my 9 year old son is a massive cat lover. He has cat slippers, tshirts, pens etc etc. I got him some cat pyjamas. These ones. https://amzn.to/45XnCwa
my husband (son’s dad) keeps telling him that he has to stop wearing them as they are girls’ pyjamas.
my son has said to him “please can you stop calling them girls’ pyjamas” and my husband says that he will be bullied if his friends see him wearing them. I have pointed out that the only one bullying him is his own father.
my husband says that telling him that they’re girls’ and not appropriate is not bullying it’s “parenting”
my husband thinks the shorts on the pyjamas are too short. Like little hot pants. Sometimes when son is lounging on the sofa they ride up and some bum cheek is visible. This angers husband and starts him off on his “girls’ pyjamas” conversation again.
son likes the pyjamas. I said I would ask on here what people thought. Please vote.
YANBU - your husband should stop calling them “girls’ pyjamas” to your son and back off
YABU - your son shouldn’t wear the pyjamas and your husband is right to protect him from future bullying if son’s friends saw the pyjamas on a sleepover.