To ask when your looks started to fade?

[Triviall]

Feeling a bit depressed, I split up with my ex a year ago (I’m 35 now) and worrying that he had all my best years and I will never find anybody because I am old.

I look better at 41 than did at 31. I take a lot better care of myself, I have a lot of money to spend on my face, body and hair and more money to spend on nice clothes.

Unfortunately for me, about 36/7, it didn't help that I was also diagnosed with crohn's disease and then had early menopause also. 🙁