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Been banned from my local nail salon

347 replies

alittlebittiredallthetime · 14/12/2025 11:21

I started going to a new salon a few months ago. I went three times and to be honest, I was never totally happy with the service I had been receiving. The atmosphere wasn't as welcoming as I liked and the results weren't what I was happy to pay for. So I decided to just do my own from now on.

My mum goes to the same nail salon, and the owner asked her why I had cancelled my appointments. Because she was put on the spot, my mum told her that I was now working Saturdays as well, so couldn't go anymore.

Yesterday I was getting my hair done and the owner of this old salon walked in and sat down next to me. She clocked it was me, sort of looked me up and down in surprise, and turned away from me. It was a bit awkward but it's not the end of the world, in my view.

This morning I've woken up to this email from them:

"(My name),
This message serves as formal notice that you are prohibited from booking or receiving services at any of our nail salons across the (local) area, effective immediately.
This decision has been made at ownership level following a review of your conduct. We have concluded that you provided false and misleading information regarding your availability and intentions as a client. On that basis, we believe your actions amount to a misrepresentation of circumstances and may be considered fraudulent in nature.
As a business, we reserve the absolute right to refuse service where we believe honesty and trust have been compromised. This determination is final.
Any current or future appointments made under your name, or on your behalf, will be cancelled without notice. Do not contact the business regarding this matter.
(Owner’s name)"

AIBU or is this really not necessary? I'd understand if I was a long standing client who had been going for years, but I'd been three times. I don't really see what's fraudulent about it?!

OP posts:
Attempt333 · 14/12/2025 17:10

KittyFinlay · 14/12/2025 11:48

You can't fire me because I QUIT! 😂

Send this as a response that's so funny

JohnTheRevelator · 14/12/2025 17:14

Good grief. That is totally over the top (on their part,I mean).

TimeForATerf · 14/12/2025 17:15

Ha ha ha I would have sent a thumbs up and said, “sorry I lied, but I was not impressed and wanted to let you down kindly, in view of this email, I will tell you the truth. Your customer service and value for money are below par, I had no intention of coming back anyway.

Wishing you a very happy Christmas and prosperous New Year.

Agapornis · 14/12/2025 17:15

Turns out your 'bad vibes' radar is working correctly!
I'd be telling all my friends and let them read that message. Soon enough the whole small town will know.

WhodunitAgatha · 14/12/2025 17:18

Condensationon · 14/12/2025 11:22

Meh. So what. You’re not going back anyway.

Be gone with your gaslighting "meh"!
That is an insane message to receive and not deserving of your oh-so-cool nonchalance.

ArtfulPinkBird · 14/12/2025 17:20

This is absolutely nuts, I'm glad you were never going back anyway!

Pointynoseowner · 14/12/2025 17:20

She's unhinged !!

MummyWillow1 · 14/12/2025 17:26

That is crazy!!

Conniebygaslight · 14/12/2025 17:38

That’s fabulous OP, you’ll get loads of mileage out of that recalling it, I’m sure.
Some people are bonkers, we had a butcher who had a sign saying “ A butcher is for life, not just for Christmas” he’d refuse to serve people if they didn’t go in regularly enough and he’d berate them. 🤣🤣

NotbloodyGivingupYet · 14/12/2025 17:40

OP, have you ever given any thought to going into the nail salon business? Now could be the time to start one up, within sight of this nutjob. You can wave to her from your window ...

5128gap · 14/12/2025 17:44

MyrtlethePurpleTurtle · 14/12/2025 16:10

to be fair, such a response is almost as batshit and OTT as the salon's one. just ignore

Edited

That's the idea. Fight fire with fire.

YorkshireGoldDrinker · 14/12/2025 17:51

The usual advice is to leave a bad review that could tank the business. Not like businesses everywhere are going under, is it? It's a nail salon, what are the odds they're employing illegal workers? Just do your own nails, it's far cheaper anyway.

dynamiccactus · 14/12/2025 17:51

I think this is an AI-generated story.

No business can be that stupid, surely?

dynamiccactus · 14/12/2025 17:51

TimeForATerf · 14/12/2025 17:15

Ha ha ha I would have sent a thumbs up and said, “sorry I lied, but I was not impressed and wanted to let you down kindly, in view of this email, I will tell you the truth. Your customer service and value for money are below par, I had no intention of coming back anyway.

Wishing you a very happy Christmas and prosperous New Year.

Ha ha :)

MissRaspberry · 14/12/2025 17:55

Definitely unprofessional behaviour. I'd honestly reply to her telling her no need to ban you as you've no intention of returning due to her unprofessional manner of discussing your cancellation with another client

LouiseTopaz · 14/12/2025 18:01

This also happened to me, I stopped getting my nails done by someone who loved locally and she deleted me off Facebook and started ignoring me, I saw her most days on the school run. One of my neighbours told her I'd stopped going because I was pregnant and suffering with morning sickness and she added me again... People are odi

Horserider5678 · 14/12/2025 18:03

alittlebittiredallthetime · 14/12/2025 11:23

I'm just a bit pissed off that I've woken up to an email accusing me of fraud when I've just stopped going to a nail salon!

I’d reply and point that out!

Feelingsunny · 14/12/2025 18:03

Dear x. I haven't personally given you any information about my availability, false or otherwise.

For the avoidance of doubt - the reason I haven't booked any appointments is that I consider your service to be over-priced and poor quality.

Thank you for giving me the opportunity to set the record straight. Obviously I do not expect to hear from you again.
Regards, Y
Or would that lead to your poor mum getting banned too? 😂

Nanny0gg · 14/12/2025 18:06

alittlebittiredallthetime · 14/12/2025 11:23

I'm just a bit pissed off that I've woken up to an email accusing me of fraud when I've just stopped going to a nail salon!

They're bonkers!

Good way to put off anyone going there.

Homegrownberries · 14/12/2025 18:07

She's completely nuts. Just ignore but do keep the email in case you need a laugh now and then.

whynotwhatknot · 14/12/2025 18:08

fraud wtf us she on tell her to retract that beforeyou sue her

batshit

AnonSugar · 14/12/2025 18:10

That’s hilarious 😆

PGmicstand · 14/12/2025 18:10

TequilaNights · 14/12/2025 11:28

I mean you wasnt going back anywau, but Id leave an honest review with a copy of the text, totally over the top response from the shop owner, people come and go in business, thats the way it goes.

Me too.
And point out that YOU (as in OP) didn't say anything about being otherwise occupied on a Saturday, that was what someone else said.

Blinky21 · 14/12/2025 18:18

Suggesting you have committed fraud is laughably ridiculous

dapsnotplimsolls · 14/12/2025 18:18

I love PPs' suggestions about going after her for her breach of GDPR!

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