To take recreational drugs in your 50s

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Just that really. Bunch of married fathers going out and taking recreational drugs (concealed up one of them’s rectum) - one hid it from his wife, one has a wife that does it too, the other I don’t know.

What do you think?

AIBU to feel a bit eurgh about it and a bit like they never grew up?

YABU - it’s fine. Each to their own

YANBU - it is a bit yuk.

So yeah I do have a problem with people who do this thinking it's just a free recreational drugs without considering how many people have died so they get their high.

It's very easy to other the people who die though because they are often a different colour, class, etc to the user.

Is MDMA as bad?

MDMA kicked hooliganism out of football. They stopped taking coke, speed and booze and started to feel the love 🕊️🕊️🕊️

Can you quote this ‘blasting’ you are are referring to? If I’ve blasted anyone I’ll apologise.

Cocaine is a whole other world to me when I witness how people behave on it. It's truly horrible horrible stuff and I'd have no interest. MDMA, no, I feel different about that.

I need to learn more about the impact on lives of those involved in production and exploitation because of those drugs. ( Mdma, mushrooms).

I think it's unreasonable at any age and I think all the apologists on here are bloody ridiculous. Would you be so blasé if it was your kids doing it? How do you think people get hold of drugs? Absolutely bloody shameful.

No problem with mushrooms or mdma - safe if tested and not horrifically unethical

I have a big, big problem with coke and ketamine - awful for the person taking it and the supply chain, laced with nonsense and dangerous. Nope.

so, for me it would depend on the drug

Nope. They went off to the loo to sort it once they’d got in 🤮

@RedToothBrush thanks

Absolutely.

How could you possibly look at yourself in the mirror, probably with a raging hangover/comedown, and know that the night before you'd put drugs in your body that your mate had shoved up his bum, and not be absolutely disgusted by yourself?!

I've been around all kinds of drugs and experimented a lot myself when I was younger, but now I'm in my late 30s and have young children it's an absolute no for me. I couldn't risk my health like that because of my DC, and I'd never want them to know or see me out of it or recovering from a heavy night. The idea of going back to it in 10 years' time just seems sad.

That's not to mention as others have the horrible exploitation and violence in the drugs trade, which I don't think I would be able to ignore now.

Men have to put it up their bottom or it can be found on the door!
I don't like coke but take MDMA a few times a year with my DP. I'm late 40's he's late 50's. We go out dancing and have a lovely time! Brings us closer together as a couple too. I've been taking it since my teens and I think I'm a better person for it. It's definitely made me more empathetic and open minded :)

I am not ignorant to the ethical issues with drugs, but honestly unless everyone on this thread doesn’t eat chocolate, use an iPhone, shop on ASOS, etc etc etc… no judgement to any of it but my point is there is no ethical consumption under capitalism, and we all make decisions where we turn a blind eye to the reality.

An easy way to make it ethical would be for the government to legalise it, but my experience of people who are anti-drugs is that isn’t good enough an idea either.

I think it’s each to their own really - if they are doing this at an age where they must know they are more at risk of health issues then that’s on them. If they still want to go to gigs at 50 years old and take drugs like they used to in their 20’s they are probably more aware of the risks than they were 30 years ago. It’s up to them.
I know there are many moral issues around drugs in general, which they probably don’t give a fuck about.

if these are people you socialise with at these gigs then I would say to not go with them anymore if you’re not into the drugs like they are

I am not ignorant to the ethical issues with drugs, but honestly unless everyone on this thread doesn’t eat chocolate, use an iPhone, shop on ASOS, etc etc etc… no judgement to any of it but my point is there is no ethical consumption under capitalism, and we all make decisions where we turn a blind eye to the reality.

You can't compare taking illegal drugs to buying a dress on ASOS!

Dear god I'd love to quantify the lives destroyed because of alcohol.

I've got so much to apologise for.

I'm keen to understand the lives ruined by MDMA and mushrooms. It's important to be aware of that so I'm going to read up. I no longer take any substances or drink. But I support mdma use. I accept I don't know how people are exploited here.

I'd prefer my child to take MDMA or mushrooms only occasionally ( if I felt I could trust the source) than getting drunk like I did every weekend in my 20s.

Sorry, but that’s bollocks. Supply chain issues with regulated consumer goods are completely different to supply chain issues with illegal drugs

I'm 54, and dp is 50. We are old skool ravers, and take mdma 2 or 3 times a year. I pace myself, don't have enough to make my jaw swing right off, and have a good old dance with my tribe. I love it, and it helps my arthritis.

There will come a point where I have to stop, obviously, but not quite yet...

People die in factories making fast fashion. The unworn clothes from ASOS and boohoo and shein etc end up in landfill, which is killing the planet.

I’m not saying it’s the same but yeah it’s still as unethical.

I don't really think it's any better or worse than using drugs at any age.

Er... It's an illegal drug that has to be either made here illegally or smuggled into the UK (much more common - China I believe is the biggest manufacturer).

So I'm not sure how you quantify whether it's 'better' or not.

Is 'only' 5 dead, 'better' than 10 dead? You aren't exactly going to say one is 'ethically sourced' now are you?

I don't know how anyone reconciles either at any level.

I think that's very difficult to answer - I have never been scary ever, but I am definitely not a perfect parent by any means. I think growing up with a volatile parent, whatever the cause, is very damaging.

I take mushrooms on a night out maybe once a month, other times I drink on a night out/party. Like most parents I do sometimes have a hangover (booze) which makes me a bit tired/less engaged but I would hope that doesn't have any major impact on them.

It’s sad.

and I say this as someone who had a brilliant time in the early 90s on the race scene 🤣 but that was then. As a mum of 3 in her early 50s I wouldn’t dream of revisiting those years. I was young, free of any responsibility, blindly optimistic. Now I would have too much to lose.

@SmugglersHaunt I am pretty gobsmacked. What gangs in the UK and county lines are a result of chocolate & ASOS.

They are STBXHs friends so no longer and issue.