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Been banned from my local nail salon

347 replies

alittlebittiredallthetime · 14/12/2025 11:21

I started going to a new salon a few months ago. I went three times and to be honest, I was never totally happy with the service I had been receiving. The atmosphere wasn't as welcoming as I liked and the results weren't what I was happy to pay for. So I decided to just do my own from now on.

My mum goes to the same nail salon, and the owner asked her why I had cancelled my appointments. Because she was put on the spot, my mum told her that I was now working Saturdays as well, so couldn't go anymore.

Yesterday I was getting my hair done and the owner of this old salon walked in and sat down next to me. She clocked it was me, sort of looked me up and down in surprise, and turned away from me. It was a bit awkward but it's not the end of the world, in my view.

This morning I've woken up to this email from them:

"(My name),
This message serves as formal notice that you are prohibited from booking or receiving services at any of our nail salons across the (local) area, effective immediately.
This decision has been made at ownership level following a review of your conduct. We have concluded that you provided false and misleading information regarding your availability and intentions as a client. On that basis, we believe your actions amount to a misrepresentation of circumstances and may be considered fraudulent in nature.
As a business, we reserve the absolute right to refuse service where we believe honesty and trust have been compromised. This determination is final.
Any current or future appointments made under your name, or on your behalf, will be cancelled without notice. Do not contact the business regarding this matter.
(Owner’s name)"

AIBU or is this really not necessary? I'd understand if I was a long standing client who had been going for years, but I'd been three times. I don't really see what's fraudulent about it?!

OP posts:
Condensationon · 14/12/2025 11:22

Meh. So what. You’re not going back anyway.

Brbreeze · 14/12/2025 11:23

That’s insane! What a strange way to run a business.

alittlebittiredallthetime · 14/12/2025 11:23

Condensationon · 14/12/2025 11:22

Meh. So what. You’re not going back anyway.

I'm just a bit pissed off that I've woken up to an email accusing me of fraud when I've just stopped going to a nail salon!

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GreyCloudsLooming · 14/12/2025 11:23

Absolutely batshit.

soundsys · 14/12/2025 11:23

Oh my goodness that is so over the top! I thought you were going to say there had been some sort of incident! Surely this is just part and parcel of running this sort of business, that people try you out and then go elsewhere?!

welshpolarbear · 14/12/2025 11:24

That’s absolutely crazy of her!!! No loss op. Just make sure your Mum doesn’t give them her business again either!

pforpig · 14/12/2025 11:24

What a little hater. Reminds me of when I was on furlough and my manager saw me outside. She ended up bringing me back whilst other people were furloughed until the end.

Superhansrantowindsor · 14/12/2025 11:25

Did you cancel an appointment at short notice leaving them out of pocket? That’s the only reason I can think of for salon owners behaviour.

saveforthat · 14/12/2025 11:25

What? This is bonkers. Also (not that it's any of their business) people who work Saturdays can sometimes get a Saturday off.

CraftyPlayer · 14/12/2025 11:26

wtf 😂 absolutely batshit. Sod ‘em though.

TheatricalLife · 14/12/2025 11:26

I'd find that funny! What a stupid overreaction. You thought it was shit anyway, so no skin off your nose.

mumofoneAloneandwell · 14/12/2025 11:26

Omggggg what a loon! 😄😄

Are you in a village, like emmerdale? Because I cant imagine any successful business woman having this much time on their hands

See also the google reviews for this cat sitting company - the owner is nuts and your post made me think of her
London cat company bad reviews

She's mad, you've done nothing wrong. This just sounds like life outside of a city

Before you continue to Google Search

https://www.google.com/search?bih=751&biw=360&client=ms-android-samsung-ss&dpr=4&hs=IXyo&ictx=1&q=avis+sur+the+london+cat+sitting+company&sa=X&sca_esv=8d93a75d85064be8&si=AMgyJEvkVjFQtirYNBhM3ZJIRTaSJ6PxY6y1_6WZHGInbzDnMfxc5LIj8hp9DqFT2WOOpxKuJTLkpBzfCJrQ_fEFwEWV3YBbKgJEga37imADV7iPL7eEQ11Ges9L0n7FJ6jQbNZGK646sjPIpEkBYxdnW3ckIj5Shw%3D%3D&sqi=2&sxsrf=AE3TifMZDPjyY7aEQkMmw8iP255iPwdjAA%3A1765711444197&uds=AOm0WdHk6sdibXf0xlyTXvnuiT_tLQg2mkJm4LQ-ERyEOwpwCBLQ2qHoNAAwWJ_l-pMXFbli46rWK3le4brEtLgMCKuJApnwlRbxtia8mOpOBWQ3-50nHA63KisT1cvSbMLQ4Yg00tluJtvI7NllwMHFHPifeBqI6fIfMovvIAb12uKwbYBre208z6J5fx5KZOdWzUgm3snuNE9HjZ3OudCzt8SLlQUV56YSWiJe9V-B8Sv5-7bHMf3jlo_hr3bxZTg8KOiT_FCYbl_UPNZUye0LP8hh6lDgn5IDcY9jNliEQdili98jyKwbi3l_GvL0pwkoFFV6qTQ4yGcVGzD3dOVEXophimYKFXt86EC19bfry5Y9wG-yfcowKx2udTCtG0oPHtcbY1QPLkIA_8KBnJjDt9kSUN1H4LGd26PvSnSzry6dhWYgBvuyFfn5xLlN-Iatie9AFgcwbGlKsaYHrkWFvH4N78U_EWB6lcACQCEfCaHZs42vmsvBLwpMP30AtMIJnbK0rY9gJ8DAM3TUs6lydB0PoYJG4wZC5qrV-IJfjmghugYeqVBzNHNoBW0dhJ-5hpTqwAgO&ved=2ahUKEwiUpqDb-7yRAxWdUkEAHYmjJ90Qk8gLegQIHhAB#ebo=1

alittlebittiredallthetime · 14/12/2025 11:26

Superhansrantowindsor · 14/12/2025 11:25

Did you cancel an appointment at short notice leaving them out of pocket? That’s the only reason I can think of for salon owners behaviour.

No, over three weeks notice (they have a 48 hour cancellation policy), and the appointment has already been filled

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Delatron · 14/12/2025 11:26

They are insane. They should work on their customer service rather than harassing you. What strange behaviour.

Tell your Mum to stop going too. Write a bad review. And tell all your friends.

It’s no at to run a business.

alittlebittiredallthetime · 14/12/2025 11:27

mumofoneAloneandwell · 14/12/2025 11:26

Omggggg what a loon! 😄😄

Are you in a village, like emmerdale? Because I cant imagine any successful business woman having this much time on their hands

See also the google reviews for this cat sitting company - the owner is nuts and your post made me think of her
London cat company bad reviews

She's mad, you've done nothing wrong. This just sounds like life outside of a city

Yes, I'm in a small town. She's very much the leading (only) salon in the area so I guess she's a bit put out that someone has dared to go elsewhere (in her mind, I'm actually just doing it at home because £40 for a set of gel nails is insane)

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ItsDarkNow · 14/12/2025 11:28

What sort of salon is it? So many are fronts for modern day slavery.

topcat2014 · 14/12/2025 11:28

Christ, that's mental.. I would be so tempted to name and shame the salon..

KilliMonjaro · 14/12/2025 11:28

They’re mad op. I wouldn’t be going back there.

TequilaNights · 14/12/2025 11:28

I mean you wasnt going back anywau, but Id leave an honest review with a copy of the text, totally over the top response from the shop owner, people come and go in business, thats the way it goes.

Cadenza12 · 14/12/2025 11:28

Sort of wondering exactly what your mum said?

ChloeMorningstar · 14/12/2025 11:28

I would share on social media...

GhislaineDeFeligondeRose · 14/12/2025 11:28

Bonkers

alittlebittiredallthetime · 14/12/2025 11:29

ItsDarkNow · 14/12/2025 11:28

What sort of salon is it? So many are fronts for modern day slavery.

A small local salon, nothing like that going on

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HelpMeGetThrough · 14/12/2025 11:29

Send back a laughing emoji. It’s a nail salon, not a bloody GP Surgery.

chunkyBoo · 14/12/2025 11:29

Sounds like they’re controlling, absolutely batshit! I’d ask your local Facebook group if anyone has had strange emails from them