Meet the Other Phone. Flexible and made to last.

Meet the Other Phone.
Flexible and made to last.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To think Queen Elizabeth's legacy is going to be seriously harmed by this?

216 replies

Gymnopedie · 19/02/2026 18:45

I mean I doubt he bounded into the palace shouting 'you'll never guess what I did last week'. He will massively have played down the extent of his friendship with Epstein and may even at times have lied about where he was when he was away. It seems his protection officers have some serious questions to answer around this. I doubt anyone in the RF had anything like the full picture. But QE stood by him and I can't see her coming out of this well.

OP posts:
WaryHiker · 19/02/2026 21:39

BlueJuniper94 · 19/02/2026 19:10

As much as I was to see these disgusting men locked away for life - I don't want to see it used as a reason to get rid of the monarchy as head of state. Who else could do it? Have an elected one and you'll have Nigel Farage or Rupert Lowe before you can blink.

Had Charles suffered a scuba diving accident, you'd have had Andrew. That's no kind of argument at all.

MidWayThruJanuary · 19/02/2026 21:40

In fact Charles thought so highly of van der Post that he is one of William’s godfathers.

Brefugee · 19/02/2026 21:46

ElizaMulvil · 19/02/2026 21:28

Dad Philip and Andrew? You can see the problem. Whoever thought it a good idea marrying Princess Elizabeth into a family of Nazi sympathisers ie Philip's Aunt (member of the Nazi party, his sisters married to officers in the German Nazi army.) Mind you her Uncle, the brief King, was politically little better I guess.

Plus it was all round Fleet Street at the time of the Christine Keeler, Mandy R D scandal that Philip was involved but no one was to mention it. I expect the fact that his Will is to remain secret ( for 100 years is it? after his death), tells us there's lots of unsavoury business we've not to know about.

well clearly Philip wasn't his sisters was he? and he served in the British navy during the war so clearly he wasn't a huge fan of the Nazis.

Catza · 19/02/2026 21:56

YourGreenCat · 19/02/2026 20:32

it's that the best you could find, really?

Yes, actually, it is. I don't know how much more needs to be said. Here is an adult male (allegedly) committing a crime and instead of focusing on that, the poster choses to blame his mother.
It's absurd that we are even doing that. I don't know what else is to be said on the subject...

BIossomtoes · 19/02/2026 22:00

I hope some of you don’t have kids who turn out to be wrong uns.

Cheese55 · 19/02/2026 22:01

Ihatethistimeline · 19/02/2026 20:53

Do people really think Her Majesty had access to less information than those who worked in Her Majesty’s Secret Service?!!

They didn't actually have team meetings with her.

SnowyRock · 19/02/2026 22:05

I dont think she is to blame. I think its potentially another an interesting picture into the nature vs nurture aspect of a psychopath though.
In an upbringing intended and rigidly planned to teach morals and empathy, out of the 4 children it was the one most doted on who developed those traits.

Brefugee · 19/02/2026 22:08

nobody is saying she is to blame that her son is a bad 'un.
They are saying that when she knew - latest when she fronted the 12 million quid - she should have come clean and cut him and his family loose.

sprigatito · 19/02/2026 22:11

BIossomtoes · 19/02/2026 22:00

I hope some of you don’t have kids who turn out to be wrong uns.

I hope not too - but if it happens, I solemnly swear not to pay £12m in hush money to the trafficked woman my son used and discarded 👍

Cheese55 · 19/02/2026 22:12

SnowyRock · 19/02/2026 22:05

I dont think she is to blame. I think its potentially another an interesting picture into the nature vs nurture aspect of a psychopath though.
In an upbringing intended and rigidly planned to teach morals and empathy, out of the 4 children it was the one most doted on who developed those traits.

I think she was largely indifferent towards her children. Had them as a duty. She kept him close because she thought that would make people look the other way when he started going 'to parties'.

Elizabethandfour · 19/02/2026 22:14

They are all like that. The ultimate nepo babies with no redeeming qualities. Andrew is the patsy because he got caught. It’s no coincidence that Charles was best friends with Jimmy Saville and his favourite uncle was also a horrific satanic child abuser. I just don’t get the pearl clutching for this horrible, evil family. What more do they have to do? Diana tried in fairness. The only decent one of the entire, rotten lot.

Cheese55 · 19/02/2026 22:19

I dont think they operate like normal families. They only see each other by appointment and live in separate wings . Its not like they have dinner together and discuss their day.

havingoneofthosedays · 19/02/2026 22:19

So many mums on here who would protect their ‘little prince’ see it daily on MN

Cheese55 · 19/02/2026 22:23

havingoneofthosedays · 19/02/2026 22:19

So many mums on here who would protect their ‘little prince’ see it daily on MN

She was trying to keep up the illusion of propriety to keep their position and money safe. She was not that interested in her children

Gymnopedie · 19/02/2026 22:24

Catza · 19/02/2026 21:56

Yes, actually, it is. I don't know how much more needs to be said. Here is an adult male (allegedly) committing a crime and instead of focusing on that, the poster choses to blame his mother.
It's absurd that we are even doing that. I don't know what else is to be said on the subject...

@Catza

If what you took from my OP was that I was blaming the Queen for what Andrew did, you read it wrong. That was all on him. My thread is about how she reacted to what he did and to what she knew of what he did. And if it turns out that she shielded him, that she knew what he was doing and had it hushed up, or was in any other way complicit, then yes that is her fault and yes I would blame her.

OP posts:
PaperTyger · 19/02/2026 22:25

Yes , Liz and Phil .
But really we don't know what their values were.

YourGreenCat · 19/02/2026 22:34

Catza · 19/02/2026 21:56

Yes, actually, it is. I don't know how much more needs to be said. Here is an adult male (allegedly) committing a crime and instead of focusing on that, the poster choses to blame his mother.
It's absurd that we are even doing that. I don't know what else is to be said on the subject...

If we accept that the head of state can be a woman (and we should) , we can't then play the card "don't blame the woman". Can't have it both ways

MoFadaCromulent · 19/02/2026 22:47

MrsLizzieDarcy · 19/02/2026 21:37

In terms of damaging the RF reputation, yes Harry is little better.

Harry and Andrew have both bitten the hand that feeds them.

Harry is the only likeable one of the cunts

Emotionalsupporttissue · 19/02/2026 22:48

I don't know how much the Queen knew , I'm very close to my family but only know what they choose to tell me about what they're doing. How many people live with their partners and have no idea that they are being cheated on?
But her paying VG off should have made her ask more questions.

Aliceisagooddog · 19/02/2026 22:50

They all knew. Been warning off journalists like Andrew Lownie gor years with legal threats. Bring on the Republic!!

RafaistheKingofClay · 19/02/2026 22:52

BIossomtoes · 19/02/2026 22:00

I hope some of you don’t have kids who turn out to be wrong uns.

There’s a difference between loving your kids wherever they do because you are their mum and covering up for them, isn’t there? And in this case that’s complicated by an additional layer of protecting The Firm at whatever cost.

It will not be a surprise if it turns out the family, including the Queen, knew exactly was Andrew was. At the bare minimum she paid of a trafficked rape victim without bothering to ask any questions.

Andrew alone is guilty for any crimes that he committed but I’m not convinced bed he’s the one that ruined her legacy. She did that.

Andouillette · 19/02/2026 22:56

Brefugee · 19/02/2026 21:46

well clearly Philip wasn't his sisters was he? and he served in the British navy during the war so clearly he wasn't a huge fan of the Nazis.

Let's also remember that Philip's mother spent quite a lot of WW2 saving the lives of Jews, and was declared Righteous Among the Nations for it.

Andouillette · 19/02/2026 22:58

Elizabethandfour · 19/02/2026 22:14

They are all like that. The ultimate nepo babies with no redeeming qualities. Andrew is the patsy because he got caught. It’s no coincidence that Charles was best friends with Jimmy Saville and his favourite uncle was also a horrific satanic child abuser. I just don’t get the pearl clutching for this horrible, evil family. What more do they have to do? Diana tried in fairness. The only decent one of the entire, rotten lot.

Edited

Your blessed Diana was also friends with J Savile.

Discoated · 19/02/2026 23:08

Gymnopedie · 19/02/2026 20:25

Her persona was one of a wise stateswoman who could be relied on to behave with dignity and never put a foot wrong whichever head of state she was with. To give wise counsel to all the Prime Ministers who consulted her. That she represented the best of British. The longer she reigned the stronger that persona became and things like Charles marrying Diana were glossed over, and often reasons found for why she wasn't as wrong as she seemed. The world's media stopped when she died, not just the British press.

I've thought about the point made by @ChangePrivacyQuestion before I started the thread. How far will a mother go to protect her adult children? There have been posts on here where the adult child has been in serious trouble and the OP has asked whether she should cut him (it's usually a him) off. Lots of replies saying that they would only cut their child off for child abuse. Anything else and although they wouldn't like what they'd done that person would still be their son and they would still love them.

This was due to a combination of factors. She was quite marketable as a queen in the mid 20th century and became essentially a global brand, a living relict from the old world, where Britain was a powerful empire but also modern as she was a female monarch. The fact that she wasn't actually born into her role but ascended to the throne due to her uncle's scandals and her father's early death helped frame her as a dutiful, calm and mild mannered monarch. Being nice to look at didn't hurt either. Her coronation was one of the first major global televised events, turning her into a household presence and strengthening the monarchy’s accessibility. My grandparents lived in another country and bought their first ever TV to watch the coronation.

She certainly is an important figure in history but was fallible like all people.

Over40Overdating · 19/02/2026 23:16

The infantilising of a woman renowned for her steeliness and duty above all else would be hilarious were it not for the fact that as head of state, she would have been fully appraised of the situation regarding her beloved Randy Andy, long famed for being a greedy, obnoxious entitled pig, when it came to negotiating a 12 million quid payment.

In her position why would anyone pay that amount of money to a blind stranger