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Been banned from my local nail salon

347 replies

alittlebittiredallthetime · 14/12/2025 11:21

I started going to a new salon a few months ago. I went three times and to be honest, I was never totally happy with the service I had been receiving. The atmosphere wasn't as welcoming as I liked and the results weren't what I was happy to pay for. So I decided to just do my own from now on.

My mum goes to the same nail salon, and the owner asked her why I had cancelled my appointments. Because she was put on the spot, my mum told her that I was now working Saturdays as well, so couldn't go anymore.

Yesterday I was getting my hair done and the owner of this old salon walked in and sat down next to me. She clocked it was me, sort of looked me up and down in surprise, and turned away from me. It was a bit awkward but it's not the end of the world, in my view.

This morning I've woken up to this email from them:

"(My name),
This message serves as formal notice that you are prohibited from booking or receiving services at any of our nail salons across the (local) area, effective immediately.
This decision has been made at ownership level following a review of your conduct. We have concluded that you provided false and misleading information regarding your availability and intentions as a client. On that basis, we believe your actions amount to a misrepresentation of circumstances and may be considered fraudulent in nature.
As a business, we reserve the absolute right to refuse service where we believe honesty and trust have been compromised. This determination is final.
Any current or future appointments made under your name, or on your behalf, will be cancelled without notice. Do not contact the business regarding this matter.
(Owner’s name)"

AIBU or is this really not necessary? I'd understand if I was a long standing client who had been going for years, but I'd been three times. I don't really see what's fraudulent about it?!

OP posts:
dapsnotplimsolls · 14/12/2025 18:19

I love PPs' suggestions about going after her for her breach of GDPR!

MO0N · 14/12/2025 18:19

Conniebygaslight · 14/12/2025 17:38

That’s fabulous OP, you’ll get loads of mileage out of that recalling it, I’m sure.
Some people are bonkers, we had a butcher who had a sign saying “ A butcher is for life, not just for Christmas” he’d refuse to serve people if they didn’t go in regularly enough and he’d berate them. 🤣🤣

Who is going to argue with a big burly man in a blood stained apron wielding a meat cleaver😯

NeverDropYourMooncup · 14/12/2025 18:24

5128gap · 14/12/2025 11:31

I'd email them back and say
"There is no obligation on a customer of your business to continue to use your services, or to provide you with a reason for no longer doing so. I am entitled to give any reason (or none at all) provided it does not falsely represent your business.
I would strongly advice you take legal advice to ensure you understand the definition of fraud before making unfounded allegations of this nature, which I consider to be malicious.
Please note I do not wish to recieve any further communications from you and should you contact me again, or I become aware you are making false accusations against me, I will be seeking advice regarding what may constitute harassment"

What in the Chat GPT Pompous Arse Setting is that?

'Noted and shared on social media so that others do not make the same mistake'.

raspberrieswithchocolate · 14/12/2025 18:24

So many examples of utterly ridiculous behaviour by business owners here, I guess they don't realise they're just driving away business with their nuttiness
@Conniebygaslight your butcher story made me laugh 🤣

Cosyblankets · 14/12/2025 18:28

CheeseWisely · 14/12/2025 11:35

I mean she could have just said ‘I don’t know, we haven’t discussed it’. The behaviour of the salon owner is bizarre but so is the lie from your Mum. You keep saying ’appointments’ plural though, how many did you cancel? I’ve only ever booked nail appointments one at a time, attend that one and then book the next.

I book a few at a time it's perfectly normal

5128gap · 14/12/2025 18:29

NeverDropYourMooncup · 14/12/2025 18:24

What in the Chat GPT Pompous Arse Setting is that?

'Noted and shared on social media so that others do not make the same mistake'.

Sorry, I don't understand?

NorwayTruce · 14/12/2025 18:53

Sounds like she thinks she’s far more important than she actually is. Do you not have a ROFLOL emoji you could reply with?

HaveACheekyChristmas · 14/12/2025 18:56

Your mother needs to practice saying "I'm sorry but I don't know." repeatedly.

alittlebittiredallthetime · 14/12/2025 18:57

No! I don’t have kids 🤣

OP posts:
whatisheupto · 14/12/2025 19:02

If it makes you feel a bit better OP, that has been written by AI. So don't be feeling she's sat there discussing with her lawyers how to deal with you!

Climbingrosexx · 14/12/2025 19:02

WTF is that mumbo jumbo? I would laugh it off, think yourself lucky you are not the one who has to live inside her head

alittlebittiredallthetime · 14/12/2025 19:05

whatisheupto · 14/12/2025 19:02

If it makes you feel a bit better OP, that has been written by AI. So don't be feeling she's sat there discussing with her lawyers how to deal with you!

Yeah on reflection it’s quite obvious isn’t it. Part of me wonders if she got pissed and angry? As the business obviously automatically sends back the deposit when you cancel

OP posts:
YourAmplePlumPoster · 14/12/2025 19:13

Give us the name so we can bombard them with bad reviews.

Huckleberries · 14/12/2025 19:14

But what on earth would she have put into AI? "write a letter to a client saying I'm pissed off" isn't going to produce such specific terms is it?

@alittlebittiredallthetime not saying you have anything to worry about

I just find it mad that a business owner could be so nuts

YourAmplePlumPoster · 14/12/2025 19:15

My nail salon is great as is my beauty therapist the wonderful Rhada, a lovely Indian lady. I think I'll show her this thread!

Ddakji · 14/12/2025 19:16

Why are so many posters fixating on the mum making up an excuse? I really doubt all these virtuously honest people have never made up an excuse before?

Because it’s irrelevant. A customer can cease to be a customer for whatever reason (or none) that they like, and they don’t have to say why.

Are these posters a bit bored? Or a bit dim?

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 14/12/2025 19:18

YourAmplePlumPoster · 14/12/2025 19:13

Give us the name so we can bombard them with bad reviews.

Excellent idea!

DJKATIE · 14/12/2025 19:29

Please name and shame. Get someone to send her a link to here so she can see how many people think she is a nut job, add reviews where you can and add copy of her letter.
lastly, £40 is ridiculous, my nail lady is fabulous and charges £25.

PodMom · 14/12/2025 19:32

Oh I’d have to reply and point out you’d no intention of ever coming back as you weren’t happy with the nails. Say you were trying to be polite by not telling them this, that you’d done them a favour by not leaving bad reviews, etc but actually their nails are awful!

Cat1504 · 14/12/2025 19:33

Condensationon · 14/12/2025 11:22

Meh. So what. You’re not going back anyway.

This

PodMom · 14/12/2025 19:34

Conniebygaslight · 14/12/2025 17:38

That’s fabulous OP, you’ll get loads of mileage out of that recalling it, I’m sure.
Some people are bonkers, we had a butcher who had a sign saying “ A butcher is for life, not just for Christmas” he’d refuse to serve people if they didn’t go in regularly enough and he’d berate them. 🤣🤣

Well that’s crazy because we’re vegetarian here, but if I was having family for Xmas I’d buy a turkey and cook it. From a butcher. I just wouldn’t eat meat so wouldn’t buy anything the rest of the year.

Surgz · 14/12/2025 19:40

The salon owner is mad as a box of frogs... what a ridiculous self important letter... unless you cancelled last minute on a Saturday and gave work as an excuse??

Ohdearanotherone · 14/12/2025 19:56

Wow this is crazy!

Augustone · 14/12/2025 20:04

That message is hilarious - it’s a nail salon FFS! They are sacking you as a customer? Good riddance to them with that attitude.

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