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To wonder if past trauma was a factor in the Renee Nicole Good murder and that, while not absolving agent, it shows ICE should select agents more carefully?

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Carla786 · 11/01/2026 20:58

Reading this from the BBC, I wonder if the agent was suffering from previous trauma. They had earlier been in the Iraq War and then had huge number of stitches after being dragged by a car while arresting apparently a 'child sex offender' illicit migrant last March.

Thus I wonder if, because Renee Good clipped them with the car earlier(as The Times indicates), shooting at her car as she drove past was less a rational decision borne from evil and more an instinctive reaction from recent trauma with cars on the job?

This is NOT an excuse. But I wonder if it also shows that ICE are selecting traumatised agents who are too dangerous, due to this, to be in that position?

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cdx4qd4d16no

Person wearing tactical vest leans toward a car with shattered rear window, broken glass visible, trees and houses in background.

ICE agent in Minnesota shooting was dragged by car in June

The officer was injured in a separate case that also involved a car pulling away during an investigation.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cdx4qd4d16no

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GoodGriefCharlie · 17/01/2026 23:28

jannier · 17/01/2026 23:05

Many are being dragged out of shops, resteraunts, schools, cars and streets and being taken off becouse they havent got the ID on them that the law says citizens dont have to carry. They have been kept for days before being released in one family reported the victim as a missing person and ICE lied to the police about having him. Proper legal protocol isnt being followed yet people are saying dont go near the protests...well if its in your street, supermarket or school when ICE turns up being followed by the protests its hard to be out of the way. Evil needs to be witnessed.

Oh, I 100% agree. They are only ramping up. My point was only in response to the people that say ‘well they should have made themselves legal.’ And how it is so misunderstood. How hard most of these people have actually been trying to do that. Although I have to say, I think most of the people saying it are either callous and or not intelligent enough to understand it anyway.

I think it’s interesting how vociferously people are trying to shut up people that are speaking out against it. The rhetoric that we see with Renee Good, who was killed for it FFS, is that if she had just behaved and been quiet then it wouldn’t have happened. The fact that we have people there documenting what’s happening and protesting, the vast majority of whom are doing so peacefully, is imperative. People always want to shut up women. It just turns out ICE seem to be able to do, violently, with impunity.

And, as we know, you can’t appease abusive men, whatever you do. Unfortunately, when I look at Maria Corina Machado handing over her Nobel peace prize to a bolster Donald Trump’s ego, there’s no point. That will never be enough for him. The power and violence is the whole point.

Carla786 · 18/01/2026 00:03

pinkstripeycat · 17/01/2026 08:42

So let me get this right. Many of you believe that big, strong men who get hit by cars must be violent, wife beating, knuckle draggers. Listen to yourselves. You’d want these men to protect you if you needed them but only when you pick and choose. If someone ran me over I think my reaction would be to lash out. I seriously doubt a trained ICE agent cares if a woman is a lesbian 😂

I believe that the ICE agent acted wrongly by shooting Renee Good three times.

I respect the courage of police officers, soldiers & other professions that require controlled violence. That doesn't change the fact that studies show higher rates of DV in these professions. The military also has high rates of sexual assault. I think that IS relevant in the context of what I & many others believe was an unreasonably violent response towards a woman disobeying his orders.

Misogyny and homophobia towards lesbians tend to go together, so it wouldn't be surprising if negative attitudes towards lesbians/women in lesbian relationships was a factor, though that is speculation also. Clearly we cannot know much for certain about this at the moment.

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Carla786 · 18/01/2026 00:06

Gloriia · 17/01/2026 17:24

We've had the nazi thing already.

The nazis rounded up legal residents and murdered them in the millions.

Immigration and customs officers are getting rid of criminals who are in the US illegally.

To conflate the 2 is appalling and a bit sick tbh.

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I agree they should not be conflated, the prison in El Salvador many were taken to sounds abusive but thus is not an Auschwitz situation.

Moreover, most of these people probably ARE illegal immigrants. That doesn't make ICE beyond criticism, but it does mean most probably should be arrested & deported.

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Carla786 · 18/01/2026 00:08

GoodGriefCharlie · 17/01/2026 22:56

A vast amount of people also misunderstand or willfully misunderstand the very complex process that must be followed to become legal in many of these cases. So many of these people have been trying to follow the process for a number of years. There’s a reason so many of them have actually been picked up at one of their Homeland Security appointments. I mean, they are actually going to appointments and being picked up there.

It’s far from the simplistic situation that people like to imply.

There should definitely have been immigration reform.

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GoodGriefCharlie · 18/01/2026 00:10

Carla786 · 18/01/2026 00:03

I believe that the ICE agent acted wrongly by shooting Renee Good three times.

I respect the courage of police officers, soldiers & other professions that require controlled violence. That doesn't change the fact that studies show higher rates of DV in these professions. The military also has high rates of sexual assault. I think that IS relevant in the context of what I & many others believe was an unreasonably violent response towards a woman disobeying his orders.

Misogyny and homophobia towards lesbians tend to go together, so it wouldn't be surprising if negative attitudes towards lesbians/women in lesbian relationships was a factor, though that is speculation also. Clearly we cannot know much for certain about this at the moment.

I don’t know why the previous poster is thinking that we would want ICE to protect us? That is not in their remit.

They are not there for that at all. As much as there are issues with the police, ICE is something else entirely. Their training is woefully short and background checks are almost nonexistent. There are some verified articles where journalist have applied to ICE themselves to prove this.

and yes, they are literally violent thugs. Come on, you only have to watch a couple of videos to prove that. They are being encouraged to be violent. They have employed Proud Boys, FFS.

Carla786 · 18/01/2026 00:22

GoodGriefCharlie · 17/01/2026 17:17

Sometimes on Mumsnet recently, I feel like I’m in the middle of some kind of school or college experiment.

Imagine that social media was available in 1930s Germany and you are having a discussion with Nazi supporters. How might those conversations go and what might you say?

Incidentally, if you've read the book The Wave, that was based on a real life US high school experiment which basically did that in the 1960s.

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GoodGriefCharlie · 18/01/2026 01:56

Carla786 · 18/01/2026 00:22

Incidentally, if you've read the book The Wave, that was based on a real life US high school experiment which basically did that in the 1960s.

I haven’t, I’ll check it out, thanks!

Carla786 · 18/01/2026 02:34

GoodGriefCharlie · 18/01/2026 01:56

I haven’t, I’ll check it out, thanks!

Yes, it's scarily prescient.

Another good one is Sinclair Lewis' 1930s novel It Can't Happen Here is an exploration of what a fascist-style dictator in the US could be like (he was married to Dorothy Thompson, the journalist who reported heavily on Hitler & how the US might not be immune to a similar leader).

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GoodGriefCharlie · 18/01/2026 06:24

Carla786 · 18/01/2026 02:34

Yes, it's scarily prescient.

Another good one is Sinclair Lewis' 1930s novel It Can't Happen Here is an exploration of what a fascist-style dictator in the US could be like (he was married to Dorothy Thompson, the journalist who reported heavily on Hitler & how the US might not be immune to a similar leader).

Thank you, this sounds really interesting too. I’m going to check them both out, but will probably read something completely trashy and mindless in between the two for sanity purposes!

It’s terrifying how far along the line we are now with people still denying what is literally in front of their eyes. I would dearly, dearly love to be wrong.

RingoJuice · 18/01/2026 06:51

The fact they did not get involved is the reason it’s such a mess. In my home city, cops will alert ICE and they will calmly pick up them up and detain them prior to deportation. Also the usual worksite raids too.

Minnesota’s problem is that activists are out of control. If they would just let ICE do what we’ve voted for them to do, there would be far fewer problems

LlttledrummergirI · 18/01/2026 11:14

It's interesting how the same few posters keep coming on here and posting the same MAGA propaganda as if we don't have eyes, ears and functioning brains.

You can keep posting your unsubstantiated propaganda, and I (and others) will keep pushing back. Truth will come out, and justice will ultimately be had.

Goldenbear · 18/01/2026 11:53

LlttledrummergirI · 18/01/2026 11:14

It's interesting how the same few posters keep coming on here and posting the same MAGA propaganda as if we don't have eyes, ears and functioning brains.

You can keep posting your unsubstantiated propaganda, and I (and others) will keep pushing back. Truth will come out, and justice will ultimately be had.

Yes and we keep having to read a variation on the 'King who was always right'!

Gloriia · 18/01/2026 12:32

LlttledrummergirI · 18/01/2026 11:14

It's interesting how the same few posters keep coming on here and posting the same MAGA propaganda as if we don't have eyes, ears and functioning brains.

You can keep posting your unsubstantiated propaganda, and I (and others) will keep pushing back. Truth will come out, and justice will ultimately be had.

'How very interesting' how the same posters keep coming on posting ICE are nazis 'propaganda'. Or, another way of looking at it is it is a chat forum so you will encounter different views. If you can't cope with that maybe read a magazine?

Gloriia · 18/01/2026 12:45

HarrietPierce · 18/01/2026 11:27

RingoJuice
"If they would just let ICE do what we’ve voted for them to do, there would be far fewer problems"

Is this what you voted for Ringo ? ICE terrorising indigenous people.

https://x.com/RepTeresaLF/status/2012587164404445571

So he says. Considering everyone has phones and activists are very quick to film it is funny how this is a longwinded 'he said this then they did that' with not one bit of evidence. I'm not saying he's making it up for the social media fame obviously.

Also 'terrorising indigenous people' is rather ott and actually not true. He was allegedly questioned then released?

Goldenbear · 18/01/2026 12:45

Gloriia · 18/01/2026 12:32

'How very interesting' how the same posters keep coming on posting ICE are nazis 'propaganda'. Or, another way of looking at it is it is a chat forum so you will encounter different views. If you can't cope with that maybe read a magazine?

It's roots are a parental chat forum, UK based, it was never just a political chat forum set up with Goebbels style propaganda so perhaps it's the likes of you that should go elsewhere!

Gloriia · 18/01/2026 12:47

Goldenbear · 18/01/2026 12:45

It's roots are a parental chat forum, UK based, it was never just a political chat forum set up with Goebbels style propaganda so perhaps it's the likes of you that should go elsewhere!

Goebbels style propaganda. There you go again with the sick nazi and Holocaust false equivalence. Do some reading, removing criminals is not the same as murdering people in their millions.

Goldenbear · 18/01/2026 13:02

Gloriia · 18/01/2026 12:47

Goebbels style propaganda. There you go again with the sick nazi and Holocaust false equivalence. Do some reading, removing criminals is not the same as murdering people in their millions.

I have never mentioned the Holocaust once. There you again with your sizemic lies!

LlttledrummergirI · 18/01/2026 13:07

Gloriia · 18/01/2026 12:47

Goebbels style propaganda. There you go again with the sick nazi and Holocaust false equivalence. Do some reading, removing criminals is not the same as murdering people in their millions.

The Nazis didn't start with murdering in the thousands, they started by relocating people and terrorising the general population.

Perhaps do some reading around this.

APatternGrammar · 18/01/2026 13:10

Gloriia · 18/01/2026 12:47

Goebbels style propaganda. There you go again with the sick nazi and Holocaust false equivalence. Do some reading, removing criminals is not the same as murdering people in their millions.

They aren’t criminals, as illegal immigration is a civil offence. However, the president is a convicted criminal himself so people who voted for him would be fairly inconsistent if they held strong anti-criminal views.

Gloriia · 18/01/2026 13:11

Goldenbear · 18/01/2026 13:02

I have never mentioned the Holocaust once. There you again with your sizemic lies!

Oh sorry you must be talking about a different a Goebbels not the senior nazi who were responsible for the Holocaust. Just Google it it's all there.
Which Goebbels do you mean?

Gloriia · 18/01/2026 13:15

APatternGrammar · 18/01/2026 13:10

They aren’t criminals, as illegal immigration is a civil offence. However, the president is a convicted criminal himself so people who voted for him would be fairly inconsistent if they held strong anti-criminal views.

Some are criminals a pp helpfully gave examples. Even the others 'only' there illegally may not be criminals but are still there ilegally?

Goldenbear · 18/01/2026 13:18

Gloriia · 18/01/2026 13:11

Oh sorry you must be talking about a different a Goebbels not the senior nazi who were responsible for the Holocaust. Just Google it it's all there.
Which Goebbels do you mean?

I think it is you who has to revisit the History books to understand how an assault on democracy happens.

Gloriia · 18/01/2026 13:22

Goldenbear · 18/01/2026 13:18

I think it is you who has to revisit the History books to understand how an assault on democracy happens.

I'll ask again, you mentioned Goebbels then said you made no mention of the Holocaust. Which Goebbels were you talking about you know what the nazis did yes?

Gloriia · 18/01/2026 13:25

LlttledrummergirI · 18/01/2026 13:07

The Nazis didn't start with murdering in the thousands, they started by relocating people and terrorising the general population.

Perhaps do some reading around this.

So let me get this right, you think all Immigration and Customs Enforcement officers are on the slippery slope to mass murder? What about border control generally, doing their job or mass murderers in waiting?

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