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To find it shocking how brazen people are with their hatred of refugees?

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GreenFairy93 · 20/09/2025 16:11

Another day, another Facebook post calling for the army to be bought in to stop the boats. Another comment section full of people shouting "sink the boats!" "Use as much force as necessary to stop them!"

There are women and children on these boats and people are brazenly calling for force to be used against them and for them to be sunk, with pictures of their faces next to their comments. Not an ounce of shame. And there's hundreds of them.

I just find it absolutely abhorrent and honestly, really upsetting that so many people have dehumanised asylum seekers to the point they have absolutely no compassion in their hearts to the point they are publicly calling for harm to come to families fleeing war.

AIBU to be shocked that people think this is ok now?

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GreenFairy93 · 22/09/2025 21:20

BundleBoogie · 22/09/2025 12:21

There you are again painting all asylum seekers as one big faceless group of sex offenders.

You seem to be putting your own bad faith interpretation on people’s words again. PP didn’t say ALL asylum seekers are sex offenders. We know that SOME are, we have the court receipts to prove it.

No other group is acceptable to joke about shooting killing and drowning, which proves the dehumanisation of refugees because if you joke about shooting and drowning them it's fine because it's "just a joke", "tongue in cheek", "just a few idiots". If people were tongue in cheek joking about killing Jews there would be an audible gasp from everyone in the room and calls if antisemitism.

You appear to be missing quite a lot of what is going on in the world at the moment. Jewish people are suffering huge amounts of abuse and harassment and the authorities are slow to deal with it. The BBC has even been caught out lying about a coach load of Jewish children who were subjected to anti Semitic abuse in London.

As I said before, women have been dehumanised as ‘terf’s’ in large numbers and are subject to the most unbelievable amounts of online and real life abuse and harassment. You don’t seem at all bothered about that. You are presenting a very skewed view of things that are happening.

Obviously it’s fine for you to call out the awful comments about asylum seekers you managed to dig up on Facebook. I still can’t see why you are on an obviously political group that mainly posts pictures of the Union Jack (and some cute pet pictures) and instead of reporting those comments, you decide to come and start a thread here.

Why are you fabricating this false narrative that "I am on this group"? I've told you twice now it's just some bullshit Facebook showed me and I don't follow it at all. I haven't reported those comments because 1- I'm not in the group 2- it's not my job to police peoples awful online behaviour 3 g there are too many to report, the whole post would need to be removed 4- the admins are stirring this behaviour up and clearly revelling in it, they aren't going to delete it are they 5- I have made a thread about being worried that this is acceptable behaviour in society now and what that means about peoples perceptions of refugees. I don't understand why can't wrap your head around this?

I have seen people say that TERFs deserve the abuse they get because they are trying to remove trans people's rights and and paint bad faith pictures of transwomen as predators and people are fed up of their behaviour towards trans people. That has obviously gone down like a cup of cold sick and is unacceptable. So why are you using this to justify the abuse against refugees with the same bullshit that people have had enough so of course they're going to joke about sinking boats? I also see the FWR posters continually complaining about R/Transgender UK, why aren't you all just reporting the posts and getting them removed since you're clearly "on" the group? 🙄 Hypocrisy comes to mind.

You are correct, I'm not interested in your gender wars or your use of it to justify the rhetoric against refugees.

People are rightly horrified by the rise in anti semitism. Why are you painting a picture that everyone thinks it's fine?

The bad faith poster here is you.

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usernamealreadytaken · 23/09/2025 08:53

GreenFairy93 · 22/09/2025 08:27

I am not a member, it just came up on my feed like loads of other shite I don't follow or look for. You are clearly imagining that I am viewing lots of posts from this group. I have seen one post with lots of comments. Facebook seems to be showing me a lot of things I don't actually follow or look for these days.

I came here to start a thread about human behaviour and what drives it, which I am perfectly entitled to do. Many people do this daily.

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Facebook usually gives you page suggestions based on an algorithm which tracks the sort of things you do engage with; perhaps you’ve sought out similar posts or some of your contacts are followers? Bear in mind, that because you’ve now clicked on that page, FB will continue to suggest similar pages to you, and if you click on those then those suggestions are likely to increase. Best way to avoid, is to ignore.

www.facebook.com/business/help/718033381901819?id=208060977200861

I’ve never seen the page but I just went and searched for it; it’s obviously a click-harvest / rage bait page with false contact info, unless there’s a bar in the Barbican run by a racist game creator… I’ve reported to FB.

BundleBoogie · 23/09/2025 16:25

GreenFairy93 · 22/09/2025 21:20

Why are you fabricating this false narrative that "I am on this group"? I've told you twice now it's just some bullshit Facebook showed me and I don't follow it at all. I haven't reported those comments because 1- I'm not in the group 2- it's not my job to police peoples awful online behaviour 3 g there are too many to report, the whole post would need to be removed 4- the admins are stirring this behaviour up and clearly revelling in it, they aren't going to delete it are they 5- I have made a thread about being worried that this is acceptable behaviour in society now and what that means about peoples perceptions of refugees. I don't understand why can't wrap your head around this?

I have seen people say that TERFs deserve the abuse they get because they are trying to remove trans people's rights and and paint bad faith pictures of transwomen as predators and people are fed up of their behaviour towards trans people. That has obviously gone down like a cup of cold sick and is unacceptable. So why are you using this to justify the abuse against refugees with the same bullshit that people have had enough so of course they're going to joke about sinking boats? I also see the FWR posters continually complaining about R/Transgender UK, why aren't you all just reporting the posts and getting them removed since you're clearly "on" the group? 🙄 Hypocrisy comes to mind.

You are correct, I'm not interested in your gender wars or your use of it to justify the rhetoric against refugees.

People are rightly horrified by the rise in anti semitism. Why are you painting a picture that everyone thinks it's fine?

The bad faith poster here is you.

No other group is acceptable to joke about shooting killing and drowning, which proves the dehumanisation of refugees because if you joke about shooting and drowning them it's fine because it's "just a joke", "tongue in cheek", "just a few idiots". If people were tongue in cheek joking about killing Jews there would be an audible gasp from everyone in the room and calls if antisemitism.

You made the claim, I refuted it. I’m not justifying anything, I’m pointing out how incorrect your claim is.

Btw, it’s not ‘fabricating a false narrative’ to assume that because you see so many of the posts, you are in this group. I searched on the group and couldn’t find what you suggested so I assumed you gave more exposure. It’s a fair assumption that I made based on what you said.

GreenFairy93 · 23/09/2025 17:19

BundleBoogie · 23/09/2025 16:25

No other group is acceptable to joke about shooting killing and drowning, which proves the dehumanisation of refugees because if you joke about shooting and drowning them it's fine because it's "just a joke", "tongue in cheek", "just a few idiots". If people were tongue in cheek joking about killing Jews there would be an audible gasp from everyone in the room and calls if antisemitism.

You made the claim, I refuted it. I’m not justifying anything, I’m pointing out how incorrect your claim is.

Btw, it’s not ‘fabricating a false narrative’ to assume that because you see so many of the posts, you are in this group. I searched on the group and couldn’t find what you suggested so I assumed you gave more exposure. It’s a fair assumption that I made based on what you said.

It's an incorrect assumption that you are still running with water being corrected.

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Netcurtainnelly · 23/09/2025 18:03

Taking the mick. Coming here, then going back for holidays.
If it's that bad, why are they going back.

ElizaMulvil · 23/09/2025 18:10

Farage is posing as the defender of working people in order to deflect from his real interests ie maximising the returns for the mega rich ie people like him. He has, £3 million property portfolio, £91,346 pa as MP, £4k pm Daily Telegraph, £16,597 from Cameo, £13k public appearances, £100k from GBNews. His determination to attack migrant workers, asylum seekers etc who currently prop up our agricultural sector, our adult care, our NHS is because he says he wants a new system ie a health system based on the US system with predatory insurance companies. So he can make even bigger fortunes. He wants to create a system where our wealth creators ie the working people of this country, have no rights. First he'll come for asylum seekers, (and will we do nothing because we are not asylum seekers), then he will come for foreign people who have been living here for 5, 20, 30 years, (and we will do nothing because we are not foreign), then he will come for Union Members, ordinary workers, until we are all terrified. He'll turn our cities into places of fear. Immigration seats in every hospital, school, care home, farm? Trump style?

BundleBoogie · 23/09/2025 18:30

GreenFairy93 · 23/09/2025 17:19

It's an incorrect assumption that you are still running with water being corrected.

That’s fine, you’re not in the group - I haven’t repeated that since you confirmed you weren’t.

It’s still rather disingenuous that you have found an obscure obviously political click bait group which I had to dig down into and still didn’t find the post you have an issue with but then you come on here to make a thread about the behaviour of a small number of people, then bemoan the state of humanity because people don’t agree with your implication that this is common practice.

GreenFairy93 · 23/09/2025 21:53

BundleBoogie · 23/09/2025 18:30

That’s fine, you’re not in the group - I haven’t repeated that since you confirmed you weren’t.

It’s still rather disingenuous that you have found an obscure obviously political click bait group which I had to dig down into and still didn’t find the post you have an issue with but then you come on here to make a thread about the behaviour of a small number of people, then bemoan the state of humanity because people don’t agree with your implication that this is common practice.

At this point it's just starting to look personal and like you want to shut the discussion down.

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MelBrookesMyHero · 23/09/2025 21:55

MidnightPatrol · 20/09/2025 16:16

I think the issue is that most aren’t women and children asylum seekers fleeing war, but young adult men travelling alone as economic migrants.

People typically have empathy for the former, not so much for the latter.

And where do you get your stats for that from?

BlakeCarrington · 23/09/2025 22:34

GreenFairy93 · 23/09/2025 21:53

At this point it's just starting to look personal and like you want to shut the discussion down.

No, it really doesn’t. It looks like healthy discussion and relevant points being debated, as is right in a democratic society.

I don’t think it’s BundleBoogie trying to shut discussion down here… perhaps look closer to home.

Idontknownowwhat · 23/09/2025 22:40

I don't use SM other than MN so I haven't been exposed to many people brazenly sharing these sorts of opinions. Only one person I know who seems to agree, but she is all whipped up in a frenzy about disabled people, anyone who gets benefits, anyone who has more than her, less than her and now immigrants.

GreenFairy93 · 23/09/2025 22:42

BlakeCarrington · 23/09/2025 22:34

No, it really doesn’t. It looks like healthy discussion and relevant points being debated, as is right in a democratic society.

I don’t think it’s BundleBoogie trying to shut discussion down here… perhaps look closer to home.

Sure, nothing at all personal about repeatedly calling it disengeuous and bad faith just to start a bloody thread.

I should have known better and not bothered apparently 🙄

How on earth you can accuse someone of shutting down a discussion that they both started and have tried to keep on track is beyond me. This poster just clearly has a bee in her bonnet that I dared make a thread she thinks is pointless.

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BlakeCarrington · 23/09/2025 22:48

The poster is making relevant points and addressing the points you have raised @GreenFairy93 but you accuse them of trying to shut down th discussion because you disagree with with their responses and don’t like their debating technique.

GreenFairy93 · 23/09/2025 23:26

BlakeCarrington · 23/09/2025 22:48

The poster is making relevant points and addressing the points you have raised @GreenFairy93 but you accuse them of trying to shut down th discussion because you disagree with with their responses and don’t like their debating technique.

I wouldn't call creating a false narrative and repeatedly telling me I shouldn't have started a thread a debating technique.

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Swiftie1878 · 24/09/2025 07:55

MelBrookesMyHero · 23/09/2025 21:55

And where do you get your stats for that from?

Where are your stats for all these women and children? The occupants of the asylum hotels are virtually without exception young, undocumented men.
I don’t think denying what is happening is helpful to the debate. I don’t agree with some of the hatred directed at the individual immigrants, but refuse to deny there’s a problem that was brewing, but now appears to have fermented.

typo

MaturingCheeseball · 24/09/2025 11:42

I was watching Greek tv - they are experiencing a similar small (large) boats influx. Interestingly there were more women/girls than arrive here by the looks of things, but rather shockingly there were very young pregnant girls - 12 or 13 with menfolk. So many on these threads wave away “cultural differences” but are we to accept what would get a European man thrown in prison ?

Americano75 · 24/09/2025 12:05

Not one for woo but

To find it shocking how brazen people are with their hatred of refugees?
BundleBoogie · 24/09/2025 14:03

GreenFairy93 · 23/09/2025 21:53

At this point it's just starting to look personal and like you want to shut the discussion down.

It’s not personal at all. I disagree with you. I hope I’ve explained why. Talking is good.

I’m learning and further clarifying my thoughts all the time.

BundleBoogie · 24/09/2025 14:09

GreenFairy93 · 23/09/2025 23:26

I wouldn't call creating a false narrative and repeatedly telling me I shouldn't have started a thread a debating technique.

Making reasonable assumption based on your words that you then corrected me on and I accepted that correction, is not creating a false narrative’.

I explained why I thought your thread and your subsequent judgement on the state of humanity was disingenuous. You are free to disagree.

Saying I’ve got a ‘bee in my bonnet’ for participating in a thread you creating on a discussion forum doesn’t show you in your best light.

Enjoy your afternoon.

Morningsleepin · 25/09/2025 21:28

Honestly, seeing the reaction of the majority of people on this thread and elsewhere, you'd have been even more furious if told to avoid a medicine for morning sickness just because it increased the risk of the baby being born without limbs

BundleBoogie · 26/09/2025 10:27

Morningsleepin · 25/09/2025 21:28

Honestly, seeing the reaction of the majority of people on this thread and elsewhere, you'd have been even more furious if told to avoid a medicine for morning sickness just because it increased the risk of the baby being born without limbs

Eh? What’s this got to do with thalidomide? Are you on the wrong thread?

MrsSkylerWhite · 29/09/2025 10:30

BundleBoogie · 22/09/2025 12:03

But you tried to twist MO s comment to say something it didn’t. That is dishonest.

No I didn’t.

MrsSkylerWhite · 29/09/2025 10:34

Netcurtainnelly · 21/09/2025 21:41

Feel sorry for the homeless veteran I saw. He's got a tent to live in. Quite a few illnesses as well.
He can't get housed but the boat people can. Free board and lodgings etc.
Charity begins at home.

It’s not always that straightforward. There are people who for a host of complex reasons refuse help.

MyDeftHedgehog · 29/09/2025 10:39

It was reported over the weekend that shortly after a dinghy left the French coast a child went overboard.

The boat continued its journey.
I think that speaks louder than anything any so called "racists" might say

LadyGreyjoy · 07/10/2025 13:53

Here you go @BundleBoogie I saw this and thought of you after watching this thread a few weeks ago.

An article about child refugees drown, laughing emoji reactions and in the comments people justifying the laughing emojis with comments like "well people have had enough haven't they" as if it that makes it ok!? And more heinous comments like "one less coming in!". And it's my local news paper the Shropshire Star, not a "rage bait group" that only has a few hundred racist nutters whooping wheeing about sinking boats like you have been trying to claim for a few pages here. Just straight up laughing at drowned children because they're refugees out in the open on a community news paper page.

Are you going to stop pretending it's only a few nutters on a rage bait group and this isn't really happening out in the real world now?

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