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To find it shocking how brazen people are with their hatred of refugees?

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GreenFairy93 · 20/09/2025 16:11

Another day, another Facebook post calling for the army to be bought in to stop the boats. Another comment section full of people shouting "sink the boats!" "Use as much force as necessary to stop them!"

There are women and children on these boats and people are brazenly calling for force to be used against them and for them to be sunk, with pictures of their faces next to their comments. Not an ounce of shame. And there's hundreds of them.

I just find it absolutely abhorrent and honestly, really upsetting that so many people have dehumanised asylum seekers to the point they have absolutely no compassion in their hearts to the point they are publicly calling for harm to come to families fleeing war.

AIBU to be shocked that people think this is ok now?

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usernamealreadytaken · 21/09/2025 18:01

SleeplessInWherever · 21/09/2025 17:47

I take no issue with economic migration either.

My family migrated here, for a better life. Admittedly “only” from Ireland, but I am still the product of economic migration, it would be hypocritical of me to be offended that others do the same.

Their getting a better life, usually involves work or study, which puts in to the system and supports our economy, higher education system and workplaces.

But there are legal routes for economic migration, which don’t involve the taxpayer having to support the individual 🤯

SleeplessInWherever · 21/09/2025 18:02

usernamealreadytaken · 21/09/2025 18:01

But there are legal routes for economic migration, which don’t involve the taxpayer having to support the individual 🤯

Someone asked me about economic migration specifically. I answered.

What’s your problem now 😂

BlakeCarrington · 21/09/2025 18:05

JaneEyre40 · 20/09/2025 19:57

Wow...Islamic people are a cancer to British society? Are you having a laugh. How many people do you know who display the values you have outlined?! Very few.

Also educate yourself on Islam. Noy fundamentalism.

Please refer back to the core British values that the poster listed and answer their point about their erosion. Otherwise your whole post is just “oh wow, attack, belittle, don’t address the point”. We see this so often it is very dull, and it is used as a tool to deliberately suppress debate.

Go on, have a go at addressing the point about erosion of British values (that the poster is allowed to value in case you were in any doubt)…

19lottie82 · 21/09/2025 18:09

CrazyAboutFurBabies · 20/09/2025 18:21

Serious question to all in favour of illegal migrants...

Where is the line drawn? When does it end?

We cannot just let every single one of them in and continue to let them in with no plan or rules… we’re not a country with unlimited space and unlimited money?

Not to mention these illegal migrants are coming here from countries with values that absolutely do not align with ours. For examples, they think women are to be slaves to men, voice and no choice.

So how can they integrate alongside us?

Edited

They’re not illegal migrants.

usernamealreadytaken · 21/09/2025 18:09

Welshwabbit · 21/09/2025 17:59

That's from 2021 and it was a report, not even a proposal that had been given the go-ahead. It also seems to be a proposition relating to dedicated housing, not hotels. As you will see from the August 2025 news report I posted, there are no asylum seekers housed in hotels in Powys or the surrounding counties. They are, the report points out, concentrated in London boroughs. The concern about this issue in places such as Powys comes not from personal experience but from other sources, including the slanted media reporting of this issue.

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Wrong link. I guess building houses for asylum seekers is preferable?
https://www.countytimes.co.uk/news/25229261.powys-cabinet-backs-role-home-office-asylum-housing-pilot/

Powys council cabinet welcomes Home Office pilot on housing asylum seekers

A SENIOR councillor wasn’t allowed to speak against a proposal that Powys County Council take part in a UK Government pilot scheme to house asylum…

https://www.countytimes.co.uk/news/25229261.powys-cabinet-backs-role-home-office-asylum-housing-pilot/

usernamealreadytaken · 21/09/2025 18:11

SleeplessInWherever · 21/09/2025 18:00

You said it had racist origins. It’s been proven by me, other posters, and yourself that it doesn’t.

Backtracking and changing the point you’re making, won’t change that.

Hands up, you got me. In my haste to respond to your hideous use of language, I used “origin” instead of “connotation”. Can’t even blame autocorrect, just meno brain-fart.

2dogsandabudgie · 21/09/2025 18:13

usernamealreadytaken · 21/09/2025 17:49

Plenty of offensive terms had innocent origins, but the recent use of those terms is what matters in current conversations.

There’s an N word which simply means black in Spanish, and is unacceptable in any context other than a Spanish speaker referring to a colour.

Similarly, see retarded, unless you're discussing engine timing.

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Context is everything. Obviously if a person called a black person a spade that would be racist but to use the expression to call a spade a spade when talking about a person who says it like it is ie, plain speaking is not racist.

usernamealreadytaken · 21/09/2025 18:13

SleeplessInWherever · 21/09/2025 18:02

Someone asked me about economic migration specifically. I answered.

What’s your problem now 😂

The previous poster referred to many being economic migrants not asylum seekers, and you didn’t dispute that they were indeed economic migrants, and went on to support economic miration.

CrazyAboutFurBabies · 21/09/2025 18:14

19lottie82 · 21/09/2025 18:09

They’re not illegal migrants.

Sorry, my fault, Illegal Immigrant.

An "illegal immigrant" refers to a person who has entered or remains in a country without the necessary legal authorisation.

Or is The Migration Observatory for the University of Oxford lying?

SleeplessInWherever · 21/09/2025 18:15

usernamealreadytaken · 21/09/2025 18:11

Hands up, you got me. In my haste to respond to your hideous use of language, I used “origin” instead of “connotation”. Can’t even blame autocorrect, just meno brain-fart.

I did notice you’d given more examples.

As the proud owner of a severely autistic child, I couldn’t be less offended by the word retard.

I’m aware that it has medical origins, before anyone was offended by it, and words are just that - words. They all start somewhere, and it’s a choice to be offended by them.

See also mong, or moron.

SleeplessInWherever · 21/09/2025 18:17

usernamealreadytaken · 21/09/2025 18:13

The previous poster referred to many being economic migrants not asylum seekers, and you didn’t dispute that they were indeed economic migrants, and went on to support economic miration.

Okay I’ll summarise.

So what if they’re actually people searching for a better life. They’ll either get granted to have one, or they won’t.

If they do - good. They’ll then contribute to the country by working to get that better life, and will be better off themselves. Win/win.

Blueskiesandrainbows · 21/09/2025 18:22

MidnightPatrol · 20/09/2025 16:16

I think the issue is that most aren’t women and children asylum seekers fleeing war, but young adult men travelling alone as economic migrants.

People typically have empathy for the former, not so much for the latter.

This, they are not refugees at all, they have travelled through numerous countries where they could have stayed to get here.
They should be sent straight back, no messing no arguing, if they still want to come they should use the legal application channels and then see how they get on!

Clavinova · 21/09/2025 18:25

SleeplessInWherever · 21/09/2025 17:50

They get £9 per person, if accommodation and food are covered by the HO. I can assure you my kids cost me more than £9.

I'm no more frightened of a young man who’s just stepped off a boat, than I am of a young man who lives next door.

£9.95 per week I believe.

Most of these young men cannot afford to rent their own house or flat once they leave supported accommodation. Presumably you are happy for an HMO next door to you?

Poetnojo · 21/09/2025 18:26

usernamealreadytaken · 21/09/2025 17:49

Plenty of offensive terms had innocent origins, but the recent use of those terms is what matters in current conversations.

There’s an N word which simply means black in Spanish, and is unacceptable in any context other than a Spanish speaker referring to a colour.

Similarly, see retarded, unless you're discussing engine timing.

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I was discussing the fact that a poster said the term had racist origins, which it does not.

Livelovebehappy · 21/09/2025 18:27

MrsSkylerWhite · 21/09/2025 15:01

Would you therefore agree that it’s not fair to lump asylum seekers together as feckless, sexual predators intent on sponging of the state? Seems to be very much the rhetoric of the anti-immigration groups.

No of course not. And I’ve not said that all asylum seekers are sexual predators. Some of them are, just like some of them are economic migrants rather than escaping persecution. And I don’t doubt that some are entitled to a better life. My argument is that we can’t accommodate them. I’m old enough so see how our public services have declined over the last decade, in part due to the numbers of people we have living here. I agree that’s also due to lack of investment, but that’s happened, and here we are. Our infrastructure has all but collapsed. That’s no fault of the those wanting to settle here, as it’s no fault of people already here. But we can’t simply just shrug our shoulders and continue to welcome people onto a sinking ship. We have to start putting the interests of people already here first. That means pausing immigration and refugees whilst we sort out this shit show.

LeonardoDiCaprio · 21/09/2025 18:29

19lottie82 · 21/09/2025 18:09

They’re not illegal migrants.

Are they entering via a verified port and presenting their passports and documents to UK border force? I think not

Livelovebehappy · 21/09/2025 18:34

Blueskiesandrainbows · 21/09/2025 18:22

This, they are not refugees at all, they have travelled through numerous countries where they could have stayed to get here.
They should be sent straight back, no messing no arguing, if they still want to come they should use the legal application channels and then see how they get on!

There are no legal channels. I think that’s the issue at the heart of those disagreeing with the stopping of the asylum seekers on boats. And I don’t see how we can implement a legal route without pouring billions of pounds into something when we’re already dealing with a financial black hole. Plus it’s not something the electorate have an appetite for when there are so many other things here in the UK that we need to invest money into first. Maybe we need some offshore processing centre, where asylum applications can be processed before they touch foot here, but I’m not sure that would halt the people already trying to come. via the channel, if they are indeed economic rather than genuinely escaping danger.

SleeplessInWherever · 21/09/2025 18:37

Clavinova · 21/09/2025 18:25

£9.95 per week I believe.

Most of these young men cannot afford to rent their own house or flat once they leave supported accommodation. Presumably you are happy for an HMO next door to you?

Yeah, don’t see why not?

I wouldn’t know the specific identity of anyone who lived down the road, so not sure why it would matter if they were born somewhere else or when they arrived etc.

Livelovebehappy · 21/09/2025 18:40

SleeplessInWherever · 21/09/2025 18:17

Okay I’ll summarise.

So what if they’re actually people searching for a better life. They’ll either get granted to have one, or they won’t.

If they do - good. They’ll then contribute to the country by working to get that better life, and will be better off themselves. Win/win.

And how do you know that they will contribute to the country. Some are unskilled, don’t speak English, end up homeless, turn to crime. We have enough of these people here already. Why would we want more. The chances are that people with no skills or/and who don’t speak English are going to be exploited or will take out more than they put in. That’s the reality.

InMyHealthyEra · 21/09/2025 18:46

There’s at least one thread a day about how shocked someone is about the level of hatred for refugees and immigrants, even legal ones.

Are people genuinely shocked by this? How can you be? You can’t open any social media without seeing racism or hatred towards them these days and it’s not a new thing.

usernamealreadytaken · 21/09/2025 18:51

SleeplessInWherever · 21/09/2025 18:17

Okay I’ll summarise.

So what if they’re actually people searching for a better life. They’ll either get granted to have one, or they won’t.

If they do - good. They’ll then contribute to the country by working to get that better life, and will be better off themselves. Win/win.

Okay, I’ll summarise. If they are economic migrants they are, by default, illegal immigrants. There are legal routes, which millions of people (including your good-self) use. Why are they special?

Clavinova · 21/09/2025 18:53

SleeplessInWherever · 21/09/2025 18:37

Yeah, don’t see why not?

I wouldn’t know the specific identity of anyone who lived down the road, so not sure why it would matter if they were born somewhere else or when they arrived etc.

Yeah, don’t see why not?

Great, what sort of property do you have next door? Owned or rented? Perhaps local councils could set up some sort of register of interested neighbours. Are you aware of any HMOs in your street at the moment?

GreenFairy93 · 21/09/2025 18:54

usernamealreadytaken · 21/09/2025 18:11

Hands up, you got me. In my haste to respond to your hideous use of language, I used “origin” instead of “connotation”. Can’t even blame autocorrect, just meno brain-fart.

Hideous use of language!? To call a spade a spade!?

You've totally lost it. As confident wanting the government to have full access to all our bank accounts and go full authoritian state on pensioners.

What an extreme reaction to seeing an asylum seeker behave a deliveroo!

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GreenFairy93 · 21/09/2025 18:59

I am utterly shocked that 48% think it's unreasonable to find it upsetting that people are brazen enough to call for boats of refugees to be sunk by the armed forces.

I lost faith in humanity today.

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TroysMammy · 21/09/2025 19:00

I've heard that the boats and life jackets are sent back to France and they are reused time and time again. Obviously I don't know if this is true. If the governments want to reduce or stop this happening then surely they should impound the equipment and stop it at source.