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To think Queen Elizabeth's legacy is going to be seriously harmed by this?

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Gymnopedie · 19/02/2026 18:45

I mean I doubt he bounded into the palace shouting 'you'll never guess what I did last week'. He will massively have played down the extent of his friendship with Epstein and may even at times have lied about where he was when he was away. It seems his protection officers have some serious questions to answer around this. I doubt anyone in the RF had anything like the full picture. But QE stood by him and I can't see her coming out of this well.

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mathanxiety · 20/02/2026 00:11

YANBU.

If she even had a slightest whiff of a rat, she should have hired a few private investigators to get to the bottom of matters.

It's inconceivable that she wasn't aware of the many whispers there were about his conduct as trade envoy. It's inconceivable that she didn't ask any questions about the sale of the house she had given him. She should have verified all the answers to any questions she asked. If people were afraid to approach her with the truth then that's a huge issue too.

The payoff that kept AMW from testifying in a NY court was a clear sign that she had no interest at all in anything but sticking a bejeweled middle finger in the air at all that is decent and lawful.

mathanxiety · 20/02/2026 00:18

Andouillette · 19/02/2026 22:56

Let's also remember that Philip's mother spent quite a lot of WW2 saving the lives of Jews, and was declared Righteous Among the Nations for it.

She saved three Jews, sheltering them in her home. This is why she received the Righteous Among the Nations recognition.

I don't want to downplay her bravery here. Her home was close to Gestapo HQ. Betrayal or a routine search would have meant death for her and probably torture too.

mathanxiety · 20/02/2026 00:25

SnowyRock · 19/02/2026 22:05

I dont think she is to blame. I think its potentially another an interesting picture into the nature vs nurture aspect of a psychopath though.
In an upbringing intended and rigidly planned to teach morals and empathy, out of the 4 children it was the one most doted on who developed those traits.

Why do you believe their education was planned with morals and empathy in mind?

RainbowBagels · 20/02/2026 00:44

mathanxiety · 20/02/2026 00:25

Why do you believe their education was planned with morals and empathy in mind?

Yes since when? I doubt their education was about anything of the sort! I think the only one who can even fake empathy is Charles. Anne is a pretty brusque woman and Edward couldn't even answer a simple question off the cuff without making a hash of it.

PollyBell · 20/02/2026 01:26

With the highly intelligent conspiracy theories around, is the queen even his mother?

Ukefluke · 20/02/2026 02:13

ChangePrivacyQuestion · 19/02/2026 19:55

In all honesty, I caught myself playing a bit of a devil's advocate over my lunch break. If you step away from queen as a queen, and think of her as a mother, is there anything you wouldn't do for your child, were it in your power. Then I realised rape is my line in the sand. I'd probably do the patio-and-alibi for my child in case of murder, but this is where I draw my line. But would that have been her line? I don't know. I'm not defending what she did/didn't do, that's another kettle of fish, and I'd happily watch HIM thrown in the cell with the key tossed away. Playing the devil's advocate, where would you stop for your child?

You would cover for your child murdering somebody but not for raping them?

Ukefluke · 20/02/2026 02:15

FiatLuxAdAstra · 19/02/2026 20:48

The first inklings of the Epstein crimes started to leak out in 2008 when the Queen was 82yrs old and already in cognitive decline.

I don’t think she ever got a whiff of the truth. I am sure Charles and Anne decided not to tell her so she wouldn’t die on the spot from the shock.

Edited

She knew it was bad enough to cough up 12 million to pay off somebody "he never met"

Carla786 · 20/02/2026 02:23

Yes, definitely. Covering up Mountbatten's probable abuse too.

Carla786 · 20/02/2026 02:25

Cheese55 · 19/02/2026 22:12

I think she was largely indifferent towards her children. Had them as a duty. She kept him close because she thought that would make people look the other way when he started going 'to parties'.

That's unfair imo. She was closer to Edward & the Unmentionable because they were born when she'd settled into her job. I thunk she ended up close to Anne too.

Carla786 · 20/02/2026 02:28

Discoated · 19/02/2026 23:08

This was due to a combination of factors. She was quite marketable as a queen in the mid 20th century and became essentially a global brand, a living relict from the old world, where Britain was a powerful empire but also modern as she was a female monarch. The fact that she wasn't actually born into her role but ascended to the throne due to her uncle's scandals and her father's early death helped frame her as a dutiful, calm and mild mannered monarch. Being nice to look at didn't hurt either. Her coronation was one of the first major global televised events, turning her into a household presence and strengthening the monarchy’s accessibility. My grandparents lived in another country and bought their first ever TV to watch the coronation.

She certainly is an important figure in history but was fallible like all people.

'Being nice to look at didn't hurt either.'

  • I think it's fair to say Elizabeth & Margaret both had a halo effect from being royal. I don't think they would have been seen as particularly notable looking if they hadn't been royal. Imo an error of the crown was that they cast actresses who were excellent but arguably more Hollywood-looking than either Elizabeth or Margaret were.
Carla786 · 20/02/2026 02:30

RainbowBagels · 20/02/2026 00:44

Yes since when? I doubt their education was about anything of the sort! I think the only one who can even fake empathy is Charles. Anne is a pretty brusque woman and Edward couldn't even answer a simple question off the cuff without making a hash of it.

Hmm...I don't think Princess Anne is mean. I agree she can seem brusque but she's also done a lot of productive charity work for Save The Children (also Riding For The Disabled).

rainandshine38 · 20/02/2026 02:31

She paid of the victims with £12 million didn’t she? Of course she knew.

Carla786 · 20/02/2026 02:31

Cheese55 · 19/02/2026 22:23

She was trying to keep up the illusion of propriety to keep their position and money safe. She was not that interested in her children

I don't think that's true. I think she did care about them - not that this makes her a good person.

Carla786 · 20/02/2026 02:32

Ihatethistimeline · 19/02/2026 20:44

The ones we’ve heard about so far were over UK age of consent. However, the latest files describe covert flights through UK airports of girls on Epsteins plane, girls as young as 9 are mentioned, torture videos featuring Middle Eastern royalty. Virginia was the tip of the iceberg so it seems.

ME royalty - which country? Saudi? Dubai?

Carla786 · 20/02/2026 02:40

AnyoneWhoHasAHeart · 19/02/2026 20:10

Firstly, people need to stop throwing around the word paedophile so casually.

Man has sex with younger woman, “paedophile.” The definition is very clear a paedophile is someone who has an attraction to prepubescent children, and absolutely nowhere is there any evidence that Andrew is a paedophile, and to suggest this fact is in fact not only defamation but is an insult to the victims of actual paedophiles.

Secondly. We all assume that the queen must have known what Andrew was doing by virtue of the fact she was the queen. But how many parents actually do know what their kids are up to? Genuinely?

People are quick to blame the queen, but that is a slippery slope to go down. By that definition if a person commits a crime their whole family must be considered complicit and held accountable accordingly? Except nobody would argue that would they?

Man has sex with younger woman,

  • they weren't just younger women (underage teen girls), they were trafficked. They could not meaningfully consent.
Carla786 · 20/02/2026 02:42

Whyhaveibeencutoutofmamsnot · 19/02/2026 20:36

Many mothers will go the whole way to protect their children and can't see a thing wrong with their adult child's behaviour.
I don't feel it counts as being a paedophile - the females were over the age of consent in this country. Agree it is unpleasant and exploitative and very sad for the young people involved.

'the females were over the age of consent in this country. Agree it is unpleasant and exploitative'

  • 'females' - are you a man, by any chance?

'Unpleasant and exploitative' - understatement! They were enslaved, they couldn't meaningfully consent.

Carla786 · 20/02/2026 02:43

sprigatito · 19/02/2026 20:43

The late Queen was emotionally stunted, calculating and cold as a witch’s tit. Just like the rest of her weird inbred family. This sordid and squalid affair may well be the end of them and their unearned privilege - we can hope, at least.

emotionally stunted, calculating and cold as a witch’s tit

  • I think that's a bit much. I do think she was very ruthless.
Carla786 · 20/02/2026 02:43

MoFadaCromulent · 19/02/2026 19:50

Her racism was a top legacy ruiner for me

What racism?

WaryHiker · 20/02/2026 04:05

I imagine the poster is referring to the Queen carving out a legal exemption for herself so she didn't have to employ people of colour even after equality legislation.

LiveLuvLaugh · 20/02/2026 05:25

JacknDiane · 19/02/2026 19:03

The fawning over the late queen has to stop now we all know what she was trying to hide.

If this view is widespread there’s a huge risk to QE2’s legacy. Like all of us, her values were shaped in her early adult life, her formative years, and I her view of what is right and wrong for a single man may have been different from current the mainstream views. The funding of the settlement to VG , whilst AMW continued to maintain he didn’t remember her was a huge mistake. If he had been honest, expressed genuine contrition and paid the compensation for VG to use to address the abuse of women (as she said she intended to) he would have come through this far better. I suppose none of us know how much QE2 condoned any of this but it doesn’t look good.

WhaAMess · 20/02/2026 05:34

Ukefluke · 20/02/2026 02:15

She knew it was bad enough to cough up 12 million to pay off somebody "he never met"

Yep. She was a nasty, enabling piece of shit.

GrandmasCat · 20/02/2026 05:37

I don’t know… I thought she took an unreasonable long time to act on Andrew when V Giuffre revelations came out. It was obvious she was at best trying to believe her favourite child, or at worst, trying to wait the scandal out. I bet she was the one who convinced Andrew to pay the 12 million, because in Andrew’s mind… he never met the woman.

It has not changed my perception of her, I never thought she was a perfectly nice person. She was good as a queen but as a human being… not exactly a pilar of compassion and empathy at all.

CherryRipe1 · 20/02/2026 05:37

Would our security services not be aware of Andrews proclivities & had a word with her Maj.QE or are they above or immune from surveillance?

HK04 · 20/02/2026 05:49

Catza · 19/02/2026 18:46

Woman's fault again then...

Yup… Mother opts to not hang, draw & quarter wayward son…so all her fault 🙄

By that logic every crime ever committed is the Mother’s fault… one way or tother…

Actually, 💭 thinking about it if my DC were going to commit a crime would hope it be an Ocean’s 11 type escapade… AMB just sleazy and stupid.

AnnaQuayRules · 20/02/2026 05:55

FiatLuxAdAstra · 19/02/2026 21:37

Yes but how much would “the palace” tell a doddering 82 yr old?

She wasn't a doddering 82 year old though. She was a fit and healthy 82 year old, with no sign of cognitive decline.

My mum is nearly 84, she would absolutely be able to understand this sort of information. Many people in their 80s can deal with complex information.

I don't believe she would have paid out millions of pounds without understanding what she was doing.

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