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Husband and son invited to wedding me only reception

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Frasierfan · 13/11/2025 19:00

Husband came back a few weeks ago saying he had news! His brother had told him he was getting married. Delighted.

When I saw brother in law I congratulated him and he asked me how I knew. Husband wasn’t supposed to tell anyone. Husband didn’t think this applied to me.

The invitations are out. Three envelopes, for husband, younger son and me. Not one for my eldest son from previous relationship who has been in husband’s life for two decades.

I thought it was odd that we had separate envelopes. I thought they were getting married in a hotel. Then younger son opened his. It turns out they are marrying in a registry office but I am only invited to Reception. I am really pissed off and not a little insulted.

I want to know details of who is invited to actual wedding and if there’s constraints etc.

Husband won’t ask.

AIBU

OP posts:
Dramatic · 20/11/2025 18:35

When we got married we had a very small registry office wedding, we were limited to 12 guests so we invited both sets of parents, siblings (not spouses or kids) and our own kids.

We did invite everyone to the reception though.

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