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Has anyone ever actually been turned on by a dick pic?

406 replies

worldshottestmom · 09/04/2026 20:08

Genuinely curious if this has ever worked outside of very specific, pre-arranged circumstances. Like is there a secret success rate no one talks about, or is this just the digital equivalent of throwing spaghetti at a wall and hoping it flirts back?

I have never found a dick pic arousing, other than one occassion where the person made slightly more effort for the photo than just a POV shot of their nob. Solicited or unsolicited it just feels like im looking at a penis, and so what

It feels like we’re watching the longest-running group project where no one wants to admit it’s failing. I feel like women typically put a bit more effort into nudes??

Have you ever been turned on by a dick pic?

Idc if im being unreasonable dick pics are just not it

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ohwtf · 09/04/2026 20:31

EwwPeople · 09/04/2026 20:26

Why would I get turned on by a Temu version of a naked mole rat?

Or

The last chicken in the shop

Ablushingcrow · 09/04/2026 20:32

ohwtf · 09/04/2026 20:10

I was mildly amused at a photo of a man being tasered in the bollocks, but not turned on per se.

This made me laugh so much, I started coughing and I wet myself a bit.

Screamingabdabz · 09/04/2026 20:33

“Imho, the men who send dic pics just don't get it.”

Yep. And the sheer male entitlement that any female would even want to see a picture of their veiny offal is a turn off in itself.

Tacohill · 09/04/2026 20:33

JohnnyMcGrathSaysFuckOff · 09/04/2026 20:22

I now feel like this immense weirdo

I genuinely do like pictures of cocks (cannot believe I actually typed that) and do find them a turn on. Obvious caveat of if they are wanted!

To me it’s no different to get a pic of a random kneecap or someone’s ear.

Like it literally does nothing, it’s just a random body part.

If it’s someone I’ve already been intimate with then that’s different, but a random man no way.

If you googled penis’s now, would you get turned on by them?

DandyPanda · 09/04/2026 20:34

Nope, I don’t know how you could be

morningpaper · 09/04/2026 20:35

I think us ladies like a bit of mystery.

Having said that, that old picture of Terry Wogan in some very revealing tight trousers, which we used to scrutinise on MN in the olde days, did get me a little bit high-pitched.

Dragracer · 09/04/2026 20:35

Yeah ngl I did love exchanging photos with people when in the dating pool. Since I was far too young really.

I love exchanging photos with DH and literally if he sent me a picture of his erection in the middle of.the day I'd get a thrill.

I get that most women dont and men obviously shouldn't send unsolicited dick pics but to answer your question, yes I find receiving dirty pictures a turn on.

If someone i wasn't even talking to sent me one I wouldn't though, if there'd been no flirting or attraction.

ohwtf · 09/04/2026 20:39

Ablushingcrow · 09/04/2026 20:32

This made me laugh so much, I started coughing and I wet myself a bit.

Do you need a tissue? 🤣🥹

oviraptor21 · 09/04/2026 20:39

Unsolicited - yeuch!
Part of a consenting relationship - yep.
Googling - maybe.
All preferred if presented with a degree of artistry 😂

Squirrelchops1 · 09/04/2026 20:40

Let's face it...there's a huge difference (no pun intended) between a flaccid member and a beautiful Erect girthy phallus

AltitudeCheck · 09/04/2026 20:44

I imagine men must think women admire dicks in the same way men seem to admire boobs. In reality a random dick pic lands somewhere between comedy / ick and entitled/ vaguely threatening, depending on circumstances and the specimen being presented!

EwwPeople · 09/04/2026 20:45

AltitudeCheck · 09/04/2026 20:44

I imagine men must think women admire dicks in the same way men seem to admire boobs. In reality a random dick pic lands somewhere between comedy / ick and entitled/ vaguely threatening, depending on circumstances and the specimen being presented!

I’d much rather get a boob pic.Grin

Cherrytree86 · 09/04/2026 20:46

If it was really big, maybe. Because let’s face it, not that many men do have what most women would class as a big one

autumn1610 · 09/04/2026 20:47

Depends on the dick…if someone I’m chatting to out of the blue sends it then no not normally. But if it’s someone I’m seeing and we are sexting and they send one (and they have a nice one important detail haha) then yeah it would turn me on. I still remember one I got sent when I started seeing someone’s fit was hot had a lovely cock ring on haha jazzed it up a bit

YerMotherWasAHamster · 09/04/2026 20:48

Never been turned on by them in photos, films, paintings or up close and personal in all their naked mole rat glory.

The penis itself is not what turns me on. I mean, it's there, it's involved but I have a much better time if I don't have to look at it.

The penis is probably why in most species the bloke goes at it from behind.

Its only us dumb fuckers that seem to want to look.

worldshottestmom · 09/04/2026 20:48

Statsinyoureyes · 09/04/2026 20:21

I totally get why this would be a turn-on if you like the guy. I don't think I would personally call this a dick pic, I think it's more a nude. Pics of just the appendage do little for me but a pic from my husband as you describe would be welcome.

Nice distinction! I never really thought about it like that. I guess nudes from guys can be okay, but dick pics are just repulsive to me idk

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worldshottestmom · 09/04/2026 20:49

ohwtf · 09/04/2026 20:22

There was also a video, and the shriek with subsequent collapsing to the floor like a groaning sack of spuds, was actually fucking perfection. I don't think it was Jackass, but a smaller group of men doing terrible things to each other in the name of mid 00s internet entertainment.

Please find it i need a laugh 😭

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PeonyPatch · 09/04/2026 20:50

Nope. I like men. I can’t say pictures of their appendages turn me on though.

millit · 09/04/2026 20:50

I’ve only ever found it a turn on from one person and that was many moons ago. He had an incredible body and a large member but it was the build up, back and forth and sexy talk that made it hot.

CoffeeCakeAndALattePlease · 09/04/2026 20:51

A random dick pic? No thanks.

One from a partner who I’m attracted to? Yes I have found some a turn on.

worldshottestmom · 09/04/2026 20:53

JohnnyMcGrathSaysFuckOff · 09/04/2026 20:22

I now feel like this immense weirdo

I genuinely do like pictures of cocks (cannot believe I actually typed that) and do find them a turn on. Obvious caveat of if they are wanted!

Im crying i don't think ill ever write that sentence in my life, but one can dream!

I think there are a lot of factors affecting this, but to me they may as well just send me a photo of a potato, my reaction is the same

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ainsleysanob · 09/04/2026 20:54

I don’t think a cock is any uglier than a fanny to be honest! Neither are particularly Bonny things.

But yes, I suppose I do quite like the look of a good nob!

Blodyneighbour · 09/04/2026 20:55

No way. Imagine all those dic pics in the cloud that men think women like to see?
Why do they do it? And why do they think we will be turned on by it? Just gross 🤮

worldshottestmom · 09/04/2026 20:55

StephensLass1977 · 09/04/2026 20:23

Nope, they do nothing for me. And I like men.

In my slightly younger days, I had quite a few pics sent to me, e.g. on dating sites, and they repulsed me. As pps have said, how is just literally a cock going to do a damn thing with no other effort or context? It's not remotely sexy.

They're OK when you see them as a whole, say, first thing in the morning. But just as a pic? No thanks. Enough to turn me gay.

God if ive ever related to a comment it's this one

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worldshottestmom · 09/04/2026 20:56

OrlandointheWilderness · 09/04/2026 20:23

And wanking vids of DP would very much turn me on.

Idk why but I find this to be the same as dick pics. Maybe I am asexual

This is now my coming out thread

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