and music

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Ablondiebutagoody · 18/04/2026 23:15

I find that beach clubs are full of tossers. Prefer a beach in the middle of nowhere. Packed lunch. Piss in the sea.

BellaEllaWella · 18/04/2026 23:21

I’d have a nice holiday with your husband - I detest lying on a towel on the sand. Give me a nice comfy lounger, cold rosé and a lovely lunch venue and it’s a proper day at the beach. Most touristy beach areas now have decent beach clubs

hahabahbag · 18/04/2026 23:24

They have them most coastal areas now, even in the U.K. thankfully the people that set the one up in my town put extra large waterproof parasols up as weather is a lot less reliable and there’s a large indoor area for obvious reasons. Went to a great one in Portugal last year

PeloMom · 18/04/2026 23:24

TeddyBearCottage · 18/04/2026 14:54

He says he like it with a proper sunbed ideally with padding

and he likes getting his drink in a proper glass with ice and also being able to go to nice toilets without queueing

and having food brought over and music

Nothing wrong with that. After certain age I felt the same way. When I’m on holiday i want to be waited on and being comfortable 🤷🏻‍♀️

HaveCreditWillShop · 18/04/2026 23:35

You can still piss in the sea somewhere really posh. Ask me how I know 😆😆😆

Franjipanl8r · 18/04/2026 23:47

Sounds like the kind of holiday he should go on by himself rather than a family holiday.

Pyjamatimenow · 19/04/2026 00:26

I mean on the surface of it he sounds a bit spoilt but it’s a holiday. The whole idea is to kind of indulge yourself. I refuse to rough it in any way on holiday. I’d rather stay home. Lots of places do have beach clubs. There’s a few in Corfu. Heard good things about this one https://www.aragostacorfu.com/gallery/ and this one malibucorfu.com/the-beach/

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https://www.aragostacorfu.com/gallery/

ByHardyCat · 19/04/2026 00:55

Cyprus - Lasmari Beach