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Six year old trans girl ‘tries to cut off her penis’ after Guide ban

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JonesTown · 29/03/2026 11:14

Quite a disturbing article in this morning’s Observer regarding the impact of the Guides’ ban on trans girls following the Supreme Court ruling.

It reports on the experience of one six year old trans girl named Emily after hearing she could no longer attend Rainbows:

Emily’s parents decided to be honest with their daughter about the situation, and explained that she was no longer able to take part in Rainbows because she was trans. A few hours later Curt said they found her “sobbing in her room” and were “shocked” to find her holding a pair of plastic scissors to her penis.

AIBU to find this a distressing consequence of campaign by anti-trans activists or is it a natural result of allowing such young children to change their gender identity?

Girlguiding facing mass exodus after setting deadline for...

Girlguiding facing mass exodus after setting deadline for...

The organisation is battling a backlash over new rules that will exclude trans girls from the organisation

https://observer.co.uk/news/national/article/girlguiding-facing-mass-exodus-after-setting-deadline-for-trans-girls-to-quit

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BackToLurk · 29/03/2026 15:15

JonesTown · 29/03/2026 11:27

Zoe Williams has argued that a sensible solution to all of this would be to make the Brownies mixed gender like the Scouts.

Wouldn't this be more sensible than making six year old girls so distressed that they attempt to cut off their penis?

Zoe Williams is an idiot who doesn’t understand charity law.

Taztoy · 29/03/2026 15:20

JonesTown · 29/03/2026 14:07

The Green Party position is that trans women are women, and should have access to female spaces alongside non-binary people.

Until we reach a position where all facilities are multi-gender, the Greens’ position would avoid trans people being so distressed that a six year old girl tries to cut her penis off.

What about the distress that having a man in a single sex space causes me? Why do I not matter?

Manxexile · 29/03/2026 15:20

ThatCyanCat · 29/03/2026 15:13

It's a wind up, check out the oh so edgy username. Thanks, whoever noticed it.

I did wonder, but all this absurd shite is exactly what they do sound like and what they say, word for word, so they are impossible to parody. You have to look for things like the username to get a clue.

I think I noticed it first.

I suspect the OP has had too much Kool-Aid...

BackToLurk · 29/03/2026 15:21

JonesTown · 29/03/2026 13:48

They identify as women though, and should be treated as such from the perspective of sport categorisation.

Trans women happen to have been assigned male at birth. That should not prevent them participating in the sport grouping that feels most appropriate to them.

Could you outline the physical differences between a male person who ‘identifies as’ a woman and one who doesn’t?

BackToLurk · 29/03/2026 15:24

Attempting to mutilate your own genitals as a child used to be considered to indicate undisclosed sexual abuse. Amazed that this seems to have been forgotten.

Marieb19 · 29/03/2026 15:24

Swiftie1878 · 29/03/2026 12:09

This has nothing to do with Rainbows or being trans. This 6 year old child has severe mental health problems and should be given treatment accordingly.

This sounds like a hundred other fictional "Trans" stories. I do not beleive it. If this story was true, I'd have huge sympathy for this child, for having such dysfunctional, self absorbed parents, who would inflict such misery their 6 year old son.

Emigree · 29/03/2026 15:27

Another 'just so' story
It's amazing how often the trope of ' trans child trying to cut off penis with scissors' It's apparently happened in childhood to so many adult trans identifed males over the years, many describe this exact incident and ideation, and now a new generation are doing the same, even though they are apparently affirmed in all other ways apart from girl guides. One little setback and it's out with the plastic handled scissors for snippy choppy time. Which is always prevented in time. And apparently the only answer ever considered or explored is unquestioning affirmation by others, no other psychological or psychiatric help is sought for worrying self harm ideation in a child.

It's surprising no other implements or means of harming are ever used or considered if damaging genitalia is the aim, and even more surprising that for an injury that apparently many trans identifying males have attempted, there is not a rash of these individuals as patients in the health care services. Thankfully self inflicted penile injuries remain vanishingly rare in adults and childre

ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 29/03/2026 15:28

Bullshit.
I’ve never read such fabricated, bollocks in my life.
This sort of thing is a TRA’s wet dream.
It’s perfect for deflecting any attention that AGPs are at the core of this issue.

Most disgustingly, they were also rubbing their hands together with glee when Brianna Ghey was killed.

Bedroomdilemmas113 · 29/03/2026 15:31

JonesTown · 29/03/2026 11:27

Zoe Williams has argued that a sensible solution to all of this would be to make the Brownies mixed gender like the Scouts.

Wouldn't this be more sensible than making six year old girls so distressed that they attempt to cut off their penis?

I assume you’re joking, because girls do not have a penis to cut off, even if they wanted to do such a thing. That’s 100% the point here.

lcakethereforeIam · 29/03/2026 15:36

At the risk of repeating myself, why all the concern about this child getting his penis cut off. Do his parents, the Guardian, the OP not realise this is the reality of the road this child has been set on. He, unless he's exceptionally fortunate, will be castrated. Why is it such a tragedy now? It's his future.

TheKeatingFive · 29/03/2026 15:36

That story is an absolute disgrace

This is about a little girl who thought she had to change her body to keep her friends. Her actions weren’t driven by self-hatred, but by the heartbreaking belief that if she could remove the part of her body others said made her “wrong”, she might finally be accepted.

No way would this child have come to that conclusion if adults hadn't put it in his head.

I'm also aghast at how the last paragraph begins with 'What I want'.

This is all about the narcissism of the parents. Not a single thought or mention of the little girls who need to budge over and accommodate a boy. No actual regard for the child himself, he's being used for their agenda. Absolutely gross from start to finish.

ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 29/03/2026 15:37

lcakethereforeIam · 29/03/2026 15:36

At the risk of repeating myself, why all the concern about this child getting his penis cut off. Do his parents, the Guardian, the OP not realise this is the reality of the road this child has been set on. He, unless he's exceptionally fortunate, will be castrated. Why is it such a tragedy now? It's his future.

Man alive - that’s a good point!

I didn’t even think of that. You’re dead on.

ChequerToRed · 29/03/2026 15:38

JonesTown · 29/03/2026 14:07

The Green Party position is that trans women are women, and should have access to female spaces alongside non-binary people.

Until we reach a position where all facilities are multi-gender, the Greens’ position would avoid trans people being so distressed that a six year old girl tries to cut her penis off.

Now you’re just being plain disgusting.
I also note that you ignored my earlier post, probably because you know full well that if you said you do believe that prisons, rape crisis counselling, domestic abuse shelters and hospital wards should by default be mixed sex, you’re immediately going to lose the argument by exposing what a horror show your beliefs are.
Telling, very telling,
That is what you believe, though, isn’t it? That females, despite historically being the world’s most oppressed and abused group, aren’t deserving of boundaries, even if they’re deeply hurt or traumatised. And why is that? Because it might make some males sad?
You are a complete moral vacuum. As for bringing Trump into it, I suspect he’d also say that the sky is blue and water is wet, because some things are universal truths whether you like who’s saying them or not.

WeMeetInFairIthilien · 29/03/2026 15:39

I am so sorry, but I don't get the bit about the username. What am I missing? All I can think of is that it sounds bit like a colloquial name for male genitalia, or the town where there was a terrible dam burst.

ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 29/03/2026 15:40

Jones Town was where they literally drunk the Kool aid.

ThatCyanCat · 29/03/2026 15:41

WeMeetInFairIthilien · 29/03/2026 15:39

I am so sorry, but I don't get the bit about the username. What am I missing? All I can think of is that it sounds bit like a colloquial name for male genitalia, or the town where there was a terrible dam burst.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jonestown

They could perhaps be making a point about dangerous cults. We aren't the ones who need to be told, though.

Jonestown - Wikipedia

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jonestown

dapsnotplimsolls · 29/03/2026 15:42

Did the Observer even check the story?

ChequerToRed · 29/03/2026 15:42

ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 29/03/2026 15:40

Jones Town was where they literally drunk the Kool aid.

Interesting choice, isn’t it?
Makes you wonder what we’re actually dealing with here.

KWaldron · 29/03/2026 15:43

Tontostitis · 29/03/2026 11:16

Unbelievable

Literally not believable.

lcakethereforeIam · 29/03/2026 15:43

JonesTown · 29/03/2026 14:07

The Green Party position is that trans women are women, and should have access to female spaces alongside non-binary people.

Until we reach a position where all facilities are multi-gender, the Greens’ position would avoid trans people being so distressed that a six year old girl tries to cut her penis off.

Again for the ones at the back, the Green Party want little boys to be castrated. What do you think 'gender affirming care' is? Now, with plastic scissor, or in a few years at a chop shop in Thailand. Then back home where, hopefully, the NHS can repair the damage so the hole he'll be left with won't kill him.

WeMeetInFairIthilien · 29/03/2026 15:44

Thank-you.

That was bugging me.

Turns out, I can't spell.

Can tell the difference between male and female though, so there is that 😂

Tontostitis · 29/03/2026 15:44

KWaldron · 29/03/2026 15:43

Literally not believable.

Quite

ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 29/03/2026 15:47

Isn’t it just.

KWaldron · 29/03/2026 15:49

JonesTown · 29/03/2026 11:27

Zoe Williams has argued that a sensible solution to all of this would be to make the Brownies mixed gender like the Scouts.

Wouldn't this be more sensible than making six year old girls so distressed that they attempt to cut off their penis?

All the little girls should lose their same-sex happy space because their unhappiness doesn't matter, as long as a disturbed little boy feels good?

Look up "internal misogyny".

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