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Date last night - he’s only just left!!

230 replies

Tiredsaturday · 26/04/2025 09:26

I don’t know why I’m writing this really except that I’m wired and don’t know what else to do having texted a couple of my friends!

Had a date last night. Lovely man who I’d been chatting to for a few weeks by text and phone. Had a coffee with him earlier in the week. This was ‘out out’.

He’s only just left!!! Hehe! What a night! I am happy, excited, very tired indeed (!) and ever so slightly not really but a bit comically ashamed.

Dunno what the AIBU is apart from maybe ‘AIBU to suggest to the kids later that we all go to bed at 6?’

OP posts:
Missedthis · 26/04/2025 09:29

Ha.
So he had to do the walk of shame home 😂😂

VirgosNeedGoals · 26/04/2025 09:34

Ooo are you seeing him again soon?

SallyWD · 26/04/2025 09:37

Sounds like fun! Hope this is the start of something beautiful. If not, you had a good night anyway!

Tiredsaturday · 26/04/2025 09:37

VirgosNeedGoals · 26/04/2025 09:34

Ooo are you seeing him again soon?

I think so!

OP posts:
Topjoe19 · 26/04/2025 09:37

Ooh exciting!! Are you planning to meet up again?

Honon · 26/04/2025 09:38

Haha, the dream date! Lucky you! You must be buzzing, hope it goes somewhere.

CalicoPusscat · 26/04/2025 09:40

Sounds like a good night!

Tiredsaturday · 26/04/2025 09:43

Honon · 26/04/2025 09:38

Haha, the dream date! Lucky you! You must be buzzing, hope it goes somewhere.

No buzzing required for a little while now! 😳
Ha!

OP posts:
breadpie · 26/04/2025 09:48

Excellent good for you 👍 hope you used protection 🥳

ByWiseAquaFinch · 26/04/2025 10:00

Tiredsaturday · 26/04/2025 09:26

I don’t know why I’m writing this really except that I’m wired and don’t know what else to do having texted a couple of my friends!

Had a date last night. Lovely man who I’d been chatting to for a few weeks by text and phone. Had a coffee with him earlier in the week. This was ‘out out’.

He’s only just left!!! Hehe! What a night! I am happy, excited, very tired indeed (!) and ever so slightly not really but a bit comically ashamed.

Dunno what the AIBU is apart from maybe ‘AIBU to suggest to the kids later that we all go to bed at 6?’

Well you can suggest it but don't expect enthusiastic agreement 😂

Aww, that's great though. Hope it all works out for you. Happiness can be just around the corner for anyone, you never know when it's going to pop up.

fourelementary · 26/04/2025 10:02

Awww fab! When are the kids coming back? Could you grab a shower and a snooze?

WickWood · 26/04/2025 10:03

Aww so exciting!!

cressidahun · 26/04/2025 10:06

Good for you OP, wish I was in your shoes haha

Iamacatslave · 26/04/2025 10:07

Well done.

Tiredsaturday · 26/04/2025 10:08

fourelementary · 26/04/2025 10:02

Awww fab! When are the kids coming back? Could you grab a shower and a snooze?

They are back at 11ish. I have just had a long shower but no time for any kip, sadly.

God I haven’t had a night like that in 20 years!

OP posts:
LeaveTaking · 26/04/2025 10:09

How exciting!

Hope the next date is as good!

BangersAndGnash · 26/04/2025 10:18

Wooohoooo!

Good for you OP.

Whatever happens next will whatever happens next. Enjoy your day.

mumofoneAlonebutokay · 26/04/2025 10:33

This is what I want to use mumsnet for! Online girl talk

Whats he like? What was your date like?(without being too outing)

Yanbu, sounds like a lovely night 🥰

Tiredsaturday · 26/04/2025 10:37

mumofoneAlonebutokay · 26/04/2025 10:33

This is what I want to use mumsnet for! Online girl talk

Whats he like? What was your date like?(without being too outing)

Yanbu, sounds like a lovely night 🥰

Oh he’s lovely! Well, he seems it. The conversation didn’t turn to his views on axe-murdering but if I had to guess based on the date I would say ‘Against’.

We met in a bar, had a few drinks and lots of giggles about work and kids and the usual. Because I am a deeply strategic individual I suggested that we go on somewhere else the other side of my house. And oh, we got to my house and I had to stop to use the loo and we never left!

OP posts:
Dweetfidilove · 26/04/2025 10:40

Check you 🦋🦋!

I'll be the bugaboo that issues the post frolic safety warnings ⚠️, then quickly get back to 'good for you '.

There's a lot to be said for a good night. And you'll sleep real good tonight 😃.

blueleavesgreensky · 26/04/2025 10:40

I want the women’s talk deets 🤣 how many times, what was the best bit? Did you sleep between sessions or was it one mega feast of sex 🤣

CuttedPearPie · 26/04/2025 10:41

Ooooh great! Did you have breakfast dressed in his top? 😆

CarrieMoonbeams · 26/04/2025 10:48

Missedthis · 26/04/2025 09:29

Ha.
So he had to do the walk of shame home 😂😂

You mean "the stride of pride" I think 😂

Middlechild3 · 26/04/2025 10:50

Lol sounds great enjoy!

Muz20 · 26/04/2025 10:51

CarrieMoonbeams · 26/04/2025 10:48

You mean "the stride of pride" I think 😂

love that! Never heard that saying before 😂

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