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Trans protest- sharing for balance

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Tandora · 20/04/2025 11:47

There’s a thread sharing some really awful images from the protest, so I wanted to share some positive ones for the sake of some perspective/ balance.
A lot of people are really understandably incredibly angry and overwhelmed by the events of the last few days. But most people who support trans rights absolutely don’t condone fighting oppression and injustice with misogyny.

Trans protest- sharing for balance
Trans protest- sharing for balance
Trans protest- sharing for balance
Trans protest- sharing for balance
Trans protest- sharing for balance
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Tandora · 20/04/2025 14:02

EasternStandard · 20/04/2025 14:02

I find your fascism post offensive and your patriarchy post deeply oppressive.

Then do better I beg you

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andtheworldrollson · 20/04/2025 14:02

There was one study that showed a brain similarity - it showed that women and transowmen were both more likely than men to have experienced trauma

men who have experienced trauma have that brain pattern too so it wasn’t an indicator of anything to do with sex or gender

Pluvia · 20/04/2025 14:03

I think you are here in bad faith.

Whoever would have thought it? 🙄

Tandora · 20/04/2025 14:03

EasternStandard · 20/04/2025 13:58

No it’s really not. It’s part of male power to not accept women’s lack of consent on this.

Look at how women are not listened to, including this thread.

It’s got nothing to do with your consent. You don’t get to consent or not to the reality of someone else’s existence

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RedToothBrush · 20/04/2025 14:04

Tandora · 20/04/2025 12:09

They are protesting against women's sex based rights.

They are protesting fascism.

Edited

So you said previously in response to
I think by TRA rules you are the company you keep so YABU
That you were in
I’m in very fine company

After your opening post of
There’s a thread sharing some really awful images from the protest, so I wanted to share some positive ones for the sake of some perspective/ balance.
A lot of people are really understandably incredibly angry and overwhelmed by the events of the last few days. But most people who support trans rights absolutely don’t condone fighting oppression and injustice with misogyny.

So where the hell do you get off with your hypocrisy of saying this is fascist?

This was a ruling that was based on law written by Labour in 2010. It hasn't changed like that. The ruling said that the law couldn't possibly make sense if biological sex wasn't the original intention.

The case was brought by a bunch of left wing women.

And yet it's somehow a fascist decision?

Probably because of all the far right slurs, and the guilting by association to try and silence.

If you think you are going to get away with that gross level of hypocrisy, and expect us to take your comments about 'balance' seriously as being fair you really are fucking delusional.

Pluvia · 20/04/2025 14:04

andtheworldrollson · 20/04/2025 14:02

There was one study that showed a brain similarity - it showed that women and transowmen were both more likely than men to have experienced trauma

men who have experienced trauma have that brain pattern too so it wasn’t an indicator of anything to do with sex or gender

Would you link to that study, please, and quote the paragraph that supports your assertion?

aylis · 20/04/2025 14:04

BreatheAndFocus · 20/04/2025 14:01

I always change my mind if I’m proved wrong, Tandora. I want knowledge and facts not dogma. I’ve never seen anything that proves men can become women.

Same. And in fact I started out pro-self ID. I was still languishing in liberal feminism thinking we were supporting a the very small number of people the GRA was designed for. I changed my mind on it, and on quite a lot of things actually. It's presumptuous to assume that people have no other history on this subject.

TheKeatingFive · 20/04/2025 14:05

The TRAs are just another brand of Incel, in reality. Their attitudes to women's rights are every bit as despicable as Andrew Tate et al, just with a different angle.

AllPlayedOut · 20/04/2025 14:05

Has the OP explained yet what makes transwomen women? I mean I’ve read thousands of threads where people claimed that TWAW and no one has been able to convincingly explain why they aren’t men but one can always live in hope.

juldan · 20/04/2025 14:05

Tandora · 20/04/2025 13:47

The type of fascism that is taking hold has nothing to do with science.

I have explained the science over and over again on anti-trans threads on mumsnet , very few people are interested in reading or engaging with it.

@Tandora
The science is very simple. A person born with female genitalia is a woman and a person born with male genitalia is a man. End of. A piece of paper or choice of clothes does not change the science.

Tandora · 20/04/2025 14:05

Grumpyoldpersonwithcats · 20/04/2025 14:02

Thank you for the response. So as a follow up question - what do you believe the differences in the treatment of those two groups of individuals should be?

Obviously it depends on the context. For example - the provision of medical services need to be tailored to treat different people’s different bodies

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Tandora · 20/04/2025 14:06

juldan · 20/04/2025 14:05

@Tandora
The science is very simple. A person born with female genitalia is a woman and a person born with male genitalia is a man. End of. A piece of paper or choice of clothes does not change the science.

The science is not very simple at all. If you think it is that should be your first red flag.

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chocciecake · 20/04/2025 14:06

Sex is binary. Biological sex matters.
Ends.

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 20/04/2025 14:06

Tandora · 20/04/2025 14:03

It’s got nothing to do with your consent. You don’t get to consent or not to the reality of someone else’s existence

The reality is trans women are men. It’s really that’s simple.

aylis · 20/04/2025 14:06

Tandora · 20/04/2025 14:03

It’s got nothing to do with your consent. You don’t get to consent or not to the reality of someone else’s existence

Fucking boom. There it is.

EasternStandard · 20/04/2025 14:07

Tandora · 20/04/2025 14:03

It’s got nothing to do with your consent. You don’t get to consent or not to the reality of someone else’s existence

Where did I say ‘existence’?

You’re seeing push back because women are saying no.

We don’t consent to sharing single sex spaces. The law now is changing and I’m relieved that it is.

You are welcome to change the behaviour of the male sex class so it’s more accommodating.

Your posts here will do the opposite of what you are after. Particularly when you use language such as fascism and the other post.

proximalhumerous · 20/04/2025 14:07

If I hear or see one more person proclaiming "trans people exist" (or indeed "exsist") I might lose my shit. Has anyone ever tried to argue that they don't?

Tandora · 20/04/2025 14:07

aylis · 20/04/2025 14:06

Fucking boom. There it is.

You want me to say it again?

it’s got nothing to do with your consent.

You don’t get to consent or not to the reality of someone else’s existence

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ThatCyanCat · 20/04/2025 14:07

Tandora · 20/04/2025 14:03

It’s got nothing to do with your consent. You don’t get to consent or not to the reality of someone else’s existence

Well this is true...we don't need your consent to the reality that women exist as a sex class distinct from men and deserve protections based on that fact.

TheKeatingFive · 20/04/2025 14:08

Ah, women arent permitted consent.

Getting strong incel vibes from that one 🙄

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 20/04/2025 14:08

Tandora · 20/04/2025 14:03

It’s got nothing to do with your consent. You don’t get to consent or not to the reality of someone else’s existence

I agree that it isn't about consent.

Transwomen would still not be women even if women consented to them being called women.

Some things simply boil down to biological fact.

Tandora · 20/04/2025 14:08

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 20/04/2025 14:06

The reality is trans women are men. It’s really that’s simple.

Another perfect example of trans erasure.

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TheKeatingFive · 20/04/2025 14:09

Tandora · 20/04/2025 14:08

Another perfect example of trans erasure.

Living for the DRAMA

🙄

pirateshirt · 20/04/2025 14:09

Tandora · 20/04/2025 14:06

The science is not very simple at all. If you think it is that should be your first red flag.

Hmmm... and yet "the true prevalence of intersex is seen to be about 0.018%".

aylis · 20/04/2025 14:09

Tandora · 20/04/2025 14:07

You want me to say it again?

it’s got nothing to do with your consent.

You don’t get to consent or not to the reality of someone else’s existence

Yeah we heard you, we got it from the start of the thread. We see you.

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