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Trans people

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Mog65 · 17/04/2025 16:46

Firstly, I'm a trans ally

Everyone is up in arms about trans women. What seems to be forgotten these people are human beings. Where is humanity. You have probably been sharing toilets and coming into contact with trans women every day and have no idea. You only hear about the few bad ones. In a public toilet, you go into a cubical and pee. Its not like you're sat there in full public view with your knickers at your ankles.

What has been forgotten also, as many females are changing to. So trans men. So you're in hospital in a ward. The woman in the next bed, identifys as George, clit is now a penis fully working and you're in the next bed! Same person can wander around female only spaces as the law has changed. George can now only be searched by a female. By the way George a transgender man is a pervert! All hypothetical but nobody has brought this up.

Just a thought.

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Nameychangington · 17/04/2025 19:22

HazelShark · 17/04/2025 19:20

This thread is this most hateful thing ive read in a long time

Please point out the hate so we can all condemn it.

Or by hate do you mean women believing that women are actual people and not just support animals for the proper humans ie men?

Riaanna · 17/04/2025 19:23

If you’re suggesting that transmen are a risk find me one case.

spannasaurus · 17/04/2025 19:23

HazelShark · 17/04/2025 19:20

This thread is this most hateful thing ive read in a long time

If you want hateful have a look at what TRAs say about women

https://terfisaslur.com/

TERF is a slur

Documenting the abuse, harassment and misogyny of transgender identity politics

https://terfisaslur.com/

Ritasueandbobtoo9 · 17/04/2025 19:24

You poor delusional fool.

Derbee · 17/04/2025 19:24

YABU.

Women have had their rights protected.

Trans people haven’t lost any of their rights.

Common sense has finally prevailed, and it’s exhausting that us women are still meant to feel bad about the fact that men do not have a right to women’s safe spaces, even when wearing dresses. It’s not for women to feel bad about, or excuse the ruling.

Silversixpenny · 17/04/2025 19:24

LobeliaBaggins · 17/04/2025 16:50

Ok. You do you. Be an alley or a cul-de-sac if you prefer.

Most of us are not allies. Now we have legal backing.

👏

AD1509 · 17/04/2025 19:24

“George” will need to deal with being on the correct ward/ in the correct bathroom. No matter how mutilated her clit is.

Nameychangington · 17/04/2025 19:24

HazelShark · 17/04/2025 19:22

Thats not acceptable either but yes. And theres a lot more than 2 people here.

Open the website. There are thousands upon thousands of transwomen gleefully threatening to torture rape and murder women for the crime of having an opinion.

BelfastBard · 17/04/2025 19:25

Bannedontherun · 17/04/2025 19:10

@HazelShark that old nonsense gay people are an entirely different group of people who as far as i am aware are as pissed of with the idea that you can change sex as us terfs are.

The younger gay men I know are also pissed off at women on their dating apps pretending to be gay men then getting pissy when actual gay men aren’t attracted to them and don’t consider them potential partners…

snickersbarchild · 17/04/2025 19:25

And yet they are not behaving in that way shown in the link. Why is that? Is it because most are female and those in the link are male behaving in a very male manner?

ThatCyanCat · 17/04/2025 19:25

Of course trans people are human. That's how we know they're all male or female and can't change sex.

Teddlesisagoodboy · 17/04/2025 19:25

How many here have been molested by a trans person and how many have been molested by a man?

I never been even insulted by a trans woman but I've been attacked and molested by multiple men. Trans people aren't the threat you are all desperate to believe.

SALaw · 17/04/2025 19:25

“Clit is now a penis” just shows exactly how much you actually know about the thing you’re an ally for.

AshesofTime · 17/04/2025 19:26

HazelShark · 17/04/2025 19:22

Thats not acceptable either but yes. And theres a lot more than 2 people here.

Two people? There are hundreds and hundreds of posts on there. I'm sure won't read it, so I'll give you a selection of some of the kind things the transwomen on there have written about women.

"Terfs can choke on my girl dick"

"If you're a terf you can get fucked with the business end fo a barbed wire baseball bat"

"Stab your local terf"

"No terf deserves teeth. Punch any you see as hard as you can"

How is anything don't his thread nearly as bad as that? And as I said there are hundreds and hundreds of these. Woemn saying that men are not women and that women deserve single sex spaces is not a fraction as hateful as these "men" who may claim to be women, but who very clearly still have male aggression issues.

glittercunt · 17/04/2025 19:26

OldDemdike · 17/04/2025 16:57

George is welcome to have the bed next to me in hospital because George is a woman. Unlike the transwomen you mentioned. Those men will now have to stay out of our spaces. This is now a fact in law, whether you like it or not.

George doesn't want the bed next to you.

HazelShark · 17/04/2025 19:26

AshesofTime · 17/04/2025 19:26

Two people? There are hundreds and hundreds of posts on there. I'm sure won't read it, so I'll give you a selection of some of the kind things the transwomen on there have written about women.

"Terfs can choke on my girl dick"

"If you're a terf you can get fucked with the business end fo a barbed wire baseball bat"

"Stab your local terf"

"No terf deserves teeth. Punch any you see as hard as you can"

How is anything don't his thread nearly as bad as that? And as I said there are hundreds and hundreds of these. Woemn saying that men are not women and that women deserve single sex spaces is not a fraction as hateful as these "men" who may claim to be women, but who very clearly still have male aggression issues.

Edited

I just saw the picture that showed on the post - i dont click random links

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 17/04/2025 19:26

SnoozingFox · 17/04/2025 17:07

Tell me you didn't pay attention in biology class without saying you didn't pay attention in biology.

TBH most people, even otherwise well educated ones, are clueless about basic biology. That’s why we’ve had senior politicians saying e.g. it could be possible for a trans woman to grow a cervix.

UndermyShoeJoe · 17/04/2025 19:27

BelfastBard · 17/04/2025 19:25

The younger gay men I know are also pissed off at women on their dating apps pretending to be gay men then getting pissy when actual gay men aren’t attracted to them and don’t consider them potential partners…

Happens to lesbians as well. The sear hate and transphobe shouted at them when they don’t want to date or have sex with someone who has a penis is huge.

Also the amount of “women” with full in beards and male names must of got lost.

BiologicalRobot · 17/04/2025 19:27

Teddlesisagoodboy · 17/04/2025 19:17

How many men are going to go to the effort of dressing up as a woman to go in a woman's bathroom just so they can molest women. Get a brain and a life!

Go read the fucking huge list of every TW in prison. Most are there for rape and sexual abuse of women and girls. Then come back (and apologise).

ArtemisiaTheArtist · 17/04/2025 19:27

It's a braver person than me who can start a thread on here telling women how they should think.

Also: people need biology lessons.

As someone who knows nobody can change sex, I think we should stop pandering to a tiny minority that have huge gobs. I've had to unfollow loads of people on IG because of them saying how oppressed transpeople are. It's a script, and a fucking boring one at that.

Three (bio) women a week die because of a violent partner every week. I couldn't find any equivalent statistics at all for transpeople. Maybe people's perceptions of who is the most oppressed is incorrect?

AshesofTime · 17/04/2025 19:28

HazelShark · 17/04/2025 19:26

I just saw the picture that showed on the post - i dont click random links

Edited

Anything to say about the posts I've quoted? or the fact there are thousands more in a similar vein? Still think we're the disgusting ones for wanting to protect our fellow women from those kinds of people?

Nameychangington · 17/04/2025 19:28

Teddlesisagoodboy · 17/04/2025 19:25

How many here have been molested by a trans person and how many have been molested by a man?

I never been even insulted by a trans woman but I've been attacked and molested by multiple men. Trans people aren't the threat you are all desperate to believe.

Transwomen are men. And here are HM prison service stats about their sex offending:

PS how many women harmed would it take for you to think it's an issue, is it always n+1?

Trans people
MrsMappFlint · 17/04/2025 19:28

Mog65 · 17/04/2025 16:46

Firstly, I'm a trans ally

Everyone is up in arms about trans women. What seems to be forgotten these people are human beings. Where is humanity. You have probably been sharing toilets and coming into contact with trans women every day and have no idea. You only hear about the few bad ones. In a public toilet, you go into a cubical and pee. Its not like you're sat there in full public view with your knickers at your ankles.

What has been forgotten also, as many females are changing to. So trans men. So you're in hospital in a ward. The woman in the next bed, identifys as George, clit is now a penis fully working and you're in the next bed! Same person can wander around female only spaces as the law has changed. George can now only be searched by a female. By the way George a transgender man is a pervert! All hypothetical but nobody has brought this up.

Just a thought.

Yes and it's a crap thought.

Away with you.

viques · 17/04/2025 19:28

UndermyShoeJoe · 17/04/2025 18:58

Yes there is a lovely trans women who works in a local shop. But she is very clearly a he despite the hair and make up and nails.

Lovely nails at that I’ve complemented them before when they had a really intricate paint job.

But when not in a nice friendly environment it’s that hair on the back of your neck and that uncomfy feeling. You know something not right but likely won’t say anyway. I’ve had to shh a child asking why that man is wearing a dress before boobs the lot but if a young child can tell you can tell.

Why ssh a child for asking a perfectly reasonable question? If you tell kids to sssh and not ask awkward questions when they don’t understand something then what will they do when the local pervert flashes his willy at them in the park, or their cousin asks them to send them a picture of their bottom. OK your local lovely transwoman is not your local pervert, or the creepy cousin, but some local lovely transwomen are getting a sexual kick out of dressing as they do, and while you might not want to be that specific to your child , you certainly shouldn’t ssh them when they are using their spidey senses to ask about something they don’t understand.

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