To be upset by this in a friends group chat?

[alittlechildish]

I’m well aware that this will sound silly, but here goes.

i’m in a group chat with some other women of a similar age as me. We all met because we are fans of a sport. Last weekend that sport concluded and the competitor that I’m not a huge fan of won. No big deal, I’m an adult and I can cope with it.

One member of the group chat was @ ing me through the entire day, basically asking if I was really annoyed, am I pissed off etc etc and just being a bit weird.

i said no not really and left it at that. I went onto the shared document we have of addresses in preparation to send my Christmas cards and I can see that this person has now added comments to my address. It’s my name then (stinks) and under my address they’ve put shithole. From the edit history I can see that this was done by the member who was acting strangely last weekend and was done on the day of the last race.

AIBU to think this is weird behaviour and also a little upsetting? We’re all adults and it just seems strange.

Sorry I tried to vote YANBU but think I may have hit YABU by mistake. If so please ignore.

I've not read the full thread - so apologise if it's already been covered, but surely you didn't want max to win!? Even if you did - I think this is an extremely extreme reaction, he isn't that bad.

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What a weird comment. Are you the weird friend??

@alittlechildish On the shared spreadsheet, delete her address and replace it with a link to this thread.

Sounds like she’s just looking for a fight, which seems pointless and silly

Yep link them to this thread. They sound like nobs

Could you screenshot where it shows it was her that has made the edits and then @ her in the group message to say ‘you forgot to update my post code too- It’s SH1 TH0LE’

bit tongue in cheek but calls her out on her unnecessary sh1t behaviour! She’s a jealous person and not a friend!

I’d screen grab the page where you can see who made the changes, post it in group chat and tag the person saying “r u ok?”

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Ah so like the music version of swifties

Definitely this!!

They sound completely deranged. Stinks and shit hole. What are they, five?

Your ‘friend’ is not worth any more effort but don’t lose your other friends on the group because of her.

She’s nuts @alittlechildish - she was trying to have a joke at your expense, you didn’t take the bait and somehow you’ve stolen her joy/burst her bubble? Madness 🤯😂😬

Tell her to get back in her box box box.

I’m a Lando fan but it is fine to want Max to win, he is the best driver by miles!

@alittlechildish have you found the f1 thread on here - we are a very friendly bunch and don’t take it personally!

😂😂😂. 👌

Unhinged and unwell should written under her address.

Go into the document and edit “weirdo” for their name and “rent-free in @alittlechildish head” for their address.

But when will it be Ferraris turn 😔

Yes. Basically swifties but for sport!

Screen shot. Post it on the group chat and ask why she did this.

Don't get in an argument, just stay silent.

Good plan. Life is too short for strange people.

Ferrari weren’t even a contender :)

i was just happy Max didn’t win lol

If you care to, I'd unarchive the chat just to add that a joke is something that the recipient finds funny. It wasn't funny, it was hurtful, and it was purile behaviour.